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Astroboy888
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posted March 04, 2014 01:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astroboy888     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is a topic i probably think about 24/7, i've had multiple chances with girls, but i was always shy to capitalize on it, i still have chances, but i'm too shy to open up to them about it, i really need help with it,even if i like a girl it's usually someone i can never get, but i'm a complete loner lol,all i do these days are write crappy poems about love lol, what's holding me back? will i ever get in a relationship?? even if i do how soon??? it's not even sexual things i'm thinking about, just being with them, kissing and cuddling, talking, like i meet a girl in class and i will probably spend the rest of the day dreaming about spending time with her in a relationship, little fights, watching movies stuff like that lol, like it seems so real, but when i see them in real life, i just freeze :P as pathetic as my reasons are, this is really a cry for help guys
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Ellynlvx
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posted March 04, 2014 02:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There are a lot of girls your age on this website, I am sure you can find someone of like mind Quite easily

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AcousticGod
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posted March 04, 2014 04:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You know that single girls are looking to have relationships with guys, right? They want all those things, too. Why are you denying them access to you? You're not going to act inappropriately, are you? So why hold yourself back? They'll forgive you just about everything, too, if you're sweet.

The more practice you get at anything, the better you are at it.

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poochycat
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posted March 04, 2014 05:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for poochycat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Astroboy, Ahhh you touched my heart. You sound so sweet and sensitive. These are the cards I pulled for you...

3 of wands, lovers, 8 of swords page of swords popped out

3 of wands and page of swords show that you have to make an effort to get out and mingle. Hard I know! But the lovers came for a visit which I feel might mean someone from your past re-appearing? You might want to give her a second chance.

*I think Ellyn gave me a good idea. I see you are 19 yrs old. And since you say you are shy, how about posting a thread "all 18 22yr old woman apply". Start chatting with them, ask for exchanges with readings. I know this is not a dating site but it might give you the confidence until you can approach a woman in person. Anyway get out there where you know young ladies will be and just be yourself. It will happen. poochy

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LoadedPistil
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posted March 04, 2014 08:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That giant stellium... Do you spend a large amount of time with children? At home? Taking care of someone?
The chart is visually beautiful, but love isn't the only thing missing in your life according to this.

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Scorpio ♏ Moon
Cancer ♋ Rising
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starmoon
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posted March 04, 2014 10:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
everyone is being so gentle with you, but your placements are not going to have it easy in love, just sayin'. you have your moon and venus in aquarius, and that huge stellium in Capricorn. so you've got a more reserved and cautious nature paired with a rather distant type of affection - you might long for warm and snuggly, but are probably not that way - you probably find it quite hard to initiate affection like that. I would give you this advice... your placements are extremely smart; you're either very intelligent already or will be stellar at some field you choose; you'd probably do very well to find a girl that you can talk to about all types of things, someone who has a lot of interests and intelligence would be very appealing to you and probably much easier for you to approach and get to know. your relationships will likely come from friendships first. build some solid friendships with women and I bet you'll have it much easier than just coldly approaching them or longing for them.

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LoadedPistil
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posted March 04, 2014 10:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Find out where your Juno is. That'll tell you your ideal wife.

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poochycat
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posted March 04, 2014 11:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for poochycat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi astroboy,

Just noticed that several people took the time out to give you readings, tarot and natal because we genuinely care. A thank you hmmm...

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Astroboy888
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posted March 07, 2014 10:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astroboy888     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sorry for the late replies guys, aahhh, i was so genuinely embarrased by this thread of mine, it's so cheesy, sorry :P but thanks for helping me you know, tbh that 4th house stellium is the bane of my life, but you know i'll go out more i guess, no promises lol, as you already know :P

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Astroboy888
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posted March 07, 2014 10:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astroboy888     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
That giant stellium... Do you spend a large amount of time with children? At home? Taking care of someone?
The chart is visually beautiful, but love isn't the only thing missing in your life according to this.


yh quite true, i guess a lot of things are missing in my life, but you know, it's the only thing i focus at, but one step at a time fingers crossed :P

i do spend a lot of time at home, i don't mind children, they are in my future goals, i alreay picture what they look like lol, umm, i used to take care of my grandmother when i was in my preteens, she was very old and was staying with me, then when i was 16-17 i took care of my mom, she had cancer, sadly both people only exist in my memories now

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Astroboy888
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posted March 07, 2014 10:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astroboy888     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by poochycat:
Hi Astroboy, Ahhh you touched my heart. You sound so sweet and sensitive. These are the cards I pulled for you...

3 of wands, lovers, 8 of swords page of swords popped out

3 of wands and page of swords show that you have to make an effort to get out and mingle. Hard I know! But the lovers came for a visit which I feel might mean someone from your past re-appearing? You might want to give her a second chance.

*I think Ellyn gave me a good idea. I see you are 19 yrs old. And since you say you are shy, how about posting a thread "all 18 22yr old woman apply". Start chatting with them, ask for exchanges with readings. I know this is not a dating site but it might give you the confidence until you can approach a woman in person. Anyway get out there where you know young ladies will be and just be yourself. It will happen. poochy


actually i just turned 18 in december,i'm not much of a talker as you might have presumed, i just come across really cold,most girls are intimadated by me, they have told me so themselves, which is annoying kind of, but life, eh..

yh about the past lover, there was a libra girl, i liked couple of years ago, she has been dropping hints that she likes me to a couple of my friends, but i don't know her that much, so i don't how to intiate my attack lol, but i'm trying to make a move with her in class, hopefully it will work

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LoadedPistil
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posted March 07, 2014 10:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When you do find a woman you like, move in with her as soon as possible. That's where you're your best and can nurture the relationship. You're going to be the most excellent father. Put me on the list for a Christmas card. LOL

Flings and short-term affairs are not for you. Don't even try it. It'll hurt you more.

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Scorpio ♏ Moon
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Astroboy888
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posted March 07, 2014 10:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astroboy888     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Find out where your Juno is. That'll tell you your ideal wife.

just checked, my juno is in capricorn

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Astroboy888
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posted March 07, 2014 10:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astroboy888     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
There are a lot of girls your age on this website, I am sure you can find someone of like mind Quite easily

lol i know, but they are all in america, i'm in london

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Astroboy888
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posted March 07, 2014 10:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astroboy888     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by poochycat:
Hi astroboy,

Just noticed that several people took the time out to give you readings, tarot and natal because we genuinely care. A thank you hmmm...


Poochycat, so it seems , i didn't expect to get such support, i was counting on to get a lot of ignores and hate posts :P

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Astroboy888
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posted March 07, 2014 10:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astroboy888     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by starmoon:
everyone is being so gentle with you, but your placements are not going to have it easy in love, just sayin'. you have your moon and venus in aquarius, and that huge stellium in Capricorn. so you've got a more reserved and cautious nature paired with a rather distant type of affection - you might long for warm and snuggly, but are probably not that way - you probably find it quite hard to initiate affection like that. I would give you this advice... your placements are extremely smart; you're either very intelligent already or will be stellar at some field you choose; you'd probably do very well to find a girl that you can talk to about all types of things, someone who has a lot of interests and intelligence would be very appealing to you and probably much easier for you to approach and get to know. your relationships will likely come from friendships first. build some solid friendships with women and I bet you'll have it much easier than just coldly approaching them or longing for them.

I expected that, damn that stellium man, plus the venus in aquarius, i don't mind the moon in aquarius, but yh i'm sort of smart i guess, it's not like i pull A's and B's out of the bag everyday, but ummm, about the stellar thing you mentioned, i write poetry, may be that's the thing i don't know,but i met two girls like the way you mentioned an aries and a sag, the aries girl and i are still friends, but she kind of goes from guys to guys, don't know where i would put myslef in that equation :P

the sag and i had a real connection, the only woman who understood, perhaps except her sun in sag, everything else in her chart was in capricorn, plus her moon in virgo and her aquarius rising, but she was already in a rleationship when i met her, i mooned over the girl for a year, i could tell she liked me but she wasn't going to broke up with her boyfriend of 3 year. we would just talk all the time, not like in a airy way, but about life, art, music, love, animals, everything,it was just perfect.

then i learned something painful, she was dyslexic, she is so beautiful, you can't tell, her boyfriend's dyslexic as well. i was shocked, i didn't know what to do, my perception of her changed in no way, if anything i respected her more,but i had a long think over it. yes she was the only woman who understood me, the prettiest girl i've ever seen, but i could never understand her, and still that's the harsh truth, her boyfriend can, i've seen him do it a million times, what was i? some guy who was going to destroy a beuatiful relationship like hers, i pulled myslef out of her life, it was hard, she knew me so well, she could just tell what i was feeling without even me telling her, but i could never tell what was she like inside.

true she had feelings for me, but she loved him, he loved her, and my love for her was nothing but fluke, ijust decided, if she really likes me, she'll do thge right thing, i made myslef the bad guy in the end, i gave her short, cold answers to her texts, i gignored her in class, it's still killing me, i think about her everyday, but we are not meant to be.

in the end, what i did could be or just plain self-righteous, but what i cared for was her happiness, and i hopefully achieved that, i don't care if she hates me, i know she never can, but knowing she's happy makes me happy, in the end, that's what love's all about right

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Astroboy888
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posted March 07, 2014 10:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astroboy888     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
When you do find a woman you like, move in with her as soon as possible. That's where you're your best and can nurture the relationship. You're going to be the most excellent father. Put me on the list for a Christmas card. LOL

Flings and short-term affairs are not for you. Don't even try it. It'll hurt you more.


you know i'll like to go fast with a girl,. but damn i'm so slow in relatiuonships, but yh i agree flings, i tried it in april, not my thing, learned it the hard way :P

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LoadedPistil
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posted March 07, 2014 11:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Astroboy888:
just checked, my juno is in capricorn

Makes sense. You need a woman who also works. A stay-at-home wife will be expecting you to give her attention you won't give. You also want an orderly home. Work/Life balance will be very important here.

You 4th house is CROWDED!!! No room at the end! LOL

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Astroboy888
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posted March 07, 2014 12:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astroboy888     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Makes sense. You need a woman who also works. A stay-at-home wife will be expecting you to give her attention you won't give. You also want an orderly home. Work/Life balance will be very important here.

You 4th house is CROWDED!!! No room at the end! LOL


so true. i'd hate a girl who just stays at home all the time, yh my fourth house is the planetary vaccum lol

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poochycat
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posted March 07, 2014 05:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for poochycat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Astro

Just something I noticed with your chart. Your True Node, Chiron, and Ascendant are all in Libra! So give this girl in your class a chance. Let down your guard. The sagitarius girl you mentioned probably wouldn't have been a good mix in the long run as she was a fire and you are an earth. Just based on your sun signs not a good mix. Poochy

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Astroboy888
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posted March 12, 2014 11:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astroboy888     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by poochycat:
Hi Astro

Just something I noticed with your chart. Your True Node, Chiron, and Ascendant are all in Libra! So give this girl in your class a chance. Let down your guard. The sagitarius girl you mentioned probably wouldn't have been a good mix in the long run as she was a fire and you are an earth. Just based on your sun signs not a good mix. Poochy


yeah i will ya know, she is a fun girl, which is automatically my opposite lol but um she is a nice person and she says she likes a lot of stuff about me, my handwriting, my clothes, hair etc, how to approach her is the problem lol,but i got time so all is well for the moment

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