posted February 15, 2014 10:26 AM            

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Originally posted by ScorpioLove:
I felt really lonely yesterday, out of all my friends im the only one whos been feeling this way for a while now, they make it worse by telling me i have bad luck with my love life.. which I guess I do but it's hard to hear.

When am I going to meet the guy that I can have a long-lasting relation with?

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Hi Scorpiolove,

I assumed you have Venus in Scorpio, am I right? Have you tried horary astrology? You could do a chart with the question for this year. Perhaps you're losing hope because of Saturn transit? I find that perception makes reality. If you think that you have bad luck in love, then it would proprably be what you got. I just recently have a break up, but I believe there is something to learn in every obstacle, and the lesson would only make me stronger. Now I will tell you this, not from astrological point of view, be patience and don't force it. Love will come to you when you're ready. In the mean time, will you choose to be happy or be miserable instead?

posted February 15, 2014 11:52 AM            

Sounds like you are too often playing third wheel - so you need to remove yourself from those situations. Specifically, if you are in a love triangle or are playing an advisor to a 'guy' friend, don't be emotionally supportive to someone who is not there for you in the same way. Until you do this and see your own self-worth you - others will not do the same. Essentially, the I-ching says it will happen, but you need to work on this, but also be patient. If you learn how to value yourself, by reducing giving away this energy and then restrain and/or working with this energy - it will happen.

Good luck and hope this resonates - Happy Valentine's day!

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41. Reduction

Line 3:

Three people walking,
lose one person.
One person walking, however,
gets a friend.

With three people together, one of them is likely to get outside the group. A person alone will likely find a friend.

Line 5:

Someone is benefiting one.
Ten pairs of such tortoise oracles cannot be disregarded.
A source of good fortune.

Someone is doing something for one. One is in a very advantageous position, which was probably already clear. This will be a continuing source of good things.
(Tortoise shell oracles used to be done in pairs. Two questions were asked: one to have the oracle comment on doing something, the other for it to comment on not doing it. Lots of oracles about the situation have apparently been positive here.)

Hexagram is changing to:

9. Minor Restraint

Minor restraint.
Progressing.
Dense clouds, but no rain
from our western outlands.