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poochycat Knowflake Posts: 202 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted January 31, 2014 11:31 AM
I have decided I will no longer log on to this site. I have tried and tried to get a reading and have to literally beg. I have noticed that if you have nothing to give in return ie: a card reading that one is just wasting their time. The site advertises as saying "Free readings of any kind offered." It does NOT say that one must have a knowledge in reading cards in order to get one in return! I came to this site as I have very limited knowledge of astrology and would like to learn but I see it has also become a popularity contest with the same people asking questions over and over. I understand it takes a bit of time to do a reading but if you don't have the knowledge to do one in return what is the purpose of this site?IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 5899 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted January 31, 2014 11:56 AM
Try to offer readings even if you don't know how to -- try and learn =). Have fun, don't go! ------------------ Tarot Readings by Me ReadingsbyAzul Me - Virgo Sun. Cancer Moon. Aquarius Ascendant Kidsfather - Pisces Sun. Sagittarius Moon. Libra Ascendant Son - Virgo Sun. Libra Moon. Virgo Ascendant Daughter - Virgo Sun. Aquarius Moon. Sagittarius Ascendant IP: Logged |
poochycat Knowflake Posts: 202 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted January 31, 2014 12:04 PM
Sorry but I don't want to give out my credit card information.IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 5899 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted January 31, 2014 12:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by poochycat: Sorry but I don't want to give out my credit card information.
Huh? ------------------ Tarot Readings by Me ReadingsbyAzul Me - Virgo Sun. Cancer Moon. Aquarius Ascendant Kidsfather - Pisces Sun. Sagittarius Moon. Libra Ascendant Son - Virgo Sun. Libra Moon. Virgo Ascendant Daughter - Virgo Sun. Aquarius Moon. Sagittarius Ascendant IP: Logged |
poochycat Knowflake Posts: 202 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted January 31, 2014 12:31 PM
What I meant was I don't want to have to pay for a reading over the internet. Readings by Azul.IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 5899 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted January 31, 2014 12:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by poochycat: What I meant was I don't want to have to pay for a reading over the internet. Readings by Azul.
I'm not asking you to =)..you don't have to ------------------ Tarot Readings by Me ReadingsbyAzul Me - Virgo Sun. Cancer Moon. Aquarius Ascendant Kidsfather - Pisces Sun. Sagittarius Moon. Libra Ascendant Son - Virgo Sun. Libra Moon. Virgo Ascendant Daughter - Virgo Sun. Aquarius Moon. Sagittarius Ascendant IP: Logged |
poochycat Knowflake Posts: 202 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted January 31, 2014 12:43 PM
O.K. I don't quite understand. Are you offering me a reading, Empress?IP: Logged |
LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 130 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 31, 2014 12:49 PM
I think that was a jab at you Empress. poochycat, I actually pulled cards for your most recent query last night. However, they told me nothing substantial, so I marked it off to not having a connection to your concern. Sometimes that happens, and I'm sure I'm not the only one to whom it does.At the end of the day I encourage you to consider that each of us does this out of a genuine desire to help someone out in some way. I wouldn't presume to speak for everyone on here, but I can tell you for my own course that I have bad days, 'off' days, feel specific connections or not to any given question or query; and I base my responses (or lack thereof) on those factors - if I have nothing to contribute, I'd just further serve to muddy the waters. I don't feel it's universal, this gift. I think we're drawn to ask and answer specific questions of specific people at specific times - not because of what they can do for us, but because it's our purpose in that moment. So to try to parrot off something to you 'just so that you get a response' would be unfair to you and a gross abuse of the gift. Again, this is only my own perception (and I'd love to hear those of others), but I hope it helps you see things from a different perspective and maybe answers at least a couple of "whys" for you. IP: Logged |
poochycat Knowflake Posts: 202 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted January 31, 2014 01:03 PM
Thanks Losttaurus. I am just a bit frustrated in that I am rarely chosen. But I have made connections to those that have read for me. Thanks for your insight. (I am a Taurus as well.)IP: Logged |
Twirl Knowflake Posts: 3024 From: Europe Registered: Mar 2013
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posted January 31, 2014 01:03 PM
I disagree with you. A lot of people help out each other for the help without asking anything in return. Also, you have had lots of other people read for you in the past & I know norainnorainbows kindly spend a lot of her time reading for you. It's not your right that people read for you in their own time and I also do not understand the great dramatic fuss over this.
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LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 130 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 31, 2014 01:15 PM
I understand poochycat. I just wanted to be clear in my process - I answer brand new questions from brand new people with nothing to 'offer me in return' all the time...IF what I see can help them in some way. And I know for a fact that I'm not the only one who responds this way, because Enlightened helped me out when I was BRAND NEW and had no clues at all. I strive to pay that forward all the time; and anytime I see that she needs something, will do my best to contribute. IP: Logged |
poochycat Knowflake Posts: 202 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted January 31, 2014 01:17 PM
norainnorainbows as well as Ellyn have been wonderful but I'm sorry Twirl I'm still standing by my original statement in that the same people are chosen over and over, because, they offer readings in return. Just take a look at some of the members who offer let's say five tarot readings and are bombarded with maybe fifty! And then questions are asked re the original question holding everyone else up. That is what I don't feel is fair.IP: Logged |
poochycat Knowflake Posts: 202 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted January 31, 2014 01:17 PM
norainnorainbows as well as Ellyn have been wonderful but I'm sorry Twirl I'm still standing by my original statement in that the same people are chosen over and over, because, they offer readings in return. Just take a look at some of the members who offer let's say five tarot readings and are bombarded with maybe fifty! And then questions are asked re the original question holding everyone else up. That is what I don't feel is fair.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 36847 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 31, 2014 01:33 PM
That is simple Universal Law. If you give, you receive many times over, so, in that essence, it is fair. But it doesn't mean you should be upset. People are volunteering their time, and threads move down the list quickly. Keep bumping the thread, and someone will help you. Be patient.IP: Logged |
poochycat Knowflake Posts: 202 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted January 31, 2014 01:48 PM
Hi RandallCould you tell me how to bump a thread, I don't know how. Sorry. IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 5899 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted January 31, 2014 02:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by LostTaurus: I think that was a jab at you Empress. poochycat, I actually pulled cards for your most recent query last night. However, they told me nothing substantial, so I marked it off to not having a connection to your concern. Sometimes that happens, and I'm sure I'm not the only one to whom it does.At the end of the day I encourage you to consider that each of us does this out of a genuine desire to help someone out in some way. I wouldn't presume to speak for everyone on here, but I can tell you for my own course that I have bad days, 'off' days, feel specific connections or not to any given question or query; and I base my responses (or lack thereof) on those factors - if I have nothing to contribute, I'd just further serve to muddy the waters. I don't feel it's universal, this gift. I think we're drawn to ask and answer specific questions of specific people at specific times - not because of what they can do for us, but because it's our purpose in that moment. So to try to parrot off something to you 'just so that you get a response' would be unfair to you and a gross abuse of the gift. Again, this is only my own perception (and I'd love to hear those of others), but I hope it helps you see things from a different perspective and maybe answers at least a couple of "whys" for you.
Lol, I was simply going with the flow, sweetie ------------------ Tarot Readings by Me ReadingsbyAzul Me - Virgo Sun. Cancer Moon. Aquarius Ascendant Kidsfather - Pisces Sun. Sagittarius Moon. Libra Ascendant Son - Virgo Sun. Libra Moon. Virgo Ascendant Daughter - Virgo Sun. Aquarius Moon. Sagittarius Ascendant IP: Logged |
LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 130 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 31, 2014 02:48 PM
Empress, I have no idea why I found myself oddly protective of you there, I just did. IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 5899 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted January 31, 2014 02:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by LostTaurus: Empress, I have no idea why I found myself oddly protective of you there, I just did.
------------------ Tarot Readings by Me ReadingsbyAzul Me - Virgo Sun. Cancer Moon. Aquarius Ascendant Kidsfather - Pisces Sun. Sagittarius Moon. Libra Ascendant Son - Virgo Sun. Libra Moon. Virgo Ascendant Daughter - Virgo Sun. Aquarius Moon. Sagittarius Ascendant IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 36847 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 31, 2014 06:03 PM
You just post in it, and it moves it to the top of the page. I usually just post: *bump*IP: Logged |
coolingembers Knowflake Posts: 429 From: California Registered: Nov 2013
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posted January 31, 2014 07:15 PM
If you can't take time out to learn horary/tarot/chat reading, don't expect others who HAVE to read for you. Its rude. Bye. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 1282 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 31, 2014 07:29 PM
You're sounding quite entitled. And no need to be snarky at Empress...She was being nice. Attention seeking isn't very attractive. And this whole thread is about just that. *shakes head*Cya. IP: Logged |
birdy Knowflake Posts: 1285 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 31, 2014 08:03 PM
I agree with the last 2 responses. IP: Logged |
clarkkent Knowflake Posts: 45 From: ny Registered: Jun 2013
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posted January 31, 2014 08:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
haha i foudn this weird empress. im aquarius sun cancer moon and virgo ascendant. we sorta flipped thats all
and to the poster, sometimes my readings dont get answered as well. i take it as its probably a sign i am not suppose to know. just try to stay optimistic.
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poochycat Knowflake Posts: 202 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted January 31, 2014 09:00 PM
Sorry I got some peoples panties in a knot. Well you won't be hearing from me from awhile or ever for that matter. More serious health issues to contend with. Nice chatting with you all.IP: Logged |
AriesLilith Knowflake Posts: 475 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 31, 2014 09:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by LostTaurus: I think that was a jab at you Empress. poochycat, I actually pulled cards for your most recent query last night. However, they told me nothing substantial, so I marked it off to not having a connection to your concern. Sometimes that happens, and I'm sure I'm not the only one to whom it does.At the end of the day I encourage you to consider that each of us does this out of a genuine desire to help someone out in some way. I wouldn't presume to speak for everyone on here, but I can tell you for my own course that I have bad days, 'off' days, feel specific connections or not to any given question or query; and I base my responses (or lack thereof) on those factors - if I have nothing to contribute, I'd just further serve to muddy the waters. I don't feel it's universal, this gift. I think we're drawn to ask and answer specific questions of specific people at specific times - not because of what they can do for us, but because it's our purpose in that moment. So to try to parrot off something to you 'just so that you get a response' would be unfair to you and a gross abuse of the gift. Again, this is only my own perception (and I'd love to hear those of others), but I hope it helps you see things from a different perspective and maybe answers at least a couple of "whys" for you.
This is so true. I'm not a psychic or card reader, I just started reading other people's chart recently, but I also need to feel affinity and in tune with my own intuition as well as the chart to be read, in order to be able to contribute. I try to read but if I feel that I can't really grasp the general feel of it, I'd have to skip the chart. It wouldn't be good to parrot anything just for the sake of giving a reading, I might not be accurate and that would not be good for the person in need. IP: Logged |