posted January 28, 2014 12:31 PM            

I am a single mom and have met this Sag guy (who is much younger to me - 13 years age gap) at Gym. He started passing hints

that he is interested and soon proposed as well. He was so passionate initially, that even when I wanted to say "no" (as

there were too many differences between us), I said yes eventually when he proposed. He was too straight forward in what he

wants out of this relationship. We both know this will never turn into marriage,and have no long term commitment hence.

However, I have made this clear to him that "no commitment" doesn't mean "no loyalty". I will be loyal to him till the time

we are together and expect the same from him,to which he agreed.

I have recently started an online business as well,where we both are partners. For the first 2 months things went really

well, and we do enjoy each other's company. He makes me laugh a lot and the sex is just divine and awesome. My concern is

that since the last month (January specially), he has been behaving very detached and aloof. Not taking much initiatives in

calling or texting. Though, this month he had been busy in his sister's marriage, and had an excuse therefore. Still, I am

worried whether this relationship will work for us or not. Also, how would the business partnership go. BTW, he is quite

famous among girls and sometimes it seems, he also enjoys the attention. That makes me suspicious at times.

Here are our planetary positions -

My Natal Chart
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Sun 07°42' Capricorn
Moon 26°20' Taurus
Mercury 24°57' Sagittarius
Venus 08°57' Aquarius
Mars 13°37' Virgo
Jupiter 10°14' Virgo
Saturn 26°59' Virgo
Uranus 23°57' Scorpio
Neptune 20°51' Sagittarius
Pluto 21°31' Libra

His Natal Chart
---------------

Sun 08°27' Sagittarius
Moon 18°09' Aquarius
Mercury 22°17' Scorpio
Venus 20°09' Capricorn
Mars 27°35' Cancer
Jupiter 09°36' Libra
Saturn 13°26' Aquarius
Uranus 15°57' Capricorn
Neptune 17°18' Capricorn
Pluto 23°19' Scorpio

posted January 28, 2014 10:11 PM            

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Originally posted by kites30:
Hi there,

I am a single mom and have met this Sag guy (who is much younger to me - 13 years age gap) at Gym. He started passing hints

that he is interested and soon proposed as well. He was so passionate initially, that even when I wanted to say "no" (as

there were too many differences between us), I said yes eventually when he proposed. He was too straight forward in what he

wants out of this relationship. We both know this will never turn into marriage,and have no long term commitment hence.

However, I have made this clear to him that "no commitment" doesn't mean "no loyalty". I will be loyal to him till the time

we are together and expect the same from him,to which he agreed.

I have recently started an online business as well,where we both are partners. For the first 2 months things went really

well, and we do enjoy each other's company. He makes me laugh a lot and the sex is just divine and awesome. My concern is

that since the last month (January specially), he has been behaving very detached and aloof. Not taking much initiatives in

calling or texting. Though, this month he had been busy in his sister's marriage, and had an excuse therefore. Still, I am

worried whether this relationship will work for us or not. Also, how would the business partnership go. BTW, he is quite

famous among girls and sometimes it seems, he also enjoys the attention. That makes me suspicious at times.

Here are our planetary positions -

My Natal Chart
---------------

Sun 07°42' Capricorn
Moon 26°20' Taurus
Mercury 24°57' Sagittarius
Venus 08°57' Aquarius
Mars 13°37' Virgo
Jupiter 10°14' Virgo
Saturn 26°59' Virgo
Uranus 23°57' Scorpio
Neptune 20°51' Sagittarius
Pluto 21°31' Libra

His Natal Chart
---------------

Sun 08°27' Sagittarius
Moon 18°09' Aquarius
Mercury 22°17' Scorpio
Venus 20°09' Capricorn
Mars 27°35' Cancer
Jupiter 09°36' Libra
Saturn 13°26' Aquarius
Uranus 15°57' Capricorn
Neptune 17°18' Capricorn
Pluto 23°19' Scorpio

Thanks in advance. Any insight on this would be very helpful and highly appreciable.

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Hi,

I can try to give you insights on your relationship although you haven't posted an actual synastry chart.

First off, your suns are in different elements--fire and earth. You need stability and security. He needs adventure and spontaneity--which is completely at odds with your own needs. Secondly, your Moon is in Taurus, which exemplifies your need for emotional security and stability. You can't expect to get that from someone with their Moon in Aquarius. They are too emotionally detached just like most air signs. Plus, this placement of the Moon makes the person really flirtatious and sociable. They also like to be spontaneous so this totally isn't a good match for you. His Mercury is in a water sign and yours is in a fire sign. He could easily make you feel misunderstood when it comes to communication just like how water douses fire. The good thing is, your Venus is in the same sign as his Moon. To him, you are kind of the ideal partner because you are a spontaneous and intelligent woman who is innovative and original. He may also find that you understand his emotions and that you appreciate them. Both your Mars are in a compatible element. You match each other sex drive. Your sexual lives together could be really fun and exciting. For now that's all I have for you. I think I just explained why you feel uncomfortable with him being popular with girls and him being emotionally detached lately. I would recommend you post a synastry chart so you get get more explanations.

posted January 30, 2014 01:50 AM            

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Originally posted by happyaskings:
You already said the two of you agreed on no commitment/no long term. That kind of agreement means he can do as he pleases so why are you wondering what happens to the relationship? I would put distance there before you become more invested than it sounds like you already are.

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Thanks. I am sorry, I am a novice and don't know much. How do I exactly see what my natal chart is and what details should I exactly give to get a more accurate reading. Please guide.

posted January 30, 2014 06:38 AM            

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Originally posted by kites30:
Solar_Leo_Queen thank you so much for your insight. Yes, it was helpful. Can you tell me if he is trustworthy or not?

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Sagittarius are pretty honest with everything. His Moon in a fixed sign and his Venus in an earth sign can make him pretty loyal. Just beware of his Mercury being in Scorpio since that sign tends to be the most secretive of all signs. Like I said, I can't tell for sure without a full chart though, so this might not be as accurate. Planetary aspects could have a major impact on his personal makeup.

posted January 30, 2014 11:42 AM            

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Originally posted by kites30:
Hi there,

I am a single mom and have met this Sag guy (who is much younger to me - 13 years age gap) at Gym. He started passing hints

that he is interested and soon proposed as well. He was so passionate initially, that even when I wanted to say "no" (as

there were too many differences between us), I said yes eventually when he proposed. He was too straight forward in what he

wants out of this relationship. We both know this will never turn into marriage,and have no long term commitment hence.

However, I have made this clear to him that "no commitment" doesn't mean "no loyalty". I will be loyal to him till the time

we are together and expect the same from him,to which he agreed.

I have recently started an online business as well,where we both are partners. For the first 2 months things went really

well, and we do enjoy each other's company. He makes me laugh a lot and the sex is just divine and awesome. My concern is

that since the last month (January specially), he has been behaving very detached and aloof. Not taking much initiatives in

calling or texting. Though, this month he had been busy in his sister's marriage, and had an excuse therefore. Still, I am

worried whether this relationship will work for us or not. Also, how would the business partnership go. BTW, he is quite

famous among girls and sometimes it seems, he also enjoys the attention. That makes me suspicious at times.

Here are our planetary positions -

My Natal Chart
---------------

Sun 07°42' Capricorn
Moon 26°20' Taurus
Mercury 24°57' Sagittarius
Venus 08°57' Aquarius
Mars 13°37' Virgo
Jupiter 10°14' Virgo
Saturn 26°59' Virgo
Uranus 23°57' Scorpio
Neptune 20°51' Sagittarius
Pluto 21°31' Libra

His Natal Chart
---------------

Sun 08°27' Sagittarius
Moon 18°09' Aquarius
Mercury 22°17' Scorpio
Venus 20°09' Capricorn
Mars 27°35' Cancer
Jupiter 09°36' Libra
Saturn 13°26' Aquarius
Uranus 15°57' Capricorn
Neptune 17°18' Capricorn
Pluto 23°19' Scorpio

Thanks in advance. Any insight on this would be very helpful and highly appreciable.

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First off, being 13 years your junior is likely that he sees the world a whole lot differently than you do.

You are both at differing stages in your life and I wouldn't advise someone like you to expect commitment or tie yourself up to this guy. He is not at your level yet.

The current transits of Saturn are hitting his Moon, Mercury and Saturn. Ouch!

He is facing some major "growing up" issues right now and this could explain him cooling off.

You yourself will come face to face with an opposition transit from dutiful Saturn; putting your emotions into perspective.

You may go through a "cooling" off period from people as you re-examine the nature of your personal relationships: what you want, what you don't want, whom is loyal, whom is not loyal etc.

You will start to be more demanding in this regard and this transit may afford you with more clarity on what to do as you will have a list of desirable traits needed for personal security.

But, on the charts.

His Saturn conjuncts his Moon; great for business but no so good for personal relationships: He closes off a lot.

His Venus widely opposes his Mars; he blows hot and cold. Loves the chase but loses interest quickly.

On your side.

Your Saturn trines your Moon. Also good for business but not nearly as harsh as the conjunction.

Venus is in ideals, dreams and visionary Aquarius; you and your lover must share the same ideals.

Supporting that, is the Jupiter Mars conjunction. This aspect adds "devout" nature to one's beliefs. One can be rigid within this regards and can't be moved.