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Dreamy Fish
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From: Living in my dreams
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posted January 28, 2014 08:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreamy Fish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi everyone,

Today I saw my grandmother, dad's mom, pass away. I was there until the machines were shut off. She passed around 4pm CST.

She wasn't the nicest person so let's just say she didn't win mother of the year award. I'm more concerned for my dad as within the last 3 years 3 people, now 4, have died and he was close to them all.

My father is extremely emotional as am I. I hadn't seen my grandmother in close to a year but it was just tragic watching her deteriorate and seeing my aunts cry.

Can someone please pull a card about my dad, is he going to be ok? I don't know if my father can handle another close death. First he lost his best friend, my aunt's husband, to an aneurism. His death hit me pretty bad as to me he was like my grandfather. Then a year later his uncle loses his battle with lung cancer and 10 months after that, my uncle, his closet brother to leukemia.

I'm concerned for my dad.

Please, even if you can't or won't pull a card, send some positive energy his way to comfort him.

Thank you all!

DF

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 28, 2014 09:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aw sending love your way
Hope someone pulls a card for your dad

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LostTaurus
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From: Conway, AR, USA
Registered: Jan 2014

posted January 29, 2014 01:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LostTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I pulled the Ace of Hearts which is an indication of troubles lifting. I get the sense your dad will be fine after his period of grief has run it's course. What's more, I get the sense that his mother's passing is going to lead to some very beneficial soul-searching for him. Allow him the time and space to do this and I think he'll actually come out a better man for it from a soul perspective - stronger and more at peace.

Hope this helps. Prayers, good vibes and positive thoughts to you and yours.

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Dreamy Fish
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From: Living in my dreams
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posted January 31, 2014 10:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreamy Fish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you RunAroundScreaming for the love.

LostTaurus: thank you for pulling a card for my dad. We buried her today but even though my father was struggling, after we left the cemetery and went to a luncheon, it's like something was lifted off of his shoulders, almost as if he were finally free, if that makes any sense.

Thanks again for the kind gesture.

DF

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littlecloud
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posted February 01, 2014 04:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecloud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm sorry to hear about his struggles. On the bright side it sounds like he's going to be ok from what you describes, like a part if him was also put to rest with his mother. Maybe a little grief counseling would help if it's available to him.

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LostTaurus
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From: Conway, AR, USA
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posted February 01, 2014 05:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LostTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It does make sense DF. I expect he'll make some peace with this transition. Hope it brings you both some. I agree with littlecloud, should either (or both) of you need it.

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