posted February 20, 2014 03:27 PM            

There is this guy I've met. Recently. Right from the moment our eyes connected, I've felt this weird pull towards him. He is cute, fun and seems to be interested/flirting. I don't know.

My question is: what does he feel for me? Does he want something with me? What are his intentions?

posted February 20, 2014 04:01 PM            

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Originally posted by luckystar25:
I would love to exchange, my question is what changes will be taking place within a month?

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Hey Lucky Star,

So I pulled 7 Clubs, 8 Spades and 6 Hearts, with 10 Spades as base.

So, the tone for the next 30 days or so will be one of blockage. Seems like some pain, sadness and/or loss will bleaken this period. If this turns out to be true, I'm sorry for that, because it doesn't look or feel like any fun.

More specifically, looks like you're going to drown your sorrows in work and obssess over things. Have you ever heard of Virgos' reputation for self-critizing and constant overlooking things to the minuscule detail? This is what I'm getting for you. No fun indeed.

On top of that, you're going to be feeling out of balance, perhaps even unappreacited. If you feel any physical debilitation, please seek medical assistance. 8S urges you to. You can turn this around by turning inside and looking for happiness and love there. Looks like disappointments are in your way.

Lastly, looks like you'll meet a guy during this gloomy period. He's refreshingly single and available, but a relationship won't be started within a month, so don't expect that yet. He might be just the thing to brighten up your days.

posted February 20, 2014 04:28 PM            

Does he want something with you, no.
Hes attracted to you.you appeal to him, but he¡¦s not going to try and start something up. It¡¦s NOT you the timing of the situation is not right.

Its 2 people who where/are attracted to each other, flirtation, but no relationship will come out of it. I honestly dont see a perm. Figure in his life so I dont think he has a girlfriend but there are situations¨ surrounding him.

Perhaps in the future there can be something. Right now though, he has to take care of loose ends.hmmmmmmm¡either hes minding a broken heart or financially/legally tying things up.

I wanted to about this guy named Joe I am meeting off of EH. So far so good in terms of talking hes only seen my pics and not me yet.
So when we do meet.will he like me and be attracted me..ask me out again?

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
I haven't exchanged here in a while now, but I'm looking for different takes on this situation.

There is this guy I've met. Recently. Right from the moment our eyes connected, I've felt this weird pull towards him. He is cute, fun and seems to be interested/flirting. I don't know.

My question is: what does he feel for me? Does he want something with me? What are his intentions?

Leave your questions, please.

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posted February 20, 2014 05:56 PM            

Anyhow, do you think a relationship is possible in the future?

Okay, cherful, I'm also going to ask you to not hate me. I got a no for the question "is Joe going to like and be attracted to cherful?" It is not you, please believe that. The spread was 9 Clubs, 9 Hearts and 6 Spades, so I think his lack of attraction might steam from miscommunication. Somehow you won't be able to connect with him and that looks like a turn off to him. You, I see as the 9H - the Wish Card -, so even if you don't think you're on top of your game, you're still desirable, still someone a guy would want.

Sorry it's not better news.

I specifically asked if he was going to ask you out again and got a yes (2 Hearts, 4 Spades, Ace Diamonds). This second date looks like the sparking of his attraction and a new relationship. Just - be cautious and take things slow, ok?

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Originally posted by cherful24:
Dont hate me º

Does he want something with you, no.
Hes attracted to you.you appeal to him, but he¡¦s not going to try and start something up. It¡¦s NOT you the timing of the situation is not right.

Its 2 people who where/are attracted to each other, flirtation, but no relationship will come out of it. I honestly dont see a perm. Figure in his life so I dont think he has a girlfriend but there are situations¨ surrounding him.

Perhaps in the future there can be something. Right now though, he has to take care of loose ends.hmmmmmmm¡either hes minding a broken heart or financially/legally tying things up.

I wanted to about this guy named Joe I am meeting off of EH. So far so good in terms of talking hes only seen my pics and not me yet.
So when we do meet.will he like me and be attracted me..ask me out again?

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posted February 20, 2014 06:21 PM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
I haven't exchanged here in a while now, but I'm looking for different takes on this situation.

There is this guy I've met. Recently. Right from the moment our eyes connected, I've felt this weird pull towards him. He is cute, fun and seems to be interested/flirting. I don't know.

My question is: what does he feel for me? Does he want something with me? What are his intentions?

Leave your questions, please.

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Hi filleaspirant,

posted February 20, 2014 06:22 PM            

Will he think im chubby...not pretty enough like arm candy?
Honesty is good, so don't worry! I can take it
Also do u see a job coming in

Ask another question, also
QUOTE]Originally posted by filleaspirant:
Don't be silly, cherful! He's a crush, I'm not emotionally invested yet. But I can see how the timing isn't very good as we've only know each other for 2 and a half months. I'm a Virgo Sun, he's a Virgo Venus - definitely cautious about matters of heart.

Anyhow, do you think a relationship is possible in the future?

Okay, cherful, I'm also going to ask you to not hate me. I got a no for the question "is Joe going to like and be attracted to cherful?" It is not you, please believe that. The spread was 9 Clubs, 9 Hearts and 6 Spades, so I think his lack of attraction might steam from miscommunication. Somehow you won't be able to connect with him and that looks like a turn off to him. You, I see as the 9H - the Wish Card -, so even if you don't think you're on top of your game, you're still desirable, still someone a guy would want.

Sorry it's not better news.

I specifically asked if he was going to ask you out again and got a yes (2 Hearts, 4 Spades, Ace Diamonds). This second date looks like the sparking of his attraction and a new relationship. Just - be cautious and take things slow, ok?

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posted February 20, 2014 06:35 PM            

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Originally posted by CrimsonRed:
Hi filleaspirant,

I don't use tarot or astrology. I'm an empath and honestly I didn't think I could exchange anything here because my readings are over the phone. I usually need the persons voice... it brings things in for me. So I was just peeking around, and as I read your post I felt something. Since I haven't really done anything through a computer, I dismissed it and went on reading. Then I read cherful24's reply to you. So I thought ok, she broke the ice, I'll add what I felt in adition to what she said. I feel that there is a very strong physical attraction between the two of you. He would explore that energy between the two of you. But then as he got to know you, you are somehow too strong for him. Somewhat intimidating. It's an inner energy thing, not your personality or anything. So I felt it could be fun with lots of sizzle, but short lived. Sorry, sweetie, but as you said, it's a crush, nothing serious. All the best with it

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Hi Crimson, thanks for jumping in!

Wow, you felt something? Really?! Even if it's not everlasting love, thank you very much for letting me know.

Just to confirm: on my part, yes there is a strong physical attraction. It seriously feels like a pull, I'm not kidding. It is very disconcerting for me to be like that and feel like that around him. But you say it's mutual, so I'm not feeling so silly over it anymore (meet Miss Rational over here LOL). Now I just need to think whether I'm okay having a short-lived affair or not. Miss Rational is also Miss Romantic, apparently.

posted February 20, 2014 06:55 PM            

And no silly, I REALLY don't think it'll be a body issue for him. Miscommunication will be the thing that won't turn him on in regards to you. Which is clearly something you guys can work on and seem to be willing to.

FYI, you can't be heavier than me and I do get guys physically attracted to me, as you actually saw. It doesn't happen often, but it does happen eventually!

Cherful, didn't I read for you concerning a new job in the past? I may be recalling wrong, but I saw that there would be no job in the few months. It still doesn't look like a new job is on the way, dear - Jack Clubs, 2 Spades and 6 Spades. I'm sorry I'm getting such gloomy readings for you. The cards advice you to pick up studying for a little bit, to not be so argumentative and combatitive on one-to-one interactions and to take out emotions and ego from your workplace and job search. That's all I'm getting. Sorry!

My other question would be about my next boyfriend, I guess. Anything you can get on him, what he's like, how old, looks, etc.

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Originally posted by cherful24:
He won't be attracted to me or like me....but he will ask me out again. But then he could be attracted....and then a start of a rel?.....sorry im confused ?
Why

Will he think im chubby...not pretty enough like arm candy?
Honesty is good, so don't worry! I can take it
Also do u see a job coming in

Ask another question, also

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posted February 20, 2014 07:04 PM            

I feel like serial dating maybe several months but not a long term thing. he seems like a studious person like a creative person. you have fun with him however the thing is is that he is a little bit of a sour puss.... your energies won't match in the end but he'll bring you into good contacts with good people...he seems to be social but again his energies more of a sour puss.

he will put you on a pedestal but again the energy just won't match in the end , and you'll be looking for something else. so yay at least you get to have fun and you'll be taken care of I'll treat you good!

posted February 20, 2014 07:13 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
yes by the way I do see this guy being in your presence energy as well as your future so I don't know if he's a new friend or colleague or what but you're going to have a good bond with him.

the possibility exists for intimacy I can't say yes or no right now because there's still some things that need to be cleared out of his way

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posted February 20, 2014 07:24 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
is there an older man around you that's an interest? I don't know how old you are but I see this man being older at least a good 7 to 8 years.

I feel like serial dating maybe several months but not a long term thing. he seems like a studious person like a creative person. you have fun with him however the thing is is that he is a little bit of a sour puss.... your energies won't match in the end but he'll bring you into good contacts with good people...he seems to be social but again his energies more of a sour puss.

he will put you on a pedestal but again the energy just won't match in the end , and you'll be looking for something else. so yay at least you get to have fun and you'll be taken care of I'll treat you good!

I don't remember who does my readings anymore but I do have just one more question about my finances because its hard right now. I'm at a temp job and I'm a bit scared when my lease ends at the end of April I don't know if the man is going to allow me to renew it.... because I don't know where I'll go if I don't have a permit job

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There WAS, yes. I know right away who you're talking about, so I'm really curious to see how this will pan out, since I blocked his e-mail. I'm 25, he's 32. He is ALMOST 8 years older than me. And he is all that you've described, he does think only the best of me and he would for sure treat me good. I probably even know what I'll be looking for while with him: stability. I'm just not very excited to hear he's coming back and I'm gonna fall for it - have I learned nothing?

posted February 20, 2014 07:44 PM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
Hi Crimson, thanks for jumping in!

Wow, you felt something? Really?! Even if it's not everlasting love, thank you very much for letting me know.

Just to confirm: on my part, yes there is a strong physical attraction. It seriously feels like a pull, I'm not kidding. It is very disconcerting for me to be like that and feel like that around him. But you say it's mutual, so I'm not feeling so silly over it anymore (meet Miss Rational over here LOL). Now I just need to think whether I'm okay having a short-lived affair or not. Miss Rational is also Miss Romantic, apparently.

Did you have a question for me to read for you, dear?

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Hi again

Yes, it surprised me too... it felt like the first time I did something psychic/intuitive as a teen... surprised the heck out of me... lol. Naturally when I'm in 'professional' mode I know I'm going to read the hearts and minds of everyone, but through the computer... lol... yeah... lol.

OK... enough about me... I TOTALLY felt a very strong pull between the two of you. You know, in all my years of doing what I do, I saw that when there is such a strong pull... when two eyes meet... that there is something there. Depending on the individual's belief system, many say it's past life connections. That the two souls knew each other on some level before and when they meet they, on some level, recognize each other. Even if it's just a physical attraction/pull. I felt that the two of you felt the identical same thing towards each other. That the physical pull is like a firecracker that went off. Then I felt that as you get close to each other that you have become stronger (like since the last time you met - past lifetime)... that you have evolved/grown to be a stronger, more spiritual, more insightful person. More able to deal with life and things. That he is more fragile emotionally than you are and therefore the 'intimidation' (for a lack of a better word) would set in a bit. He'd be ga-ga over you and then I feel a little fear setting in and him backing away... kind of like him feeling less than, not good enough, something along those lines.

Now that doesn't mean 'never'. That just means that that's what I felt. People grow and all, so we don't know what happens down the road, but for now you are the stable-er, stronger one.

Whether you enter into a 'fun' relationship is up to you, sweetie. That's totally your decision. Just be careful of your heart. I feel you show a strong exterior but have a very soft, kind and open heart... open to love.

btw... if you would share your birthday w/me... year not important, just month and day... and btw do you know his? sometimes brithdays open a window for me. maybe i'll feel/see more (?)

thank you for asking. well, my hubby and i are having SERIOUS financial issues. he's back to work after a long illness. my business, very specialized, has dried up a bit because I too haven't been very well... so if you'd like to look and see what you see, that would be great... thank you.

posted February 20, 2014 07:57 PM            

listen if not that you've learned a thing or that you learned nothing, if not that is not a life lesson..... it's that you guys have an energetic pool like a magnet your spirit and energy call out for one another when you're together its wonderful but for whatever reason it just was not meant to be stable or long term. we're not meant to be together, it's just one of those things.

so go into it with a different perspective of having fun knowing that these are good times good memories being made have love for him but don't fall in love to get where ur heart will get broken

I guess when I look at it as well I still have my temp job until I get a permanent job?

May 1st will I be living in a current apartment or somewhere else?

QUOTE]Originally posted by filleaspirant:
There WAS, yes. I know right away who you're talking about, so I'm really curious to see how this will pan out, since I blocked his e-mail. I'm 25, he's 32. He is ALMOST 8 years older than me. And he is all that you've described, he does think only the best of me and he would for sure treat me good. I probably even know what I'll be looking for while with him: stability. I'm just not very excited to hear he's coming back and I'm gonna fall for it - have I learned nothing?

Now, as to your question, what do you want me to look at, dear? The lease or the finances?[/QUOTE]

posted February 20, 2014 08:26 PM            

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Originally posted by CrimsonRed:
Hi again

Yes, it surprised me too... it felt like the first time I did something psychic/intuitive as a teen... surprised the heck out of me... lol. Naturally when I'm in 'professional' mode I know I'm going to read the hearts and minds of everyone, but through the computer... lol... yeah... lol.

OK... enough about me... I TOTALLY felt a very strong pull between the two of you. You know, in all my years of doing what I do, I saw that when there is such a strong pull... when two eyes meet... that there is something there. Depending on the individual's belief system, many say it's past life connections. That the two souls knew each other on some level before and when they meet they, on some level, recognize each other. Even if it's just a physical attraction/pull. I felt that the two of you felt the identical same thing towards each other. That the physical pull is like a firecracker that went off. Then I felt that as you get close to each other that you have become stronger (like since the last time you met - past lifetime)... that you have evolved/grown to be a stronger, more spiritual, more insightful person. More able to deal with life and things. That he is more fragile emotionally than you are and therefore the 'intimidation' (for a lack of a better word) would set in a bit. He'd be ga-ga over you and then I feel a little fear setting in and him backing away... kind of like him feeling less than, not good enough, something along those lines.

Now that doesn't mean 'never'. That just means that that's what I felt. People grow and all, so we don't know what happens down the road, but for now you are the stable-er, stronger one.

Whether you enter into a 'fun' relationship is up to you, sweetie. That's totally your decision. Just be careful of your heart. I feel you show a strong exterior but have a very soft, kind and open heart... open to love.

btw... if you would share your birthday w/me... year not important, just month and day... and btw do you know his? sometimes brithdays open a window for me. maybe i'll feel/see more (?)

thank you for asking. well, my hubby and i are having SERIOUS financial issues. he's back to work after a long illness. my business, very specialized, has dried up a bit because I too haven't been very well... so if you'd like to look and see what you see, that would be great... thank you.

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Oh Crimson

Thank you for such lovely words! I indeed felt such a pull and, like I said previously, it disconcerts the heck out of me. I'm Miss Rational 99% of the time, so to have such an instinctual reaction to anyone throws me off my game. Add to that that he is a fit, handsome guy, and I'm left feeling like an ass around him. I keep wanting to talk to him and share stuff about my life, but everytime I get this lump in my throat and will keep things to small talk. After all, I've known him for only 2 and a half months and I interact with him 15 minutes at most (he's the teacher in my swimming class).

Also, it's not the first time someone reports to me a guy is attracted to me but feels or will feel subpar, inferior somehow. It's so annoying because I don't feel all this confidence they seem to associate with me and they just push me away because "that's what's best for me". Annoying!

And I know any relationship I enter is up to me and not set on stone. I just - I need to get my mind in consonance with my heart and see what's in my best interest. And yes, I've a tough exterior but I'm all mushy inside.

My birthday is September 21, 1988 and his is July 27, 1986. Also, cherful just did a reading on my next boyfriend and she described the guy I liked and am trying to move on. Would you mind giving me a perspective on him as well? This one's birthday is November 26, 1981. Anything you can get on either one of them I'll appreciate. And please give me another question to answer for you, so I don't feel like I'm taking advantage of you.

Now, as to your reading:

I asked after yours and your husband's finances, but I think this message is more for you that for him, as the Queen Clubs was the base card.

I'm not sure if this will resonate, but I sometimes get these sensations and thoughts, so I'm going to share it with you, but if I'm way off, please disregard. I'm not overly confident I've the ability to connect to someone in that way or if this is just my imagination.

Do either of you have a back pain issue? I felt a strong pain in the center of my back, so this is either from stress or something physical. If there is a physical issue, have hope and patience and keep treating it, because it feels like something chronic. If it's stress related, know that you can overcome anything together.

The spread was 8 Hearts, 2 Spades and 6 Clubs. Financially, I see the 8H as a fair deal or a mutually beneficial venture coming your way. Unfortunately, this is followed by the 2S, so I'm inclined to see this as something that will end in disagreement and irritation for you. Also, this card tells that you're going to feel kind of stuck in your finances. Between a rock and a hard place. The 6C indicates taking responsibility of a problem or situation, and doing whatever is necessary to move forward and ensure success. There is only way out of a hole, and that is by looking up and moving up, even if you have to claw your way out. I'm assuming you work with your gift - 6C would then imply that after this period of little business, you'll be back in your place of good counsel and advise, as the one people are going to come to.

Unfortunately no money card came, so finances won't be looking up. You can make things work for you, but you're going to have to tighten up your belts for the time being.

posted February 20, 2014 09:04 PM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
Oh Crimson

Thank you for such lovely words! I indeed felt such a pull and, like I said previously, it disconcerts the heck out of me. I'm Miss Rational 99% of the time, so to have such an instinctual reaction to anyone throws me off my game. Add to that that he is a fit, handsome guy, and I'm left feeling like an ass around him. I keep wanting to talk to him and share stuff about my life, but everytime I get this lump in my throat and will keep things to small talk. After all, I've known him for only 2 and a half months and I interact with him 15 minutes at most (he's the teacher in my swimming class).

Also, it's not the first time someone reports to me a guy is attracted to me but feels or will feel subpar, inferior somehow. It's so annoying because I don't feel all this confidence they seem to associate with me and they just push me away because "that's what's best for me". Annoying!

And I know any relationship I enter is up to me and not set on stone. I just - I need to get my mind in consonance with my heart and see what's in my best interest. And yes, I've a tough exterior but I'm all mushy inside.

My birthday is September 21, 1988 and his is July 27, 1986. Also, cherful just did a reading on my next boyfriend and she described the guy I liked and am trying to move on. Would you mind giving me a perspective on him as well? This one's birthday is November 26, 1981. Anything you can get on either one of them I'll appreciate. And please give me another question to answer for you, so I don't feel like I'm taking advantage of you.

Now, as to your reading:

I asked after yours and your husband's finances, but I think this message is more for you that for him, as the Queen Clubs was the base card.

I'm not sure if this will resonate, but I sometimes get these sensations and thoughts, so I'm going to share it with you, but if I'm way off, please disregard. I'm not overly confident I've the ability to connect to someone in that way or if this is just my imagination.

Do either of you have a back pain issue? I felt a strong pain in the center of my back, so this is either from stress or something physical. If there is a physical issue, have hope and patience and keep treating it, because it feels like something chronic. If it's stress related, know that you can overcome anything together.

The spread was 8 Hearts, 2 Spades and 6 Clubs. Financially, I see the 8H as a fair deal or a mutually beneficial venture coming your way. Unfortunately, this is followed by the 2S, so I'm inclined to see this as something that will end in disagreement and irritation for you. Also, this card tells that you're going to feel kind of stuck in your finances. Between a rock and a hard place. The 6C indicates taking responsibility of a problem or situation, and doing whatever is necessary to move forward and ensure success. There is only way out of a hole, and that is by looking up and moving up, even if you have to claw your way out. I'm assuming you work with your gift - 6C would then imply that after this period of little business, you'll be back in your place of good counsel and advise, as the one people are going to come to.

Unfortunately no money card came, so finances won't be looking up. You can make things work for you, but you're going to have to tighten up your belts for the time being.

Please let me know if this resonates or not.

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Hi Fille,

You're welcome, sweetie. I'm glad that it's making sense to you. I understand you being Miss Rational... that Virgo energy in you wants all your ducks in a row, nice and understandable. I fee that you must have something in your astrological chart that makes you like the tried and true, things that you understand and have a grasp on. Just got a silly flash... do you not like rollercoasters? I feel you organize and put something somewhere and like it there and keep it there. I feel that it's because Mr. Sizzle (calling him that for identification purposes) makes you tingle and you "FEEL". You don't think when you're around him. It's an extremely strong physical attraction that affects you and your mind, which is always in control, (and as you say) gets thrown off it's game.

From your birthday and the two guys' birthdays, I feel that you are attracted to what you were attracted to before. Again like a past life comes into play somehow. But you've grown. So you're attracted to those who you could teach more than they could teach you. Make sense? That is another reason for some guys feeling subpar/inferior somehow. The right one just hasn't stepped in yet. He will. I don't know who... but I can fee someone there who you will connect with AND permanently. When? I can't see time. But he's there... for SURE!

You are an evolved/mature Virgo (soul/spirit wise)... Mr. Sizzle is a baby Leo. He can be led by his ego and flattery. He's not the best at judging women when he meets them... not because he's a baby leo, but it's just what i feel. I feel he's been duped by women before. Thinking they're all that and finding out they're not. I also feel he might be a bit of a rescuer....(?)... likes to be the night in shining armour and help out.

That STRONG STRONG attraction to you keeps coming through so strong, no matter what I'm telling you about or thinking about.

Mr. Sag (Nov 26th guy), I feel that right now he's revelling in his independence. As if he was set free from some bondage (of the spirit) as if he now loves doing what he wants to do, going where he wants to go, not being tied down. As if his last lifetime had heavy shackles on him and he was tied by responsibilities. So he's probably a responsibility oriented type. Is he? Yet he'd rather not.

He's very attracted to you. He sees your stability. He sees you as a keeper type. Yet he's not sure he's ready to keep anyone. Not yet. YET being the operative word. Does he give you mixed messages sometimes?

Anyway... let me know if any of this makes sense to you. Like I said, I really haven't done this before, through the computer. So let's see if my 'intuition' works through the machine here... lol.

Thank you for the reading you did. I appreciate it. I'm hard to read. I've always been hard to read. Through the years that my hubby and I were apart (we met when we were in our early 20's and were separated by evil and lies for almost 30 years), during that time I KNEW that it wasn't over, that we will BE again. Yet every single reading I had, nobody could pick up on him. As if he didn't exist. LOL. Imagine, the love of my life and he didn't exist? lol So please don't feel bad if you didn't pick things up.

There is no back problem. Maybe you took the two of us and put us together. He has neck/shoulder chronic issues. I have hip joint crap going on. So yes, there is some chronic pain with us. Don't forget, sweetie, we're old.. lol.

What you picked does resonate to the past for us. Hopefully the future will be different. We're getting all kinds of good signs and he's very intuitive also (he's the male version of me) so we're praying and hoping. He used to do VERY well, I'm sure he can again.

As far as any other questions... not really.... I don't have stuff going on. When I was single and dating, yes... not anymore... lol.

Anyway, sweetie... please let me know if all that I said makes any sense to you.

posted February 20, 2014 09:10 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
well at least you might be able to have some fun in the meantime knowing that nothing serious or long term is coming out of it

listen if not that you've learned a thing or that you learned nothing, if not that is not a life lesson..... it's that you guys have an energetic pool like a magnet your spirit and energy call out for one another when you're together its wonderful but for whatever reason it just was not meant to be stable or long term. we're not meant to be together, it's just one of those things.

so go into it with a different perspective of having fun knowing that these are good times good memories being made have love for him but don't fall in love to get where ur heart will get broken

I guess when I look at it as well I still have my temp job until I get a permanent job?

May 1st will I be living in a current apartment or somewhere else?

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Thanks for the advise, cherful! It's not that I think it would be a bad relationship between me and this guy, it's that I KNOW he's not long-term material for me. He's not dependable like that. I guess what I fear the most is me crashing and burning after everything is said and done.

To answer your questions:

Will you have your temp job until you get a permanent one? This was a no: 3 Hearts, 7 Clubs, 4 Spades. Unfortunately all I'm getting from this is your anxiety, worried about your work situation and feeling stuck. I'm just not getting anything past these feelings, I'm sorry.

posted February 20, 2014 09:17 PM            

QUOTE]Originally posted by filleaspirant:
Thanks for the advise, cherful! It's not that I think it would be a bad relationship between me and this guy, it's that I KNOW he's not long-term material for me. He's not dependable like that. I guess what I fear the most is me crashing and burning after everything is said and done. Honestly, if there is a possibility for me and him, I'm going to take this opportunity, I'm just worried about my heart.

To answer your questions:

Will you have your temp job until you get a permanent one? This was a no: 3 Hearts, 7 Clubs, 4 Spades. Unfortunately all I'm getting from this is your anxiety, worried about your work situation and feeling stuck. I'm just not getting anything past these feelings, I'm sorry.

Will you be living in your current apartment in May 1st? YES, you will! 10 Spades, King Hearts and 3 Hearts was the spread. Again I pulled a card of worry and feeling stuck; these next few months look like they'll be rough on you. I think you're going to receive help from a family member, perhaps your father, brother, a friend who's like a brother, definitely someone that cares for you. The 3 Hearts is the small wish card, so you're going to be able to still live there. [/QUOTE]

posted February 20, 2014 09:18 PM            

I just took a peak at the 11-26-81 and he has natal Venus square Saturn, which can cause people to feel inferior to others. Transiting Pluto in Capricorn is starting to conjunct his natal Venus and will transform that and what love means to him. He could be in an unfulfilling relationship at the moment and it may be transformed along with that or ended. Transiting Uranus is also squaring his natal Venus and could create breakdowns or misunderstandings in relationships because he feels he needs to be free at this time or maybe there is just disruptions (i.e. work, etc. that keep him busy).

Good to see you on again.

Have a good day,
Spring

posted February 20, 2014 09:26 PM            

Mr. Sag... your Nov guy... does he have some issued w/family? Like having to balance something out re: his family... blood family, mother, father, siblings. Something's going on w/him in that area.

That's all... so let me know.

posted February 20, 2014 09:50 PM            

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Originally posted by CrimsonRed:
Hi Fille,

You're welcome, sweetie. I'm glad that it's making sense to you. I understand you being Miss Rational... that Virgo energy in you wants all your ducks in a row, nice and understandable. I fee that you must have something in your astrological chart that makes you like the tried and true, things that you understand and have a grasp on. Just got a silly flash... do you not like rollercoasters? I feel you organize and put something somewhere and like it there and keep it there. I feel that it's because Mr. Sizzle (calling him that for identification purposes) makes you tingle and you "FEEL". You don't think when you're around him. It's an extremely strong physical attraction that affects you and your mind, which is always in control, (and as you say) gets thrown off it's game.

From your birthday and the two guys' birthdays, I feel that you are attracted to what you were attracted to before. Again like a past life comes into play somehow. But you've grown. So you're attracted to those who you could teach more than they could teach you. Make sense? That is another reason for some guys feeling subpar/inferior somehow. The right one just hasn't stepped in yet. He will. I don't know who... but I can fee someone there who you will connect with AND permanently. When? I can't see time. But he's there... for SURE!

You are an evolved/mature Virgo (soul/spirit wise)... Mr. Sizzle is a baby Leo. He can be led by his ego and flattery. He's not the best at judging women when he meets them... not because he's a baby leo, but it's just what i feel. I feel he's been duped by women before. Thinking they're all that and finding out they're not. I also feel he might be a bit of a rescuer....(?)... likes to be the night in shining armour and help out.

That STRONG STRONG attraction to you keeps coming through so strong, no matter what I'm telling you about or thinking about.

Mr. Sag (Nov 26th guy), I feel that right now he's revelling in his independence. As if he was set free from some bondage (of the spirit) as if he now loves doing what he wants to do, going where he wants to go, not being tied down. As if his last lifetime had heavy shackles on him and he was tied by responsibilities. So he's probably a responsibility oriented type. Is he? Yet he'd rather not.

He's very attracted to you. He sees your stability. He sees you as a keeper type. Yet he's not sure he's ready to keep anyone. Not yet. YET being the operative word. Does he give you mixed messages sometimes?

Anyway... let me know if any of this makes sense to you. Like I said, I really haven't done this before, through the computer. So let's see if my 'intuition' works through the machine here... lol.

Thank you for the reading you did. I appreciate it. I'm hard to read. I've always been hard to read. Through the years that my hubby and I were apart (we met when we were in our early 20's and were separated by evil and lies for almost 30 years), during that time I KNEW that it wasn't over, that we will BE again. Yet every single reading I had, nobody could pick up on him. As if he didn't exist. LOL. Imagine, the love of my life and he didn't exist? lol So please don't feel bad if you didn't pick things up.

There is no back problem. Maybe you took the two of us and put us together. He has neck/shoulder chronic issues. I have hip joint crap going on. So yes, there is some chronic pain with us. Don't forget, sweetie, we're old.. lol.

What you picked does resonate to the past for us. Hopefully the future will be different. We're getting all kinds of good signs and he's very intuitive also (he's the male version of me) so we're praying and hoping. He used to do VERY well, I'm sure he can again.

As far as any other questions... not really.... I don't have stuff going on. When I was single and dating, yes... not anymore... lol.

Anyway, sweetie... please let me know if all that I said makes any sense to you.

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Hey Crimson,

Funnily enough, I'm thrilled by rollercoasters and adventurous things like that, but you could never tell that from just looking at me. It's more like I allow myself to act a little crazy and impulsive when I do these things, because I need a little adrenaline every now and then. But you described my organization system perfectly, LOL. That is how I am, even if my organization looks a little messy to everyone else.

And here's another AHH moment: I can't think around Mr Sizzle. I actually did an exercise wrong today because I was going over and over in mind how to talk to him. When he called me out on it - "Now, what I want to know is why you swimming crawl when you were supposed to be doing backstroke" -, I didn't even look at him, I just said my bad and asked for the next exercise. (I might have a thing for guys acting a little bit in control of themselves, lol.)

I know it sounds conceited to say this, but I feel so much more mature and in control of my urges than these guys. They seem very quick to get the physical off the ground, while I require a friendship first. And when they start caring for me that way, it's usually when they'll say I'm better off without them. I do hope this Mr Permanent comes eventually, because I'm a bit more of a settling than a dating kind of girl.

Can't really believe Mr Sizzle's got such a strong attraction to me. He seems like the nice boy all girls use to get an ego stroke, yes. He's very sweet and physically affectionate (with other people, so far). Easy pray. Can't speak for any rescuer complex, but will let you know if I notice it.

Mr Sag IS a responsable guy that skirts any commitment that isn't thrust upon him and he can't shake off. If it's something that he knows people and him can live without, he's not going to do what's expect of him. He's dependable to a point; if you start depending too much on him, he'll flee. He does give me mixed messages, which is the reason I'm not so happy to hear he might be back. I find the ups and downs of his moods and investments to be too upseting to my emotional balance. I'm constantly kept guessing, unless something bad happens to me. That I know I can count on him to help out.

Your intuition is working MIGHTY FINE, dear Crimson. You picked up on all three of us amazingly well.

posted February 20, 2014 09:56 PM            

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Originally posted by CrimsonRed:
So I'm sitting here watching Antique Roadshow, when a flash hits me....

Mr. Sag... your Nov guy... does he have some issued w/family? Like having to balance something out re: his family... blood family, mother, father, siblings. Something's going on w/him in that area.

That's all... so let me know.

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He does! Well, he did at least. I haven't spoken to him since early January and we haven't spoken about family in almost a year.

He probably feels he needs to take care of his niece and his dad (his mother passed away when he was 18), as his brother doesn't sound reliable at all (or so Mr Sag made him out to be so).

posted February 20, 2014 09:57 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
do you see how much longer I have in this temp position

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posted February 20, 2014 10:00 PM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
Hey Crimson,

Funnily enough, I'm thrilled by rollercoasters and adventurous things like that, but you could never tell that from just looking at me. It's more like I allow myself to act a little crazy and impulsive when I do these things, because I need a little adrenaline every now and then. But you described my organization system perfectly, LOL. That is how I am, even if my organization looks a little messy to everyone else.

And here's another AHH moment: I can't think around Mr Sizzle. I actually did an exercise wrong today because I was going over and over in mind how to talk to him. When he called me out on it - "Now, what I want to know is why you swimming crawl when you were supposed to be doing backstroke" -, I didn't even look at him, I just said my bad and asked for the next exercise. (I might have a thing for guys acting a little bit in control of themselves, lol.)

I know it sounds conceited to say this, but I feel so much more mature and in control of my urges than these guys. They seem very quick to get the physical off the ground, while I require a friendship first. And when they start caring for me that way, it's usually when they'll say I'm better off without them. I do hope this Mr Permanent comes eventually, because I'm a bit more of a settling than a dating kind of girl.

Can't really believe Mr Sizzle's got such a strong attraction to me. He seems like the nice boy all girls use to get an ego stroke, yes. He's very sweet and physically affectionate (with other people, so far). Easy pray. Can't speak for any rescuer complex, but will let you know if I notice it.

Mr Sag IS a responsable guy that skirts any commitment that isn't thrust upon him and he can't shake off. If it's something that he knows people and him can live without, he's not going to do what's expect of him. He's dependable to a point; if you start depending too much on him, he'll flee. He does give me mixed messages, which is the reason I'm not so happy to hear he might be back. I find the ups and downs of his moods and investments to be too upseting to my emotional balance. I'm constantly kept guessing, unless something bad happens to me. That I know I can count on him to help out.

Your intuition is working MIGHTY FINE, dear Crimson. You picked up on all three of us amazingly well.

I'm sorry I couldn't be more of a help to you. I'll try asking again tomorrow and see if, with fresher eyes, I get a clear picture of the future and not of the present. Will let you know how it goes.

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Sounds like Mr. Sag can be a good friend, but as you say, you need someone more stable, not boring, stable.

I hope Mr. Permanent comes along VERY soon. You seem like a lovely person and I wish lots of Love for you.

No prob on anything else, not to worry. God is Good and God will provide. Doubt He'd want me in poverty in my old age... lol. Thank you for your time and all you did. I do appreciate it.

No need to upload your chart, but thank you for the offer... was just wondering about your Mercury is all

Please keep in touch and let me know how things are going (if you'd like that is).

Have a great night.