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EmpressMendez
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posted March 05, 2014 06:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmpressMendez     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey. I'm trying to figure something out..I will need two people please . I want you to tell me which one sounds like the male and which one is describing yourself (female, or if male, vice-versa..etc)

1. Lioness

2. Adimi

Please only two for now and I will need feedback asap because I will get these done right now =). Thanks in advance!!

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posted March 05, 2014 06:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'll be happy to assist..
I'll give immediate feed back..

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posted March 05, 2014 06:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Adimi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sure, I'll take a sit.
Please let me know if there is anything you need to know.

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posted March 05, 2014 06:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmpressMendez     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you both!

Please names of each and whether female or male is all I will need for now :]

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posted March 05, 2014 06:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You need personal names?
Female : S
Male : G

Please don't use names in reading, you can use S and G in reading
I will delete the names also

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posted March 05, 2014 06:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Adimi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No problem! My name is M... and I'm a female. The other person is a male and his name is P...
Please don't quote this post as I'll edit the names afterwards.

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posted March 05, 2014 06:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Please let us know when you have the names, so they can be deleted.

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posted March 05, 2014 06:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmpressMendez     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes names and/or initials only. Got them thanks

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posted March 05, 2014 06:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmpressMendez     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lioness:
I'll be happy to assist..
I'll give immediate feed back..

Hey Lioness

Ok when I tune into present feelings/emotions I feel that there is one of you that is feeling sort of like separating/breaking up..they need space. Petty issues/fights/competition also shows up, but still wanting to interact or compete for the other's attention regardless of them feeling this way it seems..a bit conflicting, but passionate.

While the other individual has another choice in love/another lover. They are avoiding the other person it seems and/or not being entirely honest and upfront. I also see that this person feels like they always have to win, no matter what. The other is competitive, but not as much as this one who may feel that he/she is always right + always wins/comes on top.

As far as feelings/emotions goes between you both (shared feelings) it seems that there is a lot of indecision here. I see someone trying to speed things up/rush things..the feelings/interaction in general between you both seem rather indecisive, a small passionate fling-like interaction.

Please let me know which paragraph sounds like you, and which may be the other person? Thanks..+ let me know how the interaction between you both paragraph relates to you (whether it does or not) thank you so much!! xox

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posted March 05, 2014 07:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Hey Lioness

Ok when I tune into present feelings/emotions I feel that there is one of you that is feeling sort of like separating/breaking up..they need space. Petty issues/fights/competition also shows up, but still wanting to interact or compete for the other's attention regardless of them feeling this way it seems..a bit conflicting, but passionate.

While the other individual has another choice in love/another lover. They are avoiding the other person it seems and/or not being entirely honest and upfront. I also see that this person feels like they always have to win, no matter what. The other is competitive, but not as much as this one who may feel that he/she is always right + always wins/comes on top.

As far as feelings/emotions goes between you both (shared feelings) it seems that there is a lot of indecision here. I see someone trying to speed things up/rush things..the feelings/interaction in general between you both seem rather indecisive, a small passionate fling-like interaction.

Please let me know which paragraph sounds like you, and which may be the other person? Thanks..+ let me know how the interaction between you both paragraph relates to you (whether it does or not) thank you so much!! xox


Thank you..
The first paragraph is definitely me..
I think your getting the conflicting reading, is because this IS what I did, verses what I'm feeling..
I needed space and I felt I had no choice but to cut all ties, which I have done.
I still want to interact with him, but mentally I just can't.
My choice has been to stay away..
Kinda like, if it's meant to be, it will be but at a later time..
Yes he needs to win, well he's always right describes him. and well I put my foot down on this "small disagreement" neither of us will bend.
So the "win" could be both of us..
My last words to him, was I'm not going to be able to let this one go...
I haven't.
I feel like he needs to loose me, to appreciate me. (Is that Leo of me.. Lol ) if he never comes back, then so be it.

It wasn't a small fling, but it was off/on for 2 years.
A lot of feelings between us, but neither of us really knowing what to do with those feelings.

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posted March 05, 2014 07:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmpressMendez     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Thank you..
The first paragraph is definitely me..
I think your getting the conflicting reading, is because this IS what I did, verses what I'm feeling..
I needed space and I felt I had no choice but to cut all ties, which I have done.
I still want to interact with him, but mentally I just can't.
My choice has been to stay away..
Kinda like, if it's meant to be, it will be but at a later time..
Yes he needs to win, well he's always right describes him. and well I put my foot down on this "small disagreement" neither of us will bend.
So the "win" could be both of us..
My last words to him, was I'm not going to be able to let this one go...
I haven't.
I feel like he needs to loose me, to appreciate me. (Is that Leo of me.. Lol ) if he never comes back, then so be it.

It wasn't a small fling, but it was off/on for 2 years.
A lot of feelings between us, but neither of us really knowing what to do with those feelings.


Thanks! No I meant the PRESENT energies/interaction/feelings between you two (right right now, not in the past or future) were that of a "small fling" . I never intended to mean that you two had a small fling. Thanks for the feedback!! =)

I might make a short-term prediction soon, but I will also need feedback promptly for that one as well. Thank you very much for your help!

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posted March 05, 2014 07:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Thanks! No I meant the PRESENT energies/interaction/feelings between you two (right right now, not in the past or future) were that of a "small fling" . I never intended to mean that you two had a small fling. Thanks for the feedback!! =)

I might make a short-term prediction soon, but I will also need feedback promptly for that one as well. Thank you very much for your help!


Ohh ok.. I'm with you...
Right now we have zero contact with each other.
But him wanting to win this argument sounds like him,
He's probably expecting me to call, and give in. But I'm not going to. Lol
I'm being stubborn, it needs to come from him, and I'm standing my ground.
Honestly... I really don't think he ever will though. Which is fine.
Yes if you get anything, let me know... I'll keep an eye out so I can give feed back.

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posted March 05, 2014 07:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmpressMendez     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Adimi:
Sure, I'll take a sit.
Please let me know if there is anything you need to know.

Does heartbreak/sorrow and pain seem to be an issue between you two/one of you feels the other has betrayed them??

I feel that one of you is sort of stubborn and slow to act. They like taking their time, and everything at their own pace. I see that with them..they feel like they have their whole lives ahead of them, and honestly I am not picking up that this person is in a rush to get emotionally involved in a relationship just yet (this is currently how they feel about the other person right now and love in general).

The other person is coming across as feeling more passionate/impatient than the other. They want to communicate/initiate contact, but at the same time they feel abandoned. As if they feel the other person either doesn't want to hear from him, or that they don't want to take the initiative to reach out to them.

As far as emotions/interaction/feelings between you two what I pick up is a wall and hurt feelings/emotions. It seems that you two are on "defensive mode" right now..even though you two have the "right tools" to initiate a positive/loving bond + friendship, it seems that fear and hurt/pain is what stops you both the most -- it holds you two back, and so it shows that even though there are mutual feelings + attraction, that you two aren't on the same page as far as "reacting" goes. One of you is too too patient and grounded..likes taking their time..while the other feels like they need to rush and the fact that the other doesn't show as much interest, or is taking their time/too long hurts the other and makes them feel "abandoned" in a sense.

Please let me know which paragraph applies to female/male from the first two . Thanks!!

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posted March 05, 2014 07:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmpressMendez     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Ohh ok.. I'm with you...
Right now we have zero contact with each other.
But him wanting to win this argument sounds like him,
He's probably expecting me to call, and give in. But I'm not going to. Lol
I'm being stubborn, it needs to come from him, and I'm standing my ground.
Honestly... I really don't think he ever will though. Which is fine.
Yes if you get anything, let me know... I'll keep an eye out so I can give feed back.

Lol, yes I know, which is why these are only feelings and not actions ok I will look into it soon. Thanks again

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posted March 05, 2014 07:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Adimi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, this is pretty spot on Empress!

I believe the 1st paragraph relates to him and the 2nd one relates to me. He is incredibly slow and I'm constantly feeling like I'm being forced to be patient. It's like I don't have any other choice, really.

The hurt, yes... It's present and it's just as you described in the 3rd paragraph. It's not necessarily a feeling of betrayal as you first mentioned, but rather the feeling that I may not be significant enough for him to make an actual move towards me. I also feel the feelings and attraction are there, but maybe not that important that he would want to act on it and be a bit more assertive? I don't know, these are my own insecurities talking. I just don't understand why there is so much waiting involved on here. I mean, I get it to a certain degree and I respect his position, as I always have... But I just don't know if this is ever going to change and the thought that it may not hurts me.

Like I said, you pretty much nailed it! Thank you so much!

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posted March 05, 2014 08:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmpressMendez     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Adimi:
Wow, this is pretty spot on Empress!

I believe the 1st paragraph relates to him and the 2nd one relates to me. He is incredibly slow and I'm constantly feeling like I'm being forced to be patient. It's like I don't have any other choice, really.

The hurt, yes... It's present and it's just as you described in the 3rd paragraph. It's not necessarily a feeling of betrayal as you first mentioned, but rather the feeling that I may not be significant enough for him to make an actual move towards me. I also feel the feelings and attraction are there, but maybe not that important that he would want to act on it and be a bit more assertive? I don't know, these are my own insecurities talking. I just don't understand why there is so much waiting involved on here. I mean, I get it to a certain degree and I respect his position, as I always have... But I just don't know if this is ever going to change and the thought that it may not hurts me.

Like I said, you pretty much nailed it! Thank you so much!


Thanks a bunch Adimi. I will need to offer more because I am still confused and cannot point/feel/sense which is female/male in a reading like this lol..but thanks that you are able to tell which is which on your own . Some clients really struggle with that because I cannot tell which side is the querent and which is the other person . You two are helping, but still I am left a bit puzzled hehe..may need more practice.

I will see if I can make a short-term prediction once I find some free time later on. Thank you very much again to the both of you =)

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posted March 06, 2014 03:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Adimi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Thanks a bunch Adimi. I will need to offer more because I am still confused and cannot point/feel/sense which is female/male in a reading like this lol..but thanks that you are able to tell which is which on your own . Some clients really struggle with that because I cannot tell which side is the querent and which is the other person . You two are helping, but still I am left a bit puzzled hehe..may need more practice.

I will see if I can make a short-term prediction once I find some free time later on. Thank you very much again to the both of you =)



No problem Empress, it was very clear to me, actually! Thanks, I'd appreciatte that.

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posted March 11, 2014 08:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Em..
Sorry I just need to sort of vent, maybe you can help me out and vibe this...

First me and him have been in Fu mode towards each other, I admit I started it, because I was so pizzed at him..
He returned the FU mode back to me... Lol
Not surprised..

(Remember we work together) but I have been successfully at fully avoiding him.. But today I knew I would see him, his department had a meeting, my office is next to the conference room, you have to walk past my office to get to the conference room..
So I mentally prepared my self, that I would see him pass by...
I wasn't prepared for what actually happen though..
He passed by, he looked in, I looked up and he smiled
(Odd he actually looked at me, that's not FU mode)
I didn't smile or acknowledge him...
About 20 mins into the meeting (I'm in my office, not the meeting)
I hear the door, and I look up and it's him, he smiles, keeps walking and he waves from behind his back.
I didn't say or do anything...
2 mins later he walks by again (keep in minute he stepped out of the meeting)
He stops in my door way, and he leans against the frame of the door, but not a side ways lean, but a forward lean, where his body is facing the frame, he turns his head to the side and looks at me..
(I thought he was going to make out with the door frame or something, lol) he taps the frame with his hand, facing the door frame, (as to figure out what to say) then he turns he head, and says hi, really low, but with a smile.
This whole time, I'm looking at him, like wtf are you doing, I'm giving him that your crazy look..
I really was just surprised, and not really sure what to think or do...
So he says hi, my quick thought is hey I'm in FU mode (ok my ego) and you can't just come and say hi, and think I'm going to just be over it...
2nd thought was be cordial, so I just said hey.
He looked at me, with sad eyes, he turned his head and looked down, then walked back into the meeting...

So my thought, about his so called subtle actions, is him saying YOU can me, I'm giving you an opening..
But that doesn't work for me, I'm (ego) still in if you want to talk, YOU have to call me, and show me some effort.
Cuz I'm not going to let this "problem" just go away, he needs to make amends with me. I'm not going to do anything to make amends with him... (Like normal)
I'm stubborn (just a bit,) lol. I have stuck with this for 3 months now... I'm not budging.
As I said before if me never comes back and makes amends, then he never comes back.. I'm willing to take that risk, over this one!!
So if possible, I'm wondering what are his intentions with his subtle actions, what was he trying to accomplish?
I think he's trying to draw me out, so I will make the first move and call him...
Which actually pizzed me off more, because if he wanted to talk to he should just approach me, and say I want to talk to you...
Grrrrr, this man!!!!!

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