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posted February 10, 2014 03:20 PM            

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I'm not looking for a read dear, I've thought about you off and on the past few days. Just hoping you're doing well!!! You've been such an awesome person to encounter on LL amongst many others of course. As always I'm sending you the most positive vibes possible Look forward to hearing from you!

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posted February 10, 2014 08:20 PM            

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Bless your heart PG8! I'm struggling a bit, but mostly only with myself I think. Outside of the wonderful things I can see ahead (and which have been largely confirmed for me here), I'm right now in a less-than-optimal physical and mental headspace. I keep reminding myself it's only a few more months, and praying that is the case. So THANK YOU SINCERELY for the positive thoughts and vibes - they are gratefully and humbly received!

I hope you're well! And of course I'm always sending any positive vibe that comes my way forward to you and all of my friends here.

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posted February 11, 2014 08:40 AM            

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It's not easy having patience when the harshness of the presence can be so stretched out and seemingly never ending. Awwwww I know ALL about such circumstances. Yet I am glad that you do have some good prospects on the horizon. I'll keep you in heart and such, as you champion on through this! You're gonna survive it [of course you are!] Great is the day I get to hear of the wonderful things in store. I'm so nosy! lol

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posted February 13, 2014 02:52 PM            

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Hey LT! How are you? I'm snowed in and perusing LL in between other household obligations. Someone was on my mind heavy last night.

Neither one of us really sought after the other this week; your advice was spot-on. Had I initiated an inquiry about seeing each other, I think your feedback on a fall out would've been imminent. Suddenly last night my disdain for him up and lifted, and I've began missing him again. I sent him a photo [an honest power play] to which he responded. But I intentionally didn't respond back. Trying to keep that needed space this week especially from conversation. Do you feel it's reciprocated a bit? As far as missing me? Seems like he's an "absence makes the heart (or whatever) grow fonder" kind of guy these days…

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posted February 13, 2014 04:52 PM            

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I am struggling mightily PG8, but mostly winning...I think. :/

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posted February 13, 2014 05:02 PM            

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Looks good PG: 8/Hearts, 6/Clubs, 6/Spades. 8/H hints at the possibility of an unexpected gift or visit, 6/C at success and 6/S at small changes and improvements!

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posted February 13, 2014 05:11 PM            

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I wish I could give you a HUGE hug! I hate hearing special ppl go through the trenches! I am proud to see you're still a force to be reckoned with. As you should be because you're going through all of this to get to something! I will do my best to keep cheering you on!!!

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I am struggling mightily PG8, but mostly winning...I think. :/

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posted February 14, 2014 09:09 AM            

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Btw thank you for the feedback. I thought I responded to that. Always appreciated. Simply on a wait and see agenda right now I suppose, unless I feel so inclined to (again) make the first move. Happy Valentine's Day LT

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posted February 14, 2014 09:15 AM            

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Happy, Happy Valentine's Day dear PG Every positive thought and cheering vibe is felt and greatly appreciated. Have a BEAUTIFUL day!!

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posted February 16, 2014 12:12 PM            

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Hi LT. Good Morning/Afternoon to you!

There was a point in time you mentioned communicating/seeing one another this past week, might be a bad idea. Though it's Sunday, maybe that still applies.

Yesterday was some sketchy dialogue; not all bad but definitely not good. He questioned why I didn't see him this past week as IF he was stood up by me. But frankly [i mentioned this to you] neither he nor I were looking for one another to proceed that route He has me assuming that he's saying this to make me feel bad possibly. Because I find it a bit hard to believe he still wanted to see me when I hadn't heard a peep out of his behind.

I feel a heated exchange of words brewing or just a serious freeze out smh

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posted February 16, 2014 06:55 PM            

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Hey PG. I pulled the Jack/Spades and 9/Diamonds. From these two, I'm getting that he's acting like a petulant child and that it's beginning to wear on you. I think the ball's in your court.

Should a conversation happen between the two of you? Yes. Should it be calm and sane; clearly stating of what YOU NEED in a relationship WITHOUT holding him responsible? Yes. I don't want to use the word ultimatum because that's not what it is. Rather, it's you acknowledging openly what it is you want, and him deciding whether or not he is able/willing to step up to the plate. Unfortunately, my little looking glass can't/won't tell me anything right now about how that conversation is going to go.

However, I do believe you're at a point where you need to have your position acknowledged, regardless of the outcome. Because unless there are extenuating circumstances of which I'm unaware, I get the sense that this whole thing is coming up on manipulation. If this becomes habit, it's incredibly unhealthy for both of you and will end in you hating him. You deserve better than petty nonsense.

Your call dear. I'm sorry I couldn't provide more insight.

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posted February 17, 2014 12:26 PM            

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Hi LT. Hoping you're having a decent but more so great day [considering things] I think I get where you're coming from, though I haven't elaborated fully on this "involvement" it's safe to say a heart to heart is a must. Unfortunately, some weird charade occurred last night that I would hope wasn't intentional on his behalf. We were supposed to get together and he had me idle for a good bit of time. So I had to back out fully. I'm not even sure what that was all about.

Member [poochycat] got a read about him being pursued by other women and jealousy stirring emotions. It must be stated he has made me aware of dating. I'm trying to condition myself to just back off for a while. Hoping he backs off as well and just test the waters. Because once he jumps back in unexpectedly (since he's the king of being unpredictable) I always oblige. Hence manipulation being so very easy on his part…

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posted February 19, 2014 09:04 AM            

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Just an update: No talking transpired. I'm frankly not that interested in seeing him for a while anyway. My mood has shifted; energy is elsewhere right now. In spite of the somewhat positive reads, I'm not quite feeling much positivity from him at all. Things are very stale. Our last encounter was a total turn-off.

Anyway, I hope you're doing better! You have my genuine concern and heartfelt well wishes day in and day out. Thank you for being so awesome. Hoping this day for you is as peachy as it can possibly be PG

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posted February 20, 2014 05:42 PM            

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Bump di de bump for LT

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