posted February 24, 2014 08:22 AM            

I found out about you from your readings for Poochycat that you are a psychic and that your intuition is very strong and was awestruck at first.I am a 23 year old single girl and have been single for the longest time ever.Guys I liked never seemed to respond me back in the past.

However,in the past few months I have got a couple of proposals but I like one particular guy but there seems to be no confirmation from him either.I am sorry to ask you this way as I know that you must be busy but I would really be grateful if you would do a reading for me with regards to my love life.

My birth data :-

18 June 1990
9:38 AM
Place - Calcutta,India

posted February 24, 2014 11:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Miranda01:
Hi CrimsonRed

I found out about you from your readings for Poochycat that you are a psychic and that your intuition is very strong and was awestruck at first.I am a 23 year old single girl and have been single for the longest time ever.Guys I liked never seemed to respond me back in the past.

However,in the past few months I have got a couple of proposals but I like one particular guy but there seems to be no confirmation from him either.I am sorry to ask you this way as I know that you must be busy but I would really be grateful if you would do a reading for me with regards to my love life.

My birth data :-

18 June 1990
9:38 AM
Place - Calcutta,India

Thank you so much.

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Hi Miranda,

Nice to meet you, sweetie

Thank you for the compliment about my gift being strong. That's very sweet of you to say. It's as strong as our Good Creator wants it to be and I just try my best. May I ask, please... you said you were awestruck when you read what I wrote to poochycat... what awestruck you?

23 is very young, even if it isn't considered so much in India, but it IS very young. I also feel that genetically, from your family, you will remain very youthful for a VERY long time, as women in your family have been and are, into their late years.

Not to worry that you won't find love. I feel you WILL find love and love and marriage is coming for you, but it's been a little delayed, as you say, and for good reason. I feel that you have concentrated on others, maybe your family, and have not focused so much on yourself - your own growth. I feel that in this lifetime YOU need to be focused on strongly. You will grow a LOT and towards the end, when you look back, you will say to yourself "Wow!... how different I am, how much wiser, and having a much wider/wiser outlook on the world, humanity and the human condition. The energy of it is like (this is an example when a college student looks back on themselves being a toddler, playing in the sandbox and now the college student is learning how to perform heart surgery.

Another one of your life's tasks (karma) is with financial things. Not that finances would be a problem, but there are karmic lessons there... not bad though... maybe to learn that it's ok to have and how to handle abundance effectively.

The reason for romance being delayed in your life, I feel, is the first reason. The guys that you have been attracted to previously, I feel, would not have been the right relationship for you to give you the environment you need to grow as you need to in this lifetime.

Then I also feel that in the past couple or past few years you HAVE been concentrating more on you, (doing towards yourself what you are here, in this incarnation to do towards yourself), and therefore more opportunities are coming your way. So whatever you've been doing to expand your inner being (mind, heart, soul), keep doing it.

Once you meet the person that you will ultimately be with it will move forward smoothly, without too many snags. You will not have to wonder if he is interested in you. The indications will be there. The energy of his interest towards you is soft and calm, but at the same time strong and stable. He's not super outgoing, joking and gregarious, so it takes a minute to see what he's really all about. There might even be times where you would think that things are going too smoothly, without drama or doubt. I don't want to use the word boring, but you might think he is a little. But he's not. You might think, at first, that this person isn't 'exciting or fun' enough, but as you get to know him more and more, you will appreciate the stability and reliability that he will offer, and realize that he really isn't boring at all. He's a deliberate type person... thinking before taking action. Much is going on in his mind that he keeps to himself. But as you get to know him, get close to him, you will be privy to his inner world, and then you see he is VERY interesting to you.

I feel he will be your rock. Always there. You can toddle off here and there and come back and he will always be there, just as you left him. Which gives you a great comfort level of trust. By toddling off, I mean do your own thing. He is not controlling or possessive where he needs to know where you are, what you're doing and when you're coming back. He has a quiet strength that you can rely on and feel comfortable.

Usually, I feel, you share your activities and all you do with those you really care about and are close to, even if you enjoy 'doing your own thing', but you don't like feeling like you are cornered - having to report everything... you enjoy a feeling of freedom to a certain degree. He will give you the stability and security your heart desires, and also gives you the space and freedom within which you can let your own creativity have wings and fly (metaphorically fly, naturally... lol).

Please let me know if any of this resonates with you.

You mentioned you received a few proposals. Are these marriage proposals you're talking about?

You also said you like one of the guys... one of those you received a proposal from? What type of proposal are you referring to, please?

Also, if you'd could, would you give me the birthday of he or those guys that you are interested in, if you know them. I might be able to get more for you. Btw... I don't need time of birth... I'm not using astrology.

Hope you're having a lovely morning (or whatever time it is there by you *smile*), and I'll look forward to hearing back from you.

posted February 24, 2014 01:04 PM            

Nice to meet you too dear.

I am so happy and glad that you took out the time to answer my questions.And I’m happy to have across you as well.By ‘awestruck’ I meant that I was amazed at your psychic and intuitive abilities ,the way you described that you have them since you were a child and the way you had answered Poochycat’s questions.I also saw that you do not even have a website and yet people come to you for readings since you have been very accurate.Further,I have never in my life talked to someone(in this case,typed ) who has such strong psychic abilities and I was always eager to know about myself from someone with these special skills.

Yes,I agree 23 is very young for marriage although in India,it is considered a fairly moderate age for marriage.In my family though,we are lot more open minded and I am not considering marriage right now. To be honest,it’s just a desire to love and be loved in return and I never had that in terms of romantic relationships.I always felt there must be something karmic related to all these and wanted to get a deeper insight on how to let myself grow so that I can reach my path towards happiness and fulfillment.

I totally agree on the feeling of concentrating on myself and letting myself grow.I have been trying to do that since the last few years and the results have been positive.I just hope to continue with it.That example you gave about looking back on life , it definitely resonates with me as I feel that I have a lot to learn in this lifetime.

And OMG , the qualities you described about the person I will be with it absolutely resonates.That’s because,the guys I have been attracted to EITHER actually possessed those qualities OR I perceived them to be possessing those qualities.I can very well say that those are the qualities I am attracted to for some reason. As much as I know that they maybe boring or not outgoing or a little quietI just can’t help fall for these type of guys.

And YES,even if I love to share what I do yet I also love my freedom and space.You are absoulutely spot-on.

The proposals I received are not marriage proposals,they proposed to start a relationship with me.Two of the guys proposed me at work. Let’s say PB from work,his date of birth is 1st august 1986.Another guy SM also from work, his date of birth is 15 July,1989. There is another guy who asked me to go out with him SP ,his date of birth is 24 October,1987.There are other proposals that I have received via facebook or phone from guys I have known before but I don’t think they are that significant.

I am interested in this guy SD from work whose date of birth is 16 November 1985.I should say that I THINK he is interested in me but not told me anything yet.I might be wrong though.We interact a lot so I guess I felt that way.

Thank you so much for replying to my post.And,it’s night over here..so I’ll wish you good night(or morning if it’s morning over there ) and hope to hear from you soon.

posted February 24, 2014 03:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Miranda01:
Hi CrimsonRed,

Miranda

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Hi again,

You're very welcome. I'm glad that what I said resonated with you.

Thank you for comprehensively answering my questions, making some things clearer and giving me feedback. I appreciate it.

Regarding your personal, inner growth. What I get about that is that, as you have been for the past few years, you should continue... what you've been doing is opening your eyes more around you... introspecting more about what you see. Prior to that you didn't really 'look'... if you know what I mean. You walked around almost in a little bubble, not really seeing what's going on around you on certain levels. Few years ago your view and sight widened and it's what is around you that is facilitating your growth. You just have to pay attention and give time to reflect and put things together, as you have been. Where you are right now... what surrounds you right now, gives you what you need for your growth. Honestly I don't feel that you need a guide through this time of your growth. I feel that you have enough around you to fill your plate. Later you might seek further guidance, but for the time being there are still things around you to keep you pretty busy with your inner growth.

The guys you have known before, I don't feel that any significant romance would blossom from those acquaintances. Interestingly, I feel, that even though there are some who would fit not only my description, but your desired type, they lack a certain element that would still allow the feeling of freedom that you require to be fully fulfilled in the relationship. Their invitations would be make you smile and feel wanted, but of no true, deep interest. I feel that you already know/feel this yourself. You just don't want to make a mistake and miss something that was for you. Be assured that you will not miss who you are to be with.

You said you are not seeking to marry soon... I feel that is a good choice for you at the moment. You will feel the right time... I feel you will just easily 'know'... inside of you. In the same way as you know you're thirsty now and need/want water and act on it. Just as easily... in the same way you will feel that 'now'... 'this' is right (when the right time comes) and you will feel confident about it. I feel that the person you will ultimately be with, that you and he will be together for a few years before you 'tie the knot'. I also feel that he has no agenda of time and will be content with when you're ready. He will, I feel, sort of give you an open invitation... distinctly letting you know that he wants to (marry), but he will not make you feel pressured or that if you don't right away that he is going elsewhere... he will communicate clearly to you that as soon as you want, he is there to do it. This sounds a little strange, I know, but that's what I feel. Once you meet him, I feel SO strongly that you will NOT have to wonder if he's interested. In his calm, soft way he will tell you and you will feel a solidity of his communiation... his words to you will feel very strong (underneath the calm, soft)... it will be so that you will not wonder or have to ask anyone if he likes you and is interested. Just wait... you'll see I'll look at the 4 guys for you, for sure, no problem, but honestly, I don't believe you have met the person I'm talking about yet. Even though I can't do the 4 guys right now, I can feel their energy and I don't feel any one of them is who I'm speaking about.

So.. regarding PB, SM, SP and SD... I will be happy to take a look at all 4 guys for you, but unfortunately I cannot right now. I will try this evening, which is morning for you. If not, then tomorrow.

Hope you're having sweet dreams and until later then.

Love and Light!

posted February 24, 2014 06:30 PM            

So I took a look at you and the four guys.

Here's what I'm feeling.

First, let me say that I (and I'm sorry) that I don't feel any of these guys to be 'the one'. But it's ok, I guess, since you said you aren't anxious for 'forever' right now.

PB, (aug 1, 1986) I feel is very attracted to you. I feel he talked to someone before he communicated to you his interest in you... discussed the approach to take. I feel he's excited to see if you would be available to him and interested in him. He's right now focused on you. He would be a little awkward, nervous in the beginning, but would warm up quickly and be personable and quite entertaining. However I feel that he is a little immature regarding romance and I don't really feel a very stable energy. I feel his energy shifting that he could be changeable, and unexpectedly. As if it would not be too difficult for him to shift his focus. Not right away, but it would. So he could be fun for a while is what i see.

SM (july 15, 1989) This guy I feel as 'oh so sweet'. Is he? I feel he has a very sweet side. Genuinely caring. He has a sensitive side, that he tries to keep under wraps, but I feel he's not as good hiding it as he tries to be. He's close to an older female... a mother, an aunt. There is some connection with him and food. He loves to eat, or to cook or to watch someone cook or something about food and cooking. I feel he approached you after watching you... looking at you for a while but not having the courage to do so. Then I feel he just did because he was afraid that he would lose his chance. There are insecurities with SM. Every time I feel him I see a round, smiling face. Now I'm not sure if he HAS a round smiling face, or if his energy is of that, or if the round, smiling face is just symbolic towards something else in his personality. Any which way, it's good. I feel a lack of adventure in him and eventually that wouldn't work between the two of you. He would be the 'stay in... have a lovely dinner... watch a movie on tv', comfortable, cozy date. As opposed to PB above, who would probably take you out or try to impress you somehow.

SP (oct. 24, 1987) I'm sorry but somehow I don't trust this guy. I don't feel totally honesty. I feel ambition. An "I want to win" type intent instead of looking for love intent. Although he might say different, I feel he wants to grab the biggest and best prize, instead of truly wanting 'the right person for him'. I'm sorry, I hate to say things that aren't all sunshine and butterflies, but I must be candid with what I feel. I hope I'm wrong, but that's what I feel. I feel he has an eye out and several irons in the fire (looking at several opportunities).

SD (nov. 16, 1985) This guy feels like he has more of the energy you're looking for and like. This guy would be, as I feel it, the best for you. It's like if I take you and you are a puzzle piece of a big picture, and these guys are also puzzle pieces, which piece would fit the best with yours. It's SD. He is slow to get close to but I feel would fit you well. The only problem I see with it, and that is why I don't feel it would be long term, is because he has similar karma as yours. But in a different way. He too seems to need to focus on self. There is much he will be changing. As with you, and your secondary karma of the abundance aspect... I feel with him it's a family aspect. Needing to learn to fit into family. He might not even feel that he fits in with his own family (mother, father). As if he is different from them. Then when he will create his own family he will have to work that out... it won't be all that easy, and since you don't have karmic 'family issues/problem' like he does, the bonding between the two of you would be compromised. He can be a friend for a while, but I feel your paths will go in different directions. I know that you like him, but again, allow me to assure you that the one who is meant for you, you will like a lot more.

I hope that this was of help, sweetie. Please let me know what you think. I love to get feedback.

Love and Light!

posted February 25, 2014 04:28 AM            

About PB,I can totally relate to what you said .He asked me out on valentine’s day and he was really nice and sweet to me .There I saw him calling someone for advice. So ,I can totally relate to the fact that he consulted someone before asking me out. Also, he said that he recently broke up with someone and it was pretty bad and I kept wondering how he got attracted to me so early after a painful breakup. So, I guess he is rather immature regarding romance.

About SM,he is a very very sweet guy just like you pointed out.And he LOVES to eat. And he has a round face and he is always smiling.He is very childlike and wears his heart on his sleeve. He is exactly how you described.He told me that he likes me and asked me to go out him but I refused since I thought he is not really my type.You are amazing CrimsonRed!

About SP, this guy has been calling me every other day now and asking me to go out with him. It’s ok dear I know what you are saying since I too feel he is not trustworthy. I feel I am not the only one he is asking out and that he has eyes for many other girls. He is a flirt and whenever he says something nice to me, it feels I don’t know...like he is lying or deceiving. And I am not attracted to him that much. So, all is well.

About SD, yes he possesses those qualities that I get attracted to in guys. When we interact,it feels like we have awesome chemistry plus there is a warm vibe. It makes me sad that it won’t be long term.I always keep hoping that something would happen but at the back of my mind I know that if it doesn’t happen effortlessly,it might never happen at all! I agree that he has family issues as in his parents put a lot of pressure on him,on his freedom to be an individual.So,I guess I should distance myself from him as it puts a lot of mental pressure on me as well.

Thanks again CrimsonRed for taking out the time to give me a reading.Hope I provided you with a proper feedback.

posted February 25, 2014 04:50 AM            

Some thoughts after reading your first post.It is true that previously I used to live in my own little bubble and if things didn’t go my way I used to get angry or frustrated. Compared to those times ,I feel I am better off now with a wider perspective than before just like you said.I try to focus on the positive things in life although I deviate from it now and then.

I am sitting here in awe and wondering how you have interpreted my deepest feelings/emotions about my love life and also about me as a person which I don’t think I have ever expressed in such a big way to anyone, not even my mother. And thank you so much for giving a comprehensive reading about the person I am going to be with .I know it’s not the right time for marriage as I am too young .I just hope to meet him soon and get to know him.

I do not possess any special skills like you do and I am very new to tarot cards(recently bought a tarot deck) but they confuse me.I feel bad that I could not offer you anything in return and you were kind enough to reply me back so well.I just hope I learn something so that someday I can offer my help to people around me.

Much love and good wishes.

Miranda

posted February 25, 2014 01:48 PM            

Thank you SO much for your wonderful, comprehensive and detailed feedback. One of the nicest ones I've received and I truly appreciate it. Big Hug! It's always good to know that I did a good job

I'll follow up here w/you re: some of the things you said:

You not knowing what someone feels exhausts you... well sure it would. It's along the same energy line as trying to control something we can't. I guess that's why our Good Creator has made ppl like me and others like me, to help others with things like that. But if I may say, please don't worry your pretty little head about that. Those who are a total perplexing mystery to you (as to how they feel) aren't going to impact your life all that much, so don't stress about it

Good... I'm glad you see that PB is immature. You can have fun with him, but not much more.

SM...lol... he feels like this adorable little cute round dumpling to me... lol.. and I'm not surprised that you didn't accept his invitation because I didn't really feel any physical attraction... but naturally I hardly know you, you're not really a client and I didn't want to get into that subject (of physical attraction), as I'm sure you can understand.

SP - yeah, yeah... I don't trust him too much. I'm glad you're seeing/feeling it yourself... good... happy to know that your intuition is working well for you. Always go with your feelings.

SD - well, yeah, unfortunately that's the situation. Ahh... thank you for sharing that. That he puts alot of mental strain on you. Well there you have it! You already feel the discomfort that goes along with a relationship with him. That's an indication that it's not all flowers and butterflies. Your insides are warning you already. Ok, well then there it is. I strongly feel, (unfortunately) that he's going to be dealing with his family issues for a veeeery long time. I really don't feel your paths and karmas are parallel.

Ok, let me go and reply to your other post...

posted February 25, 2014 02:11 PM            

Thank you again for your wonderful feedback and kind words.

To answer your question... how do I do it? I don't know?

When I was young I saw the movie The Karati Kid and when I saw Mr. Miagi, I thought he was soooooo cool. I used to wonder what it would be to be like him. Careful what you wish for, huh?

When I started doing my 'thing' I would surprise myself even. Because even though I had flashes as a toddler, and throughout my chlidhood, I dismissed them as silly thoughts or that I was a bad girl feeling those things. I remember when I felt my father's death... BOY did I feel like I was a terrible child.

I didn't start doing readings until my early 20's. Now I'm used to it, naturally after all those decades. Many times though, in my phone sessions, I listen to myself talking. Information flows out of my mouth, and I think "really?, cool." So like the Hebrew National brand of hotdogs used to advertise... it comes from a Higher Authority. Believe me though, sweetie... they say it's a gift... and at times it might be, but many times it's a HUGE burden... so as the saying says.. be careful what you wish for, huh?... lol.

Here's how I see it. Obviously I'm supposed to help others with information. So I'm a conduit. Like the electrical cord between a lamp and the electrical outlet. I plug in and get energy/info. I guess I'm supposed to get it so that I can give it to the person who needs it. And yes, just so you should know, I get the deep inner world and feelings of others. That's my specialty. Someone once told me that I'm a healer of the heart. Ok. I don't know. I just do what I do.. just little old me

Re: your future partner... you will know... that's all I can say because that's what I feel. Until then, have fun, be careful not to get your heart hurt, or at least don't let anything make you jaded and ejoy life...I feel your future is bright.

Don't worry about not giving back to me. Your happiness, good future and a well lived life makes me happy. (If only everyone could have a good life, what a great world this could be, huh?) And you know how karma works... even if you don't get back from who you give to, you will get back from somewhere, somehow... no worrries

You have plenty of time to give back and karma will send those your way that you are supposed to help, just like our paths crossed. (just in case you're interested... and I don't know why I'm sharing these things w/you, like about my childhood and all, but I feel I want to... and not to make you uncomfotable, but I have a past life connection with India, so... hmmm... who really knows, right?... just a fun little snippet of info.)

Much love and may you be blessed with all wonderful things in life. Keep in touch anytime you'd like.
xo

posted February 26, 2014 01:25 PM            

@ re. to not knowing what someone feels exhausts you.. - Thanks for the words of wisdom..I’ll try to keep that in mind to not overthink something.It exhausts me..it does and I don’t like that feeling.And it’s good that God has created people like you so that you could help other people.I asked the universe for help regarding this situation about my love life..to give me some insight and then later I stumbled across your posts. So,maybe the universe answered my questions finally!

About all the other guys,I am not that attracted to them that much except maybe SD.I can’t help talking to him.I don’t know what I would do now knowing that nothing can happen between us.

Thank you for sharing those childhood stories with me.They put a smile on my face.I understand that it must be tiring for you to feel everyone’s thoughts and emotions.One get’s tired of one’s own thoughts and you can automatically tune into others.It must have been terrifying as a kid..not understanding what is going on..I get it and I feel for you.I totally understand when you say that it’s a gift and a burden both.It's a gift when you know how to work with it and a burden when you have to see things that you don't like to see.I like the way said that it all comes from the higher authority just like the advertisement !

Yes,I believe you are a healer of the heart..your words..they have a calming..healing effect I feel.I felt a lot more confident after reading your posts in this thread.

@the karate kid..I've seen that film and I think Mr.Miagi is cool.

@your little info about your past life - I didn’t feel uncomfortable at all.Infact,I am very interested in past lives myself.I have read books by Brian Weiss and searched the net trying to know stuff about past lives.Someday,I have a wish of knowing about my past lives as well.Yeah who knows..and our paths crossed so..maybe somethings’s there…

I loved that you shared all these infos about your life with me.It felt good.I’ll keep you updated about what happens in my life and we’ll keep in touch. Much love to you and all my good wishes. <3

posted February 26, 2014 07:51 PM            

Thank you again for your kind words. You're very sweet.

You know... how interesting, I wrote something else to you about SD, but then I deleted that part, thinking, "gee, she's not a 'regular client' of mine (one who knows me and there is a strong bond/trust developed)... I can't just jump in and tell her what to do or how to look at things, she didn't ask me what she should do. So I should be a little more reserved.', and I was. And then now I see you are conflicted about SD. If I would have wrote the full flash maybe it would have helped you. So I will share it now... ok?

I started saying to you, that don't worry about SD... don't be sad. You don't have to eliminate him and not talk to him. Just becareful of your heart so that you don't experience disappointment. Keep in the back of your mind his issues and remember that you don't really want to share that. Even if you would decide that you would share that with him (sacrifice your path) and marry him, during the marriage, eventually, you will not be able to be comfortable with it and it could cause a permanent split. But to tell you the truth, even before the relationship between the two of you would get to the 'marriage' point, there would be issues that would mainly prevent it.

As of now, you can talk with him all you want. He would like that. I felt that if you are available to him, as you have been, he'll keep communicating with you, and for a lengthy period of time. During that time, if you keep your eyes open (now that you have the info of what to look for), then you would see that his 'family' issues would greatly interfere with his future marriage, and somehow it would fall apart.

Forever with SD, I felt, would stifle you and the direction you're going in. Whereas the one I felt for you would be different. SD would have to be the center of the focus of the marriage, and you second seat. 'The one' for you is the opposite, which I feel fits with you and your needs a LOT better. 'The one' would even blow more wind under your wings and be there on the ground waving when you leave and come back.

Re: keeping in touch and sharing... sounds lovely. Keep in touch whenever you'd like.

Well, sweetie, take care, be well and happy.

Love and Light!

posted February 27, 2014 12:47 AM            

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Originally posted by CrimsonRed:
Hi again Miranda01,

Thank you again for your kind words. You're very sweet.

You know... how interesting, I wrote something else to you about SD, but then I deleted that part, thinking, "gee, she's not a 'regular client' of mine (one who knows me and there is a strong bond/trust developed)... I can't just jump in and tell her what to do or how to look at things, she didn't ask me what she should do. So I should be a little more reserved.', and I was. And then now I see you are conflicted about SD. If I would have wrote the full flash maybe it would have helped you. So I will share it now... ok?

I started saying to you, that don't worry about SD... don't be sad. You don't have to eliminate him and not talk to him. Just becareful of your heart so that you don't experience disappointment. Keep in the back of your mind his issues and remember that you don't really want to share that. Even if you would decide that you would share that with him (sacrifice your path) and marry him, during the marriage, eventually, you will not be able to be comfortable with it and it could cause a permanent split. But to tell you the truth, even before the relationship between the two of you would get to the 'marriage' point, there would be issues that would mainly prevent it.

As of now, you can talk with him all you want. He would like that. I felt that if you are available to him, as you have been, he'll keep communicating with you, and for a lengthy period of time. During that time, if you keep your eyes open (now that you have the info of what to look for), then you would see that his 'family' issues would greatly interfere with his future marriage, and somehow it would fall apart.

Forever with SD, I felt, would stifle you and the direction you're going in. Whereas the one I felt for you would be different. SD would have to be the center of the focus of the marriage, and you second seat. 'The one' for you is the opposite, which I feel fits with you and your needs a LOT better. 'The one' would even blow more wind under your wings and be there on the ground waving when you leave and come back.

Re: keeping in touch and sharing... sounds lovely. Keep in touch whenever you'd like.

Well, sweetie, take care, be well and happy.

Love and Light!

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I heard that you had a relapse after expending much energy over here...I hope and wish that you get better soon..take care..and we'll keep in touch.I will keep whatever you've said in my mind.