posted February 13, 2014 12:25 AM            

which thread is stuck for you?

posted February 13, 2014 12:32 AM            

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Originally posted by AriesLilith:
Ah opposed ACs! One of my favorite synastry aspects. This aspect shows that you fit each other's image of ideal partner, as each has general traits that the other finds ideal. Also, his AC is conjunct Mars/Uranus/Venus (wow lol is he hot or something ) accentuates these Scorpionic traits, making him even more ideal for you.

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Yes wonderful, he is extremely hot ..Maybe not in a classical, model type way but he has that magnetism , that raw masculinity, mystery, sexual energy, power which is really hard to resist. Very soft and calm spoken but a killer if hurt ...beast and most of all dictator par excellence.

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You both have compatible Mars/Venus (all in water signs), compatible Suns (in trine signs) and Moons (opposed signs - sometimes can create some conflicts but the signs are actually complementary even if they seem to have opposite traits), Mercuries in trine signs...

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I have a fiery moon Arieslilith dear..its like you give me
Lamborghini to drive and i am so euphoric that i cant wait to drive it as fast as i can and eventually i soon smash it against the wall and have bad crash..well i def need air bags in the car i drive ..his moon in libra is more balanced and gentle, patient..so i was shaking him all the time with my freaking out, fiery temper for sure and he was letting the airbags out in order to mild the impact and protect us both..

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Thought there are some conflicts too, as your Saturns are square to each other, which can be very hard when it comes to serious issues or sharing responsibilities. His Saturn is square to your Neptune as well as Gemini planets, so that he might be too critical to you, becoming a cold water to your enthusiasm or confidence. Thought since he has Libra planets trining your Gemini stellium, it can soften the conflicts to some degree.

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Well we survived 7 month of crazy passion and power struggle.Two stubborns , two Saturns ..Scenario is, I want him to do something, he does not want me to dictate so he takes time and time and go silent, mean while i turn the page and leave him in dry for week or two, giving him his own scorpio silent treatment. At start i was the one coming back eventually when i cooled down but after he needed to step over his guard and go after me ( i got used to and knew he would come)..Honestly that was my Uranus in play and the only way for me to handle his over scorpionic dictator character and behavior..

Eventually, after 2 weeks of my silents, last monday he tried hard to call me all night long and i did not want to pick up ( i was a bit boozed as well and i dont want to talk while boozed) so he eventually freaked like i never saw coming, deleted me from everywhere, facebook, skype etc, erased me from this planet so to say..and now my hearts bleeds like hell..I cant tell you how big is the pain and shock

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Also, your Mars is square his Libra planets, so that you might sometimes feel irritated by him, thought your Gemini stellium would also help on understanding.

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Yes, his scorpionic silence and manipulation games were driving me nuts, especially at the beginning then i discovered that when i give him his own medicine all is more easier to handle for me and also faster resolved then if i would run and beg and **** he actually wanted.
Sick, sick I know..but what is love and passion? its disease, it eats the brain cells and shakes the heart big time

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As for the composite, you have Mars/Venus conjunction in the 8th house! The attraction can be strong and transformative, as the 8th house is about bonding deeper beyond the superficial level.

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I felt like he is my soul mate, like he knew me and i knew him forever..

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Thought it is square by Neptune, that at first, the attraction can be very dreamy and idealistic, but it can point to over idealizing and not seeing the attraction for what it is, or getting confused about what the attraction really is by time. This can point to disappointments and hurt, as Chiron is oppose Venus/Neptune and Mars/Neptune midpoint.

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What was it then? two animals who just wanted to jump over each other and screw ( sorry) while fighting who would be above and who under?
Well the pain now is incredible, something i never had...wonder if he feels the same though..

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Neptune also trine Sun/Mercury, so there is a sensitive mental connection between you.
But Saturn is square Jupiter/Uranus, so there might be hesitancy of commitment.

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I think I was the problem, my Uranus..I deeply wanted to merge have a commiting relationship with him but i was rebelling all the time scared to be possessed in the way he would and wanted to possess me...damn I hope you understand, we talk here about über Scorpio guy and the venus square pluto woman

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Also, Moon is square to Pluto, which can point out to emotional issues and hurt, pointing to possible emotional manipulation or control towards each other.

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..tell me about it.

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This composite seems to have a dreamy idealistic, sensitive attraction, but there might be pitfalls with illusions, not seeing things clear, unconscious issues or emotional hurt or attempt to control, while one of you might hesitate towards commitment.

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So all in all is that bond , our bond easy breakable or ....I am so hurt now and in pain, its hard for me to accept or even think that we came to a dead end, that it is all over.
Thats why i asked horary few nights ago and i trie hear to get answers so hard..Does he think, does he miss me, does hi wants his life without me..would we get over this big test and move in to a better direction??