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Topic: What is going on in this relationship??
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hallecat
Newflake Posts: 2
From: Canada
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 04, 2014 11:44 PM
  
We have this intense emotional connection, but I don't know how he feels about me. We'll stay up till 7 a.m. talking about everything and anything under the sun, and then in front of other people he acts like a completely different person. I don't get it. We play mind games with each other constantly and we've both made it very clear through our actions that we crave being with each other, but then he gets all distant. I retaliate by ignoring him in front of others, but I can see how hurt he feels and how angry he gets when I act happy around other people. I feel the same way when he does as well. It's super weird. I've told him how possessive and jealous I am of him and he seemed perfectly at ease with it, but he has yet to state how he feels about me. It makes me suspicious. Nothing physical has happened yet, but he gives me those sensual bedroom eyes (he's a Scorpio rising) that just drives me wild. I just have no idea what's going on and he'll never admit to how he feels about me. What do you guys think?
To clarify, I just have NO idea what's going on in this relationship nor how to handle it. It's driving me INSANE. I can't even describe my level of obsession. It's so utterly unhealthy and I've actively tried to break out of it but it's so hard.We work together as well, so I literally cannot separate myself from this person. Nothing physical has happened yet. We mainly just hug and cuddle. I don't know why. We started hanging out one-on-one beginning early November. Here's our composite: http://i35.photobucket.com/albums/d190/bunnyboy12/compositecharrttt_zps630bd9e6.png Also worth noting, his venus conjuncts composite sun and mercury. My sun and moon conjunct composite venus and my mars conjuncts composite moon.
In synastry we have moon/pluto double whammy, venus/pluto double whammy, mars square pluto EXACT (0 degree orb), mercury trine pluto, but we also have moon conjunct saturn, mars conjunct saturn, sun trine saturn, venus sextile mars, and sun & moon sextile each other.
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AriesLilith
Knowflake Posts: 499
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 05, 2014 09:56 AM
With Sun/Mercury trine Uranus/Neptune and oppose Pluto, this relationship has the potential to be a sensitive and deep one in terms of connection. Venus square Uranus/Neptune shows that this relationship can be very electrical and dreamy like, a kind of soulmate feeling between you that can be intense. You idealize and dream about each other. With Venus in the midpoint of Sun/Moon, the emotional connection becomes even more highlighted in this relationship.
Thought this square might be too much for a commitment, which requires more stability and less idealization. Also, while idealism and exciteness can be fine in a not yet serious relationship (crush phase), it can become problematic when commitment starts.
And then there's this t-square between Pluto, Saturn and Mars/Mercury/Sun. You might become controlling, manipulative, angry with each other, which can translate to cruelty and coldness, with a desire to punish each other and getting hurt then. Also, Chiron/Pluto is oppose Saturn/Sun midpoint, further showing potential to hurt each other through coldness and cruelty.IP: Logged | |
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