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luckystar25
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posted February 06, 2014 12:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for luckystar25     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I tried to figure out how to do the chart for the soul mate synastry but i am a little confused, but so far it looked like it, can anyone help?


Me:
Sun: picses
Ascendant:aquarious
Moon:virgo
Venus:aries
Mercury :aquarious
Midhev: scorpio
Mars:capricon
Pluto:scorpio
Northnode: pisces

Him:
Sun:virgo
Asendant: scorpio
Moon:cancer
Venus:leo
Mars:virgo
Northnode: taurus
Mercury:virgo
Midheav: scorpio

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vesta
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posted February 06, 2014 07:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vesta     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Most people will post a chart

I cannot tell with a posted chart so if you post
Your info and his you can remove after I get it. I will pull charts and look.

Usually I look for the obvious signs first

Angle aspect angle
Venus aspect pluto
Several other aspects and
Soulmate asteroids as well.
The orbs need to be tight

There is quite a bit of work involved so I like to use my program. Be patient as it could take me a while ( few days).

You must have correct birth day, place and TIME.
If the time is incorrect it will be a false reading.

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vesta
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posted February 06, 2014 07:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vesta     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here is IQ 's calculator for soul mate synastry

quote:
Originally posted by iQ:
Can be used as Male to Female or vice versa

Aspect Orbs:
Conjunction
a) Maximum 3.0 degrees Orb when Ascendant, Sun, Moon and Venus are involved.
b) Maximum 2.0 degrees Orb for Asteroids, Mars, Saturn, Pluto when a) is not involved.

Trines, Quincunx and Opposition
a) Maximum 2.0 degrees Orb when Ascendant, Sun, Moon and Venus are involved.
b) Maximum 1 degree 30 minutes Orb for Asteroids, Mars, Saturn, Pluto when a) is not involved.

The synastry calculator may give invalid results if there is less than 40 days difference between the couple.

For reference:
[Generic Love Objects] = AMOR, VALENTINE, EROS, JUNO

[Generic Fate Objects] = N Node, Saturn, Karma, Tyche, Fortuna, Destinn


Universal Filter Rule:
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Ascendant of either person must conjunct a Generic Love Object, a Generic Fate Object or any of these: Asc, Sun, Moon, Mars, Venus, Pluto and Asteroids UNION and ANGEL.
Maximum 3 degrees orb.
Ascendant trine/opp Asc, Moon, Sun, Saturn or Karma within 2 degrees orb is also valid.

If this is not true, proceed further with caution as the couple cannot be true love relationship soulmates, even though happiness cannot be ruled out.
If birth time is unknown, the Sun can be used in place of Ascendant and Sun conjunct Moon should not be used as a confirmation.

The Points Table
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Sun conj [Aphrodite, Venus, Psyche, Moon,Sun]: 5 points

Mars conj [Aphrodite, Psyche]: 4 points

EROS conj [Aphrodite, Venus]: 4 points

Pluto conj [Aphrodite, Venus, Psyche, Moon]: 3 points

Sun trine [Aphrodite, Venus, Psyche]: 3 points

Mars trine [Aphrodite, Psyche]: 2 points

EROS trine [Aphrodite, Venus]: 3 points

Pluto trine [Aphrodite, Venus, Psyche]: 2 points

[Asc, Sun, Moon] conj [Generic Love Objects]: 5 points

[Asc, Sun, Moon] trine [Generic Love Objects]: 2 points

[Asc, Sun, Moon] opp/quincunx [Generic Love Objects]: 1 point

[Mars, Venus, Pluto] conj [Generic Love Objects]: 3 points

[Mars, Venus, Pluto] trine [Generic Love Objects]: 1 point

[Mars, Venus, Pluto] opp [Generic Love Objects]: 1 point

[Asc, Sun, Moon] conj [Generic Fate Objects]: 3 points

[Asc, Sun, Moon] trine [Generic Fate Objects]: 1 points

[Asc, Sun, Moon] opp/quincunx [Generic Fate Objects]: 1 point

[Mars, Venus, Pluto] conj [Generic Fate Objects]: 2 points

[Mars, Venus, Pluto] trine [Generic Fate Objects]: 1 point

[Mars, Venus, Pluto] opp [Generic Fate Objects]: 1 point

[Generic Fate Object] conj [Generic Love Objects]: 2 points

[Generic Fate Object] trine/opp [Generic Love Objects]:1 point

[Generic Fate Object] conj [Generic Fate Objects]: 2 points

[Generic Fate Object] trine/opp [Generic Fate Objects]:1 point

[Generic Love Object] conj [Generic Love Objects]: 3 points

[Generic Love Object] trine/opp [Generic Love Objects]:2 points


[Sun or Mars or EROS or Pluto] and
[Venus or Aphrodite or Psyche or Juno] in same element = 1 point.

Chiron conj Moon, VALENTINE, Karma: 1pt

Pluto trine/conj Mars or Sun: 2 pts

VESTA trine/conj Sun, Mars, Eros or Pluto: 1 pt

LUST trine/conj Mars, Valentine, Amor, Lust, Eros, Karma, Aphrodite, Vesta or Venus : 1 pt

Neptune conjunct/trine JUNO, VALENTINE, AMOR, LUST, EROS

For the following, we have a Soulmate Attraction, 5 pts
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Valid Aspects: Conjunction, Opposition, Quincunx and Trine.
Orbs: 3 degrees for Conjunction, 2 degrees for others.

Pluto aspect Persephone or Proserpine
Zeus aspect Hera
Eros aspect Psyche
Mars aspect Venus
Osiris aspect Isis
Adonis aspect Innanen


Fated-SoulMate Pair Linking Aspects: 3 pts
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This is complex and needs a through check.
If any SoulMate pair is linked through the same fate Object, add 3 points.

example:
A's Zeus quincunx B's Saturn and A's Saturn opp B's HERA is a valid link. A's Pluto conj B's Destinn and A's Destinn trine B's Persephone or B's Proserpine is also valid.

I highly recommend a professional Draconic and Sabian Symbol check for those who score highly using this true love soul mate calculation framework from any reputed local psychic astrologer.

Note: Dangerous Aspect that needs an astrologer's opinion is negative
aspects to Nessus and Dejanira.
Male's Nessus/Pluto/Mars squaring Female's Dejanira even by 3 degrees is dangerous. Other negative aspects are of Asteroid Swindle/Lie. Any guy with Neptune conjunct Swindle or Lie squaring the girl's Dejanira has chances of taking her for a ride. Standard negative aspects are Mars sq
Merury, Neptune sq Mercury and Saturn sq/opp Pluto but these can be tackled with a higher overall score.

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Scores:
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Score Categories will be finalized in a week's time.

Enjoy the calculations!

Edit: Updated on the website. www.tamsoft.co.in/soulmates.html


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Heartsong11
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posted February 06, 2014 07:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartsong11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh this list is awesome. Thanks Vesta.

I'm trying to figure out a soulmate connection for a while now and just started using asteroids too

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vesta
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posted February 06, 2014 08:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vesta     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know IQ uses Zeus and Hera. But I personally do not like them as yes he loved her but was always cheating on her and I do not believe that soul mates would cheat on each other if the love is real and true.

Also he mentions lie and swindle to watch out for I also add asteroid bilk which I started a thread on in asteroids forum. Watch for these asteroids aspecting love asteroids make sure you know what they are doing in the chart especially if they are aspecting planets.
( one of my soul mates has asteroid lie conjunct anteros opp my vertex) That would sound bad but it was there because he was showing me the truth in my situation it was our karma. SO MAKE SURE you know what the asteroids are trying to tell you.

I also have found that soulmate's point of identity will figure into the synastry as well.

For karmic look to point of karma and PNE also asteroid karma. If it is a true karmic relationship you will most likely have one of the first two ( POK and PNE) the asteroid alone may not be enough.

And name asteroids will tend to line up with specific planets or points in chart.

Once you have this then you can compare the Draco charts with natal and Draco.

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Heartsong11
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posted February 06, 2014 08:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartsong11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I tried Zeus and Hera but they weren't doing anything in our charts. And now I know the story I don't think they would be great for soulmate synastry either.

I've had an interest in astrology since I can remember but I'm only now starting to study it so I'm not all that familiar with asteroids. They seem relevant in my charts though and I find them fascinating. I couldn't believe how the name asteroids seemed to come into play for me and this soulmate.

Thanks for the heads up on lie and swindle. I'll be checking for those later.

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vesta
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posted February 06, 2014 08:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vesta     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

One thing I found with my soul mate

On the day I was born I looked at his progressions for the day and place he was at the time of my birth.

His sun and moon were conjunct my name asteroid in his chart on my sun/Moon midpoint exact. They aspected his DSC and Saturn exact. ( karmic )

I don't remember the rest but there were other aspects.

anyway have fun !

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Heartsong11
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posted February 06, 2014 09:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartsong11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow that seems significant. Can't wait to go home and check that in our charts.

I haven't got our charts to look at but the day we meet for the first time his name asteroid conjunct my juno exact.

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vesta
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posted February 06, 2014 09:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vesta     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Heartsong11:
Wow that seems significant. Can't wait to go home and check that in our charts.

I haven't got our charts to look at but the day we meet for the first time his name asteroid conjunct my juno exact.


The thing to remember with Juno is she represents relationships of all kinds not just partners. she could be friends ect...

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AriesLilith
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posted February 06, 2014 10:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesLilith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Usually conjunctions to South Node can show past life connections.

Also, there might be some epic pattern in the synastry that makes one drops jaws lol. For example, with my husband, we have:

- his Boda trine my Sun (0);
- my Boda trine his Moon (1);

- his Groom conjunct my Sun (2);
- my Briede conjunct his Moon (4);

- his Union conjunct my Groom/AC (1/0);
- my Union conjunct his Briede (0);

(we have opposed ACs)

- his dBoda trine my dBriede (3);
- my dBoda trine his dGroom (2);

- his dGroom conjunct my dBriede (0).

(d<asteroid name> means draconic chart positions)

And when we met and started dating too, there were some transits involving love asteroids too.

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Heartsong11
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posted February 06, 2014 11:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartsong11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by vesta:
The thing to remember with Juno is she represents relationships of all kinds not just partners. she could be friends ect...

Yeah I see Juno as an indicator some sort of a relationship. I've seen it in the charts of my parents during transits when they met or when I was born.

I'm going to have a closer look at all connections.

I know we have Union and Child conjunctions to moon,
Karma conj Saturn exact
Some Apollo connections I can't think of now.

Anyways thanks again for the list. I shall have fun figuring it all out later

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Heartsong11
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posted February 06, 2014 11:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartsong11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by AriesLilith:
Usually conjunctions to South Node can show past life connections.

Also, there might be some epic pattern in the synastry that makes one drops jaws lol. For example, with my husband


My South Node conj his Mercury and Uranus (wide orb so not sure I really want to count these)

My POF conj his SN exact but again I'm not sure what to make of it.

As for the pattern, I have yet to find one in our synastry.
Although our natal charts both have planets clustered in the same area.

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posted February 06, 2014 11:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartsong11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Double Post this keeps happening to me lol

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Heartsong11
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posted February 06, 2014 11:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartsong11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Heartsong11
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posted February 06, 2014 11:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartsong11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Triple post

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AriesLilith
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posted February 06, 2014 11:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesLilith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Heartsong11:
My South Node conj his Mercury and Uranus (wide orb so not sure I really want to count these)

My POF conj his SN exact but again I'm not sure what to make of it.

As for the pattern, I have yet to find one in our synastry.
Although our natal charts both have planets clustered in the same area.


By the way, the composite too, specially Venus conjunct South Node can show past life romantic connection.

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luckystar25
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posted February 06, 2014 12:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for luckystar25     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, my birthday is 3/3/88, i was born at 4:10 am in boston ma, his is 9/10/85 @ 12:00 pm in boston ma, i appreciate it!


quote:
Originally posted by vesta:
Most people will post a chart

I cannot tell with a posted chart so if you post
Your info and his you can remove after I get it. I will pull charts and look.

Usually I look for the obvious signs first

Angle aspect angle
Venus aspect pluto
Several other aspects and
Soulmate asteroids as well.
The orbs need to be tight

There is quite a bit of work involved so I like to use my program. Be patient as it could take me a while ( few days).

You must have correct birth day, place and TIME.
If the time is incorrect it will be a false reading.


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vesta
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posted February 06, 2014 01:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vesta     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by luckystar25:
Hi, my birthday is 3/3/88, i was born at 4:10 am in boston ma, his is 9/10/85 @ 12:00 pm in boston ma, i appreciate it!



Was he born at 12 pm exact ?
If not the reading will be off and for a soulmate synastry I need exact birth time as the orbs need to be tight.

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vesta
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posted February 06, 2014 01:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vesta     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by AriesLilith:
Usually conjunctions to South Node can show past life connections.

Also, there might be some epic pattern in the synastry that makes one drops jaws lol. For example, with my husband, we have:

- his Boda trine my Sun (0);
- my Boda trine his Moon (1);

- his Groom conjunct my Sun (2);
- my Briede conjunct his Moon (4);

- his Union conjunct my Groom/AC (1/0);
- my Union conjunct his Briede (0);

(we have opposed ACs)

- his dBoda trine my dBriede (3);
- my dBoda trine his dGroom (2);

- his dGroom conjunct my dBriede (0).

(d<asteroid name> means draconic chart positions)

And when we met and started dating too, there were some transits involving love asteroids too.


I like those aspects ! Very nice

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luckystar25
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posted February 06, 2014 03:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for luckystar25     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes he was

QUOTE]Originally posted by vesta:
Was he born at 12 pm exact ?
If not the reading will be off and for a soulmate synastry I need exact birth time as the orbs need to be tight.
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Jo B
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posted February 06, 2014 03:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jo B     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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vesta
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posted February 07, 2014 10:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vesta     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lucky star,

I was going to look at the charts for you however, due to mercury rx I am having trouble with my computer. I will keep trying.

Even my daughter had trouble yesterday with her computer she accidentally stepped on the back of computer and broke her screen.

That's the way it goes when mercury is rx !

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luckystar25
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posted February 09, 2014 11:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for luckystar25     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aww well thank you anyway!


QUOTE]Originally posted by vesta:
Lucky star,

I was going to look at the charts for you however, due to mercury rx I am having trouble with my computer. I will keep trying.

Even my daughter had trouble yesterday with her computer she accidentally stepped on the back of computer and broke her screen.

That's the way it goes when mercury is rx !

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