posted February 26, 2014 11:05 AM            

Many lifetimes of thanks for this!

His:
http://i90.photobucket.com/albums/k249/coopkiepiegirl/astro_w2at_02_mik ael_hp5031020385_zpsf6cb8c70.gif

Mine:

http://i90.photobucket.com/albums/k249/coopkiepiegirl/astro_w2at_01_lind a_hp4928927281_zps0c32c801.gif

Ours combined (i think?):
http://i90.photobucket.com/albums/k249/coopkiepiegirl/astro_acc_01_02_linda_mikael_hp2449961333png_zps6bc73183.gif

posted February 26, 2014 12:40 PM            

Are you absolutely sure that it is worth to stay and fight or do you think it looks like it's meant for us to go our separate ways now? I do not want to go the wrong way .. to pound my head against the wall and not getting anywhere .. go against my way so to say .. is it that that's the point that my heart must go into a thousand pieces, or should I bite the bullet and fight and it will be good afterwards?

posted February 26, 2014 01:16 PM            

My intuitive answer is that you stay, because it seems like you're open to it. What's the worst that can happen? You could have a terrible time together, and you'll learn exactly what you need to learn in order to go forward more successfully. Or you could cut your losses right now, and wonder if it was the right thing to do.

It would be helpful to have charts, but it's a touch time consuming to set up. You have to get the chart. Then either save it to your hard drive, or copy the url. Then go to a site like Photobucket. Upload the picture either from your hard drive, or use the url. Then you can paste the location of the picture here between this code [img]your.picture's.url[/img]. Then it should show up.

If you guys generally get along, then I do think things will be better in the end. His Sun is in the 7th, which suggests that he's very attuned to partnership (even if he doesn't act like it). His Moon and Mercury are in the 6th, which suggests that he's also service-oriented -that he likes to help people.

posted February 26, 2014 03:23 PM            

How nice that you can interpret some of what I put up here, do not understand anything of it.

It is true what you say there, that I feel that he does not move forward. I feel like I'm waiting for him to grow up and be a man, so to speak. But the question is whether he can grow with me or if he only grows if I leave him.

I have a tendency to "dream" so I want to make sure that I stick to reality and make the right decision .. if I make him more than what he is, or if it is me who must come down to earth and deal with reality.

My goal is to learn as much as possible this period we are in now so we do not miss our opportunities to grow because that's why we're here in the first place

posted March 03, 2014 02:52 PM            

Being an Aquarius may make him open to astrology, though. If that's the case, then you may find him spiritual after all...as astrology tends to indicate some affinity for spirituality.

posted March 04, 2014 10:07 AM            

Great advice, AG. Good seeing you around this Forum.

posted March 04, 2014 02:07 PM            

Very interesting charts. What pops out immediately to me is that your Moon is in the 7th, and his Sun is in the 7th. You also both have Leo rising (which I think I knew initially when you posted the placements.

So while your Mars is supposed to indicate what attributes you like in a man, your 7th house also gives some indication of what you're looking for. Your 7th house starts in Aquarius as does his. You are both hoping for certain Aquarian properties in your relationships. Aqua is half ruled by Uranus, which is the most volatile planet, so perhaps you're both drawn to volatile relationships. Your 7th house quickly moves into Pisces, though, so maybe you're ok with a volatile start followed by some spiritual bliss.

His Sun likes your Sun a lot. However, your Sun is in hard aspect to his Mercury. It's a tight aspect, too (less than one degree from perfect), so that's kind of rough. His Capricornian mind takes issue with you. It seems like, on an instinctive level he likes you, but on a mental level he's not sure about you. Meanwhile, your lovely Mercury (Venus conjunct Mercury) is at odds with his emotional nature (his Moon). I wonder if you find him to be some kind of emotional cripple. Moon in Capricorn suggests that his feelings are soft (feminine) and subtle, and you might think that he should be more overt and obvious about what he's feeling. Your own emotional nature is kind of similar to his (your Moon in feminine Pisces), but still you have more a problem with his nature than your own. It's possible that you can't wrap your head around his emotional nature.

posted March 05, 2014 04:20 AM            

He has been incredibly generous material but very stingy emotionally. But it has taught me much more about myself so it's been good in that way We 've been together for over 7 years, it has been turbulent since the beginning, but it has gotten better the last couple of years, especially now that he came into his last year in his saturn period which ends at the end of this year , my saturn period starts in May this year.

posted March 05, 2014 02:02 PM            

I've heard several times that any lesson you don't learn keeps coming back to you until you do learn it. If that's true, then no matter whether you stay or go, you're still going to learn what you need to learn. There's no telling whether it will be more comfortable or less comfortable.