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KayEvans Knowflake Posts: 249 From: USA Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 03, 2014 09:32 AM
Hi LostTaurus, I'd like to do a reading exchange in regards to my situation with D and thought I'd check if you could do one? If not, I'll just post a new thread to see if someone else can help. Thing is we've reached that point where we should talk about whether or not we're moving towards a deeper commitment..and when I last brought it up 2 months ago I told him I wanted to make sure we were on the same page because some of his actions made me question it .. he said I was overanalyzing the negative things I pointed out and that he'd rather talk about it in person.. needless to say, the convo was never continued. So my question is how I can best handle this situation? I want more and believe that he senses that.. I hope that he wants the same with me, but I'm kind of in the dark.. *sigh* Let me know if you can help with a reading exchange. Thanks. IP: Logged |
LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 396 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 03, 2014 09:50 AM
Absolutely, I'd love to! My question: is today a good day to "speak my peace" with S (much along the same lines as your query)? If not, does one in particular come up? I'll get right on yours, as well. IP: Logged |
KayEvans Knowflake Posts: 249 From: USA Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 03, 2014 09:56 AM
quote: Originally posted by LostTaurus: Absolutely, I'd love to! My question: is today a good day to "speak my peace" with S (much along the same lines as your query)? If not, does one in particular come up? I'll get right on yours, as well.
Thank you! I'll pull your cards now before I leave for work. IP: Logged |
LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 396 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 03, 2014 10:13 AM
Hmmm...a very, very mixed bag here, Kay. First off, I pulled three 2s consecutively - 2/Clubs, 2/Hearts and 2/Spades. Such a draw universally signifies reorganization, recommencement. I can't help but sense that's very much in a 'starting over' kind of way. Individually, the 2/C symbolizes obstacles, the 2/H love, happiness, strength and support from a partner...then there's the 2/S. It's not a positive card. It's a bad omen for deceit, breaks in relationships. As a clarifier, I pulled 4/Clubs which warns the querant not to accept anything at face value. As a final relevant card I drew the 5/Spades - temporary obstacles; a blessing in disguise. My sense with this read is this (and it started dawning on me as I was still shuffling): Yes, the two of you need to speak. There may be things you find out about what has gone on/happened up to this point which may hurt - it will be up to you whether or not to put these things into perspective or move on. I get the very strong sense that this conversation will decide whether you choose to continue seeing him or cut ties, based on what you know you 1) want, and 2) deserve. It will be a personal cleansing of sorts for your part, and you'll be better for it, whatever his response. You're well aware of what you, as an individual bring to the table within the context of a relationship, and right now, you feel like you're settling. Not fair. Again - whatever his response, this will bring you a strong sense of peace. My advice is to have that conversation. Let me know if this resonates, or if I can answer anything further dear. I sincerely hope this helps. IP: Logged |
KayEvans Knowflake Posts: 249 From: USA Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 03, 2014 10:14 AM
Okay, I drew three cards for you and don't feel the need to draw more because I feel it is an overall "yes". I pulled the 10 of cups, 3 of cups, and 10 of wands. I can see you've been feeling burdened by this situation, but I feel that if you focus your energy towards overcoming the obstacles you've been facing in regards to 'S', you'll be able to reach a successful conclusion (success being subjective of course). With 10 of cups and 3 of cups, you'll be able to resolve existing inner turmoil and I generally feel that no matter how your conversation goes with S, it will result in positivity for you. I'd say today is a good day, so I wish you luck with it! Please update me if you can. IP: Logged |
KayEvans Knowflake Posts: 249 From: USA Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 03, 2014 10:21 AM
quote: Originally posted by LostTaurus: Hmmm...a very, very mixed bag here, Kay. First off, I pulled three 2s consecutively - 2/Clubs, 2/Hearts and 2/Spades. Such a draw universally signifies reorganization, recommencement. I can't help but sense that's very much in a 'starting over' kind of way. Individually, the 2/C symbolizes obstacles, the 2/H love, happiness, strength and support from a partner...then there's the 2/S. It's not a positive card. It's a bad omen for deceit, breaks in relationships. As a clarifier, I pulled 4/Clubs which warns the querant not to accept anything at face value. As a final relevant card I drew the 5/Spades - temporary obstacles; a blessing in disguise. My sense with this read is this (and it started dawning on me as I was still shuffling): Yes, the two of you need to speak. There may be things you find out about what has gone on/happened up to this point which may hurt - it will be up to you whether or not to put these things into perspective or move on. I get the very strong sense that this conversation will decide whether you choose to continue seeing him or cut ties, based on what you know you 1) want, and 2) deserve. It will be a personal cleansing of sorts for your part, and you'll be better for it, whatever his response. You're well aware of what you, as an individual bring to the table within the context of a relationship, and right now, you feel like you're settling. Not fair. Again - whatever his response, this will bring you a strong sense of peace. My advice is to have that conversation. Let me know if this resonates, or if I can answer anything further dear. I sincerely hope this helps.
Thank you, LostTaurus.. I think your reading does resonate, even though it isn't exactly what I was hoping to hear (but that's okay). My only remaining question is what you think those things that may hurt could be.. I'm not sure if you can even answer that, but thought I would ask anyway.
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LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 396 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 03, 2014 10:40 AM
I can't really, Kay. My natural inclination went to the same place yours has; but I can't say with any clarity. I'm sorry it wasn't more positive - but for what it's worth, it isn't negative either. Let me know if I can help further. (((HUGS)))IP: Logged |
KayEvans Knowflake Posts: 249 From: USA Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 03, 2014 10:52 AM
quote: Originally posted by LostTaurus: I can't really, Kay. My natural inclination went to the same place yours has; but I can't say with any clarity. I'm sorry it wasn't more positive - but for what it's worth, it isn't negative either. Let me know if I can help further. (((HUGS)))
It's okay, I understand. Thank you anyway! I'll let you know how it goes..IP: Logged |
LostTaurus Knowflake Posts: 396 From: Conway, AR, USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 03, 2014 11:15 AM
I hope you will! And let me know if I can help with anything else at all.IP: Logged | |