posted February 14, 2014 02:26 PM            

Here's our synastry:

And composite:

any thoughts would be greatly appreciated.

posted February 14, 2014 02:27 PM            

synastry: http://s1241.photobucket.com/user/only1pattycake/media/Composite1.jpg.html?sort=3&o=0

posted February 15, 2014 02:01 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
No it just makes them really close. Pluto is what makes this world go round. It is the reason u care for the people u strongly care for and it is the reason for anything u feel which has opened ur eyes and made you a better person

Look to the other planets for what breaks a relationship apart. It isnt pluto...but mars (incessant bullying), uranus (rebellion, impulsive and inconsiderate treatment of another, frazzled nerves, being uncontrollable together having no clear rules) saturn (death, having the love sucked out of you, being treated coldly when u are at ur weakest, not being understood, feeling alone and insecure, staying with someone only bc u feel bad) or neptune (lies, deceit, having no idea your bedt friend is ur enemy, being kept in an illusion bc the other is afraid to let you down, having dreams of being saved and finding true love turning out to be false)

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OMG.. I was so hoping you'd reply, RAS! The queen of the "love stellium"!!!!!!

posted February 15, 2014 03:10 PM            

I was trying to look at the synastry, but you posted the composite there too : P

The sun and venus are very close. Thats great!
Pluto squares or oppositions to a LS are pretty much the same. They will affect you deeply. But believe it or not the synastry and chinese sign is what will determine just how deeply that is (your soulmate sign, trine sign, and palace sign will touch you strongest but the soulmate sign will be the unforgettable one)
When the LS is in hard aspect to pluto, there will be tremendous fascination with each other, and a deep love. You both fascinate and scare or repel each other at the same time. The other feels like somewhat of a bully at times--and the way they look can turn you off to where you might not feel physically attracted to them many times---it's like they scare you---like they could control you in ways that you do not want. You feel that they suddenly turn cold or strong-willed in ways that leave you feeling a little chilly...brrr..is it cold in here?

At the same time it's hard to let go of each other. The passion between you could make you feel loved in a way that you have never felt before with another person, the feeling of affection between you can certainly be overwhelming. Again, the depth of this love depends on the chinese sign and the synastry.

The conjunction is a little different in that you feel a lot of the same things as the inharmonious aspects but they do not look scary or suddenly turn cold or act like a bully. Conjunctions always make youfeel like you are "one" like you "merge"
They dont call it a "conjunction" for nothin : P
And so with the LS conjunct pluto it is more powerful and you feel like you are more similar and have more goals in common than with the inharmonious aspects.

Whehter its the conj or sq or opp, a hard aspect of pluto to the sun in composite will make the relationship end in open warfare. As soon as one of you does anything to hurt the other, watch out. It will in no way be forgiven and the other person will resort to a sequence of game playing that may never be matched in history again lol. Any sort of let down and the person feels very disappointed angry and revengeful. Since you have such a strong bond, you each expect the other to treat each other like gold at all times, and when that doesnt happen (usually bc u want to play games) this results in each person trying to outdo the other to see who can be more revengeful. Any little thing you do to the other that shows that ur passion has gone can be so painful that you turn very revengeful.

posted February 15, 2014 05:50 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Whehter its the conj or sq or opp, a hard aspect of pluto to the sun in composite will make the relationship end in open warfare. As soon as one of you does anything to hurt the other, watch out. It will in no way be forgiven and the other person will resort to a sequence of game playing that may never be matched in history again lol. Any sort of let down and the person feels very disappointed angry and revengeful. Since you have such a strong bond, you each expect the other to treat each other like gold at all times, and when that doesnt happen (usually bc u want to play games) this results in each person trying to outdo the other to see who can be more revengeful. Any little thing you do to the other that shows that ur passion has gone can be so painful that you turn very revengeful.

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Ummm, serious yikes. Now I'm thinking it might not be worth pursuing at all.

Another question - how do you find the chinese sign on astro.com? is that an option?

posted February 15, 2014 06:02 PM            

It'll give you a calculator.