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posted February 23, 2014 11:27 AM            

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Met a man at my work late 2012. Have been carrying on a torrid online email exchange sporadically. Can not seem to get him out of my mind. Only exchanged one physical point of contact where he hugged me and the rest is emails. Why am I so obsessed? Is it him or me? If anyone could give me some insight would be greatly appreciated.

Me: Sun 27 Scorpio
Moon 27 Virgo
Mercury 10 Scorpio
Venus 14 Capricorn
Mars 25 Aries rx
Jupiter 6 Aquarius
Saturn 3 Cancer rx
Uranus 25 Libra
Neptune 3 Sagittarius
Pluto 6 Libra
BML 11 Capricorn
Psyche 12 Sagittarius
Eros 12 Sagittarius

Him:
Sun 12 Virgo
Moon 27 Virgo
Mercury 12 Virgo
Venus 28 Libra
Mars 15 Capricorn
Jupiter 18 Pisces
Saturn 3 Sagittarius
Uranus 18 Sagittarius
Neptune 3 Capricorn
Pluto 5 Scorpio
BML 21 Gemini
Eros 4 Aquarius
Psyche 18 Leo

My Asc is at 21 Capricorn and I am uncertain of his birthtime so I do not want to include houses. I know there is one double whammy with our Mars Venus aspects. But this is unreal. I can not stop wanting to contact him. Would love more insight.

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posted February 23, 2014 11:50 AM            

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Welcome!

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posted February 23, 2014 11:51 AM            

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Thank you!

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posted February 23, 2014 12:20 PM            

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HOW TO GET YOUR CHART
1. Go to www.astro.com . You can create a free account or enter your birth data as a guest; however, creating an account will allow you to save your information – great for trying the different charts both for yourself and for others in your life. If you don’t know the exact time of your birth, do your best to find out – it *is* important.
2. Go to “Free Horoscopes” and then to “Extended Chart Selection.”
3. “Natal Chart Wheel” is the default, but you will need to go to “House System” (under “Options” use the drop-down to change to “equal”).
4. Click on “Click here to show the Chart,” then click on the chart which will appear.
5. Right-click and save the chart to your desktop.
HOW TO UPLOAD YOUR CHART
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3. Navigate to your desktop and select.
4. On right, click “Save and continue to my album.”
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6. Saving should take you to a new screen where you can see your chart and to the right, a bank of options to “Share this photo.” Click on the IMG code, which will flash and let you know that you’ve copied the link.
7. Go to your thread, open a new post and paste your link.
8. Don’t move or delete your chart from Photobucket, because the link only goes to where the chart was saved!

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posted February 23, 2014 12:29 PM            

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Thanks for the tip. I have an astro.com account but didn't realize I couldn't post pics.

Here's my link to our synastry chart

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posted February 23, 2014 02:51 PM            

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well, I guess its because his moon ( maybe though we dont know the birth time) and sun fall in to your 8th house so you react toward him obsessive..also there you have moon conjunction ( 9degree orb) with pluto..you have strong emotions and are prone to obsession anyhow, but in the case with him and his personal planets, lights it is even stronger then "usual"...well just guessing dear.

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posted February 23, 2014 03:01 PM            

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wow, btw he must be a damn good writer/orator..I mean his mercury is in domicile and cazimi..is he a good "talker"?

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posted February 23, 2014 05:08 PM            

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We don't talk much. Lol. Only emails and they are always of a sexual nature. I'm just curious how he is feeling about me. He didn't waste anytime letting me know he was interested. That's for sure.

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posted February 23, 2014 05:27 PM            

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I have to say it is not a fulfilling type situation either. I wish I would have not met him at all then to experience what feels like a could have been situation. You know, if he was older, or I was younger. Or if I was single and he was single too. It's just kinda heartbreaking. I mean he NEVER wants to talk about anything other than sex. I get it .. I like it too.. but I try talking about other things and he goes right back to the sexual stuff. I wish I knew him better but after 18 months of this type of behavior all I know is that he is very sexually attracted to me. LOL.

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