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posted February 11, 2014 11:41 PM            

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Seeing if anyone was up for an exhange?

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posted February 11, 2014 11:46 PM            

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Sure, I'm game What's your question?

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posted February 11, 2014 11:52 PM            

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Is the guy iv been seeing going to act distant on valentines day or buy me something/hang out with me

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posted February 12, 2014 12:01 AM            

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I'll go with the same question and get right back to you with my response to yours.

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posted February 12, 2014 12:09 AM            

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Hmmm...I pulled King/Hearts, Queen/Clubs, 4/Clubs, 7/Hearts and Queen/Hearts. 4/C and 7/H indicate fickleness, unreliable interest - that doesn't bode well for him really rising to the occasion like you're likely hoping he will.

However, the K/H seems to come in as a kind, attentive gentleman who may well treat you the way you deserve to be treated - Q/H and Q/C seem to verify that for me. I'd recommend getting out with a close girlfriend for the evening if he pulls a no-show - dinner, a drink or two in a nice place, maybe take in some live performance of some sort; I'm thinking that may be where and when you meet this new man! Just a thought...hope this helps.

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posted February 12, 2014 12:20 AM            

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I have ten ofcups for you, looks like your valentines day will be happy and balanced with love surrounding you..next three of wands, are you in the beggining stages of a new relationship? Things are going to reach new levels, valentines day being the start of that

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posted February 12, 2014 12:25 AM            

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Yes I am - in the very beginning stages, in fact. Thanks very much!

I so wish I'd been able to bring you the answer you wanted, but I get a very positive vibe about the one that came up if it makes you feel any better at all. Did you have any other questions?

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posted February 12, 2014 12:38 AM            

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Also what i got out of your reading was to focus more on love than working so much/money, make room .. hmm my question basically is about the guy i was asking about..totally so hot and cold..am i wasting my time? I really care about him but its like am i investing so much and nothing will change

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posted February 12, 2014 12:46 AM            

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Wait a minute...your guy is a Virgo too? Girl, the King I pulled may well be him. He may not show his face over V-Day - its part of their mercurial nature...and yes, it can be confusing and hurtful. TEMPERANCE and PATIENCE on your part should pay off. I do still recommend you go out with a girlfriend if he pulls a vanishing act; moreso to prove to him your ability to "hold your own" despite his absence - Virgos appreciate that sort of self-sufficiency a great deal. And everything is like pulling teeth in the beginning with a Virgo - if you think you can see a future with him and you know he's giving you his full attentions, just be patient.

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posted February 12, 2014 12:51 AM            

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Yours is also a virgo? Their so obnoxious lol.. iv been so patient, and when i brought up the what are we talk he disapeared for a month then came back, and then pulled away, and when his friend liked me and wanted to be with me he didnt leave my side..we've been doing amazing since july..still no title because i dont want to scare him away

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posted February 12, 2014 12:52 AM            

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Yours is also a virgo? Their so obnoxious lol.. iv been so patient, and when i brought up the what are we talk he disapeared for a month then came back, and then pulled away, and when his friend liked me and wanted to be with me he didnt leave my side..we've been doing amazing since july..still no title because i dont want to scare him away..(so patient and im impatient haha) and last week he was acting weird, so i haveng called him or anything..i figured mayb because it was valentines day, mayb hes cheap i guess

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posted February 12, 2014 12:56 AM            

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HAAA! They can be notoriously..."thrifty"...as well!

Yes, mine's a Virgo as well. However I'm a Taurus (and 43 years old), so I'm pretty comfortable with this gradual pace

Good luck with him - they're really great guys IF you can hang on long enough to figure out if you're "the ones" for each other.

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posted February 12, 2014 12:59 AM            

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I feel like hes my balance..im a pisces, hes like the ying to my yang. My intuition always tells me to run whenver i met a guy, and its always right even when i use to fight it..except with him, its like i have the green light..and when its good, its good but those virgo traits are so agravating when it makes me feel like im not good enough you know?

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posted February 12, 2014 01:04 AM            

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I do, yes. We all have to learn to recognize that we are responsible for our own feelings of inadequacy so that we can grow and move beyond them - so that we can learn to first own them and then master them. Relationships with Virgo men can either make us or break us in that respect. If we recognize it, they can certainly help MAKE us.

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posted February 12, 2014 01:11 AM            

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That is true..right after i met him i unconsciously fell into finding ways to better myself, and thinking in smarter ways than i usually would, so kinda true

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