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Plutonian_Gal8
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posted February 28, 2014 03:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plutonian_Gal8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well dear, I've been here and there and everywhere about you know who. While it's been up and down about where things were going or NOT going it seems the finality is here. Thinking back to your words "petulant child" lol I just LOVE the way you worded that; you suggested that a needed conversation be had…

That opportunity never arose. However, today I felt very inclined to press the send button on a lengthy text msg. I held back a good bit on speaking too brash! However I believe I made it clear to call him out on his immaturity while stating the truth of my feelings at the same time. That was hard. Because I know I really wanted to chastise him for being infantile. And, I didn't want reveal my feelings but at the same time as I evolve I'm comfortable being honest about what my heart feels even if that means he shows no concern for my feelings. But uhhh, I doubt he'll respond. Something that stings much more than a heated response. But I guess thats an Aqua Moon thing? Idk I can't explain how mixed up I feel about all this. Just wanted to give you I presume, the final 411 about the infamous A person. Thank you for being so kind to me throughout it ALL

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LostTaurus
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posted February 28, 2014 04:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LostTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bless your heart dear, it's a brave thing you did. And the RIGHT thing, I believe! We, as women, have spent too many years being ashamed of our sensitivities and depths. We've been taught to fear and question them to the point we often no longer trust them. That is a shame. My own journey is teaching me that I should in fact embrace them, analyze them (the places from which they come inside me, my motivations for wanting to act upon them, the benefits and consequences of my actions should I take them - as well as acceptance of same), but to ultimately trust in them implicitly. I'm also learning that it's a primary part of standing up for oneself, acknowledging those feelings and living in those moments. We'll all be better for a good bit of self-checking and evolution. I'm proud of you - you should be too!

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Plutonian_Gal8
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posted March 03, 2014 03:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plutonian_Gal8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Finally can reply. Thank you for the encouragement Though I will never be ashamed of my feelings or intensity for any particular guy, I am confident enough to step off once I'm done. Done on my terms. My chart ruler really makes me power hungry LT lol Once Mercury went direct I guess something just lit though. So the message to him was right on time.

From my lengthy message, he wasn't as lengthy in response. He just kept saying "i'm reading into things" that my aggressiveness wasn't needed and just believe him when he says "i'm assuming it all wrong"…But from my aggressiveness he's coming back into communication a bit different. I'm not sure if he needed some assurity of some kind that I'm really into him beyond sex? Like, I just don't know. He's way too Aqua Moon and thus I can only guess. It's weird.

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