posted March 04, 2014 10:53 PM            

my question is what can I expect in terms of romance

posted March 04, 2014 11:00 PM            

that's the problem he's not necessarily hooked on you yet we're if you were to leave he would be hurt you have to give him more time. with that being said the relationship has to be fun easy and breezy in with laugther.... I know it sounds odd but it's almost like a high school relationship where it just needs to build overtime but first he has to feel comfortable and knowing like you are his confidante and then a real relationship can grow.

I suggest using words such as hey you want to hang out, wanna go grab a drink,etc. almost being easy breezy and spontaneous not putting pressure on him especially in terms of pressure for the weekend dates.

he just doesn't know what he wants but he's not too sure about a serious committed relationship so he's not out there looking at other girls he's trying to tread carefully with you so appreciate that part... so just beware of that that he's a bit timid trying to walk on eggshells not to lead you on.

personally I've been in your shoes and I did wait and I feel that I made the wrong choice because other guys were ready so if you want to wait its up to you. I just really highly suggest again you scale back on the heart felt emotions and try to reconfigure your brain to be more of friends with him.

my vote is for no but I'm looking at it from a different angle. I'm 35 and like I said I've been in your shoes and theyre were other guys that were ready. I don't have the patience for it and I don't wanna hold anyone's hand until they can figure out what they want and I get their act together

posted March 05, 2014 10:39 AM            

Yes ur guy could catch up...meaning grow emotionally towards u. But he can't get too freaked out or scared. So u face to be careful.

QUOTE]Originally posted by luckystar25:
From the cards that i have for you is it you or the person your seeing thats emotionally guarded? From what i can see it might be you because you were so badly hurt in the past.my intuition tells me.you have recently met a nice guy but you arent sure about him? Mayb because you are still thinking about someone from your past you bavent let go of yet. Romance looks good for you if you leave your usual patterns, and try something new[/QUOTE]

posted March 05, 2014 02:06 PM            

Next card is saying take things slow, dont rush into anything even though theres alot of passion there. The more you approach this with patience, and balance the more it will be a very strong relationship thats worth it..in the past did you have a habit of rushing things and it never progressed because of that?