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Aquarius5
Newflake

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posted January 30, 2014 04:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquarius5     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Hello,

Nice to meet you, all.


Less than a week ago, I hooked up with a Taurus guy, whom I met in graduate school two years ago.

There was no plan, but only a night of heavy drinking.

Given that, I wonder if I will be able to develop genuine friendship with him, or if I ruined the possibility with my sexual urge.

I feel that the Taurus has some interest in me as a human being, but I do feel that there is still some sexual tension between us.

Is it a connection that may be lost easily?

We have been communicating with each other quiet a bit via text messages.


Thank you for reading this.

Any insight will be helpful.

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LostTaurus
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From: Conway, AR, USA
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posted January 30, 2014 02:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LostTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Aquarius5! I don't read synastry, but I am a Taurus tried-and-true and an empathic. I can tell you that your very best bet for fostering a real friendship with this man is to 1) be honest, sincere and rational with yourself and with him, 2) speak to his sense of reason and logic, 3) don't rush things - we're very organic and refuse to be pushed, cajoled or manipulated (and we can generally sense it from a mile away).

Hope this helps! If you have further questions outside of synastry, I'll be glad to do what I can.

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Aquarius5
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posted January 30, 2014 09:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquarius5     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, LostTarus.

Actually, during the last night's conversation, the Taurus guy was encouraging me to be more honest and open, and I finally started to show him my vulnerable sides.

He said the following:
"Please tell me what's in your head."
"I would love to know."
"I want to know LITERALLY everything on your mind."

(Due to some people-related incident a few years ago, I am always afraid of being judged. I also have some communication problems)

Last night, when he wanted me tell him what I think about, I tried to tell him how weird it feels for me to want him as a friend as much as I do right now.

Of course, having never said such things before in my life, and with the sex that already happened, my speech became very awkward.

As I struggled in making my point without being more awkward, the Taurus said,
"You already won me over, so you can just take a deep breath and relax. . . Cool?"

Wow. Is that just something a Taurus says?
He seems to have the power to lift people up and make them feel safe.
He does not just respond, but puts me on a very warm and safe place. I wonder if he has a high intuitive sense

If you have any insight in terms of what the Taurus said, please let me know.
I don't know if I am interpreting his casual comments overly meaningful (as I often do).

I might meet him today.

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LostTaurus
Knowflake

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From: Conway, AR, USA
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posted January 30, 2014 11:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LostTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It sounds to me like he is genuinely intent on getting to know you as a person - that he's interested. We are pretty frank communicators as a rule. And fiercely trustworthy as well, for what it's worth, if we're evolved - deeply compassionate and not highly judgmental of anything besides character weakness (which we find completely intolerable).

Still and all...take it SLOWLY, organically. We're a fixed earth sign - we don't make decisions quickly; we feel things out, assess bigger pictures, fit things into context before we 'decide' if there's more than just today there. And trust me when I say, we can compartmentalize sexuality like PROS because we genuinely love it so much when it's good. We'll put you through a proving ground to see if you're trustworthy - because we're often so frank (and just a little altruistic); dishonesty is generally a real sticking point with us - we want you to be authentic.

Build a friendship with him. Trust and respect are key. Hope this helps.

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Aquarius5
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posted January 31, 2014 12:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquarius5     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, LostTaurus.
Your insight is helping me a lot, especially in becoming calm in my approach...

I started to see what you said about the frank quality of Taurus, especially because I had completely misjudged him before from a distance, for being arrogant (I think, from the distinctively relaxed and laid-back vibe that he at all times exudes, as well as an appropriate level of reticence he often demonstrates in group settings, which I find attractive). What I've been seeing from him, after being closer, are in fact qualities that are opposite to arrogance: humility and empathy.

I will keep in mind, what you said about taking things "slow and organically." In fact, one of the hurdles in my relationship with people in general has been exactly that: getting too excited too quickly (whereby I confuse them, I guess), sometimes ending up getting unexpectedly harsh responses, and becoming too protective towards myself to a degree of paranoia. I was in such state when I met the Taurus.

The Taurus, however, seems that he wants me to open up and just relax. In the back of my head, I am still afraid of judgment, but I will try to be just honest and comfortable.

Thank you.

It would be nice if you let me know when any insight comes up in your empathic mind.

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