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Topic: Should I send him a birthday text?
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MineAgain
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posted March 07, 2014 06:50 AM
  
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geminigal2805
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posted March 07, 2014 08:01 AM
Hi!
Call him and wish him. It depends on the situation too. If (during this week) u have already tried calling and been ignored by him then DONT call him! Otherwise CALL him..IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
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posted March 07, 2014 08:24 AM
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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
Hi!
Call him and wish him. It depends on the situation too. If (during this week) u have already tried calling and been ignored by him then DONT call him! Otherwise CALL him..
Pisces love to be thought about. If you've already called, don't again. Just text.
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manques
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posted March 07, 2014 09:51 AM
I think just contact him, be it calls or texts. Go with your heart.  Just use birthday as a "reason" or whatever to convince yourself. you know u want to contact him
If he doesnt reply after that, then see how again.*** this is just what I would have done in these cases. IP: Logged |
MineAgain
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posted March 07, 2014 10:15 AM
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Jerseyshore
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posted March 07, 2014 10:41 AM
When a man is genuinely interested in you he will make it a point to keep in contact. If he hasn't responded in over a week "he's just not into you". Sorry to be harsh but I've learned this lesson the hard way. Plenty of fish in the sea darling! IP: Logged |
moonstruck87
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posted March 07, 2014 01:06 PM
I agree with jersey. Move on darling! You deserve better!! XoIP: Logged |
FairyDust75
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posted March 07, 2014 03:52 PM
I'm sort of in the same position you are MineAgain. I read the posts and you said you did text him. If he doesn't answer I guess that's sort of the answer BUT at least you tried. I'm doing the same thing soon with the guy I like. His bday is coming up and we haven't spoken in awhile but I figured one last message to say happy bday. If he answers, great, if not, at least I know. So you tried and the ball is in his court. If he doesn't answer it's his loss, not yours. But you tried and that's something. Let us know if he answers. IP: Logged |
geminigal2805
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posted March 07, 2014 11:03 PM
If he couldnt reply to a happy bday text he is being a JERK! IF a guy likes a girl he will definitely respond to a call or a text. Men tend to like women who play hard to get... they like to chase... most of them do. I have venus in aries. My impulse is to CHASE. Unfortunately i guys dont respect u when u chase.. dont bother about this guy. Even if he contacts u again play lil hard to get. let him give u a valid reason why he couldnt get in touch with u earlier.. even then play hard to get. It works always. IP: Logged |
Londongirl8
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posted March 08, 2014 08:07 AM
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Originally posted by Jerseyshore:
When a man is genuinely interested in you he will make it a point to keep in contact. If he hasn't responded in over a week "he's just not into you". Sorry to be harsh but I've learned this lesson the hard way. Plenty of fish in the sea darling!
Generally speaking I agree but I dated a Pisces man who wasn't good at maintaining contact with me. Eventually I got fed up of being the one to make the effort and dumped him. Then he sent me a text saying how sorry he was and that he liked to take his time with women and didn't appreciate the fact that basic levels of contact are important (I didn't take him back) IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
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posted March 08, 2014 08:28 AM
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Originally posted by Londongirl8:
Generally speaking I agree but I dated a Pisces man who wasn't good at maintaining contact with me. Eventually I got fed up of being the one to make the effort and dumped him. Then he sent me a text saying how sorry he was and that he liked to take his time with women and didn't appreciate the fact that basic levels of contact are important (I didn't take him back)
We fight about this weekly. *nodding*
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MineAgain
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posted March 08, 2014 12:10 PM
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EmpressMendez
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posted March 08, 2014 01:06 PM
Hey MineagainI decided to take a look at how he currently feels about you (well, you both about each other). One of you seems hopeless, indecisive and stubborn. Slow to act..not really sure what they want sometimes. The other person still holds feelings for the other. Physical attraction is present. However, he is still communicating/talking to an ex gf, or another woman of similar energy. I'm pretty sure it was a long-term relationship he was once in because it's coming across as a commitment and the other woman is present loud and clear. Yes, he is physically attracted to you, but unfortunately it seems like there is this other woman. He is very attracted to you, but mostly in a physical/sexual way. He is definitely still talking to the other woman who again seems they once shared a long-term relationship/commitment/marriage. The feelings at present also suggest that right now it will usually play out as an "affair" (could be physical and/or emotional). Hope this helps a bit =/ ------------------
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MineAgain
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posted March 08, 2014 04:22 PM
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MineAgain
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posted March 13, 2014 09:40 PM
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manques
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posted March 13, 2014 11:00 PM
Cheer up MineAgain! This guy isn't worth your time! How difficult can it be to reply a 'thanks'. I hate people who don't reply.  IP: Logged |
MineAgain
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posted March 14, 2014 06:45 AM
Thanks. Yes, clearly some people have no sense of courtesy. I genuinely hope one day he will grow up to realize you can't treat people this way. IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
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posted March 14, 2014 11:40 AM
@MineAgain I totally get how you feel. My situation is almost exact to yours. The guy for me, his birthday is next week and even though I've been told not to, I know I'm still going to reach out one last time. I've come to accept I will probably not get an answer but I just feel I have to try it one more time. It hurts though so I know how you feel. IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted March 14, 2014 11:47 PM
I completely understand what you are going through! If there is another girl he will only come bck when she's done with him. Dont wait for him, if someone doesnt appreciate you the 1st time they dont deserve a 2nd chance only to not appreciate you again IP: Logged |
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