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Topic: TAROT: Should I offer him my services?
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filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1279 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 07, 2014 08:59 AM
So, it seems like my crush has a bit of a legal problem which I would be able to help him out with. Thing is, I'm not sure it's wise to mix pleasure and business - after all, what if I mess up and end up losing the cause, i.e. his money?He said he doesn't know any lawyer and he asked for my legal opinion. Made it pretty obvious that he's not comfortable filing the suit by himself. I'm thinking he was indirectly asking me to take on his case? Even said he would send me the papers so I could analize. I don't know, I don't know... Is this a good idea? What will come out of this, if I do take on his cause? I can exchange for a horary reading, btw. IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Knowflake Posts: 359 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 07, 2014 09:16 AM
The tower. NO I think you should get him started and walk away. Ace of cups passing. Moon crossed by Page of Swords says you initial help will be very comforting, so he is definitely hinting. 5 of cups is the environment and 8 of coins in the crown. He just needs a lil push. More than that is trouble. Page of Wands in near future confirms your initial help will be MORE than plenty. Check your work twice and wash your hands after.------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun Scorpio ♏ Moon Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1279 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 07, 2014 09:23 AM
Thank, LP!!I thought as much, but I wanted confirmation. I can give him orientation without him having to pay for it. He knows I have no income (I actually told him that yesterday), so it would make me extremely uncomfortable if he were to give me any kind of money, it would make me feel as if I was some beggar or something, lol. Thanks, thanks! IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Knowflake Posts: 359 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 07, 2014 09:26 AM
Get the forms or tell him where to get them. Let HIM fill them out. Very strong feeling I'm getting on that. If you fill it out, you've crossed the boundary. That just feels like the key here. Let HIM fill it out and you look over his shoulder.IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1279 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 07, 2014 09:34 AM
Yeah, I told him yesterday I have a pre-set form for cases like his and that I could send it to him if he wanted. Today, he said he doesn't know how to go about such things and he knows no lawyer while staring directly at me - yeah, I got the hint, thanks. ¬¬ LOLI hesitated when he said that, so I thought it might not have been a good idea to become his lawyer. What a wise gut feeling I have *pats* IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 6384 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 07, 2014 09:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by filleaspirant: So, it seems like my crush has a bit of a legal problem which I would be able to help him out with. Thing is, I'm not sure it's wise to mix pleasure and business - after all, what if I mess up and end up losing the cause, i.e. his money?He said he doesn't know any lawyer and he asked for my legal opinion. Made it pretty obvious that he's not comfortable filing the suit by himself. I'm thinking he was indirectly asking me to take on his case? Even said he would send me the papers so I could analize. I don't know, I don't know... Is this a good idea? What will come out of this, if I do take on his cause? I can exchange for a horary reading, btw.
Hey Fille - I took a quick look for you since this seems serious to you. Is there some traveling or something "foreign" involved here?? This will stress you out - it seems like there is a lot of "competition" (this should happen before 6 months are through - any day before 6 months). You may actually help him look through some paperwork and hire a diff. lawyer instead? help him research things like that, but to take on the case yourself would be really stressful and may cause some emotional disappointment a bit. It just looks really stressful .. and the word "foreign" keeps coming to me. Did I check on his feelings for you already? I know you answered an horary q. of mine that I haven't provided feedback for. I have to go look for that thread ------------------ **STUDENT 4 LIFE** Tarot Readings by Me Facebook - ReadingsbyAzul Be careful! I have a lil WITCH!Bwahah loveher. Me - Virgo Sun. Cancer Moon. Aquarius Ascendant Kidsfather - Pisces Sun. Sagittarius Moon. Libra Ascendant Son - Virgo Sun. Libra Moon. Virgo Ascendant Daughter - Virgo Sun. Aquarius Moon. Sagittarius Ascendant IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 6384 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 07, 2014 09:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by LoadedPistil: The tower. NO I think you should get him started and walk away. Ace of cups passing. Moon crossed by Page of Swords says you initial help will be very comforting, so he is definitely hinting. 5 of cups is the environment and 8 of coins in the crown. He just needs a lil push. More than that is trouble. Page of Wands in near future confirms your initial help will be MORE than plenty. Check your work twice and wash your hands after.
------------------ **STUDENT 4 LIFE** Tarot Readings by Me Facebook - ReadingsbyAzul Be careful! I have a lil WITCH!Bwahah loveher. Me - Virgo Sun. Cancer Moon. Aquarius Ascendant Kidsfather - Pisces Sun. Sagittarius Moon. Libra Ascendant Son - Virgo Sun. Libra Moon. Virgo Ascendant Daughter - Virgo Sun. Aquarius Moon. Sagittarius Ascendant IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 6384 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 07, 2014 09:42 AM
*I didn't read any of the above posts except the original before I did the reading* I agree with what you and LoadedPistil said (my reading mentioned the same thing sort of hehe).------------------ **STUDENT 4 LIFE** Tarot Readings by Me Facebook - ReadingsbyAzul Be careful! I have a lil WITCH!Bwahah loveher. Me - Virgo Sun. Cancer Moon. Aquarius Ascendant Kidsfather - Pisces Sun. Sagittarius Moon. Libra Ascendant Son - Virgo Sun. Libra Moon. Virgo Ascendant Daughter - Virgo Sun. Aquarius Moon. Sagittarius Ascendant IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1279 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 07, 2014 11:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by EmpressMendez: Hey Fille - I took a quick look for you since this seems serious to you. Is there some traveling or something "foreign" involved here??This will stress you out - it seems like there is a lot of "competition" (this should happen before 6 months are through - any day before 6 months). You may actually help him look through some paperwork and hire a diff. lawyer instead? help him research things like that, but to take on the case yourself would be really stressful and may cause some emotional disappointment a bit. It just looks really stressful .. and the word "foreign" keeps coming to me. Did I check on his feelings for you already? I know you answered an horary q. of mine that I haven't provided feedback for. I have to go look for that thread
Hey Empress, thanks for the reading! I guess you can say that the whole process and legal system is foreign to him. Everything else is very much national and common, but he didn't even know there is a court house 10 min away from where he works. I actually told him he shouldn't spend a dime on a lawyer because his case is very cut-and-dried and fits into one of the possibilities regular people can represent themselves in court (without counselling). Still, he offered to cut his winnings 50/50 with me, just like I thought he would. I'm still pushing for him to do this alone and me just tweaking here and there. Yup, you checked on his feelings. He's the one who's very attracted to me but has another woman in his life? I don't know if you'll remember him. I remember doing the horary reading but not what it was about, lol. Hopefully it turned out alright. IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1279 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 07, 2014 11:24 AM
Ladies, if you have any horaries for me to read, please post them here and I'll get to them later today. IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Knowflake Posts: 359 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 07, 2014 12:23 PM
Trying to decide between the questions.IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1279 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 07, 2014 01:03 PM
Are they remotely related, LP? If not, post one chart and I'll answer both based on it.So, I sent the pre-set form I had with me. Only, I realized after sending it, it had my name AND another guy's name on it. I should've checked and taken out the other guy's name... What an ass and what a mess. He's probably thinking I'm dating this other guy. ARGH. LP, would you mind checking out his thoughts when he sees the guy's name under mine? I want to strangle myself right now. IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Knowflake Posts: 359 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 07, 2014 02:06 PM
I'm coming. Oh, lord have mercy on us all. LOL------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun Scorpio ♏ Moon Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Knowflake Posts: 359 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 07, 2014 02:10 PM
M has been sweet with his words to me lately. Not ignoring me, but when he responds or talks to me, he's short with it. Is he hiding something he's feeling? Why the short responses?Will we get to spend time together in the next week or two? ------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun Scorpio ♏ Moon Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Knowflake Posts: 359 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 07, 2014 02:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by filleaspirant: Are they remotely related, LP? If not, post one chart and I'll answer both based on it.So, I sent the pre-set form I had with me. Only, I realized after sending it, it had my name AND another guy's name on it. I should've checked and taken out the other guy's name... What an ass and what a mess. He's probably thinking I'm dating this other guy. ARGH. LP, would you mind checking out his thoughts when he sees the guy's name under mine? I want to strangle myself right now.
I got a strange ending of a 9 of swords. In near future, I'd say the hierophant says he knows this is what you do. People will be interacting with you. So the 9 of swords really is about his fear of going about this. He doesn't wanna handle this. He get the overwhelming feeling of procrastination here. The two of cups is the environment. No heartbreak cards. Queen of cups in the crown says he was grateful for the help. 6 of swords crossed by 8 of wands with passion and force says he feels he's got a start, but the enthusiasm will fizzle. He's not worried about that name. ------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun Scorpio ♏ Moon Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1279 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 07, 2014 02:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by LoadedPistil: I got a strange ending of a 9 of swords. In near future, I'd say the hierophant says he knows this is what you do. People will be interacting with you. So the 9 of swords really is about his fear of going about this. He doesn't wanna handle this. He get the overwhelming feeling of procrastination here.The two of cups is the environment. No heartbreak cards. Queen of cups in the crown says he was grateful for the help. 6 of swords crossed by 8 of wands with passion and force says he feels he's got a start, but the enthusiasm will fizzle. He's not worried about that name.
Oh GOOD. I would die and KILL the other guy if his freaking name messed up my potential with D. Lol, I understand his feelings. It's overwhelming at first but with my orientation he should be okay - should I continue to guide him or should I just let him be? What do you feel? The Virgo in me wants to take over and take care of everything for him - so annoyingly embarrassing, because I only act this way towards family and very close friends. Doing the horary now. IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Knowflake Posts: 359 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 07, 2014 02:30 PM
Take a few more steps to review it before he sends it and THAT'S IT!!! I do the same thing. "Just gimme! " ------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun Scorpio ♏ Moon Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1279 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 07, 2014 02:34 PM
Has M been forthcoming about his attraction to you? I need the answer to this question before I say more.He is currently busy with work (seriously) and feeling overwhelmed. He's also focused about whatever he's doing right now. He is possessive of you, btw. You're dreamy, emotional and lovely in his eyes, don't worry too much about what he's thinking about you. I think this relationship hasn't reached the emotional realm yet; it feels more like it's a thing of the flesh and attraction based. The meeting that I see in this chart is not for the next week or two, sorry. This trine points to an encounter in 6 months - but timing could be wrong, don't take it too serious. IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1279 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 07, 2014 02:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by LoadedPistil: Take a few more steps to review it before he sends it and THAT'S IT!!! I do the same thing. "Just gimme! "
I was going to do that, LOL. I'm just worried I might come off as pushy, as my friends like to call me when I "take them under my wing". Don't want him thinking I'm forcing him to do something he doesn't want to. IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Knowflake Posts: 359 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 07, 2014 02:40 PM
We've both been forthcoming about our attraction to each other. He is on a different schedule with work. I can tell something has changed there. I think that's what he's hiding. Doesn't want me to know his new schedule. He has this weird inkling that I need to know where he is every moment and I don't. LOL Must also be hiding that he's possessive. I didn't get that yet, either LOL surprise! I will take the 6 you gave me because the number 7 was right last time. We shall see!! ------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun Scorpio ♏ Moon Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1279 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 07, 2014 02:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by LoadedPistil: We've both been forthcoming about our attraction to each other. He is on a different schedule with work. I can tell something has changed there. I think that's what he's hiding. Doesn't want me to know his new schedule. He has this weird inkling that I need to know where he is every moment and I don't. LOL Must also be hiding that he's possessive. I didn't get that yet, either LOL surprise! I will take the 6 you gave me because the number 7 was right last time. We shall see!!
Right. DON'T FREAK, but he's hiding a woman from you. I don't think she's a girlfriend, past, actual or potential, or anything like that. I would say he's hiding her because he's afraid of losing you because of her, over jealousy perhaps. They're not aspecting, so they have no contact. I would say there's only you in the picture but he's got a baggage of some sort. IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Knowflake Posts: 359 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 07, 2014 02:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by filleaspirant: Right. DON'T FREAK, but he's hiding a woman from you. I don't think she's a girlfriend, past, actual or potential, or anything like that. I would say he's hiding her because he's afraid of losing you because of her, over jealousy perhaps.They're not aspecting, so they have no contact. I would say there's only you in the picture but he's got a baggage of some sort.
He's not hiding the woman. I know there was someone. Actually a presentish/past sort of thing. I think he's hiding what's happened between them. That's what he won't talk about. I think if he talks about it, I'll expect more from him. If you're saying they're DONE DONE, I can see why he would hide that. ------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun Scorpio ♏ Moon Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
filleaspirant Knowflake Posts: 1279 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 07, 2014 03:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by LoadedPistil: He's not hiding the woman. I know there was someone. Actually a presentish/past sort of thing. I think he's hiding what's happened between them. That's what he won't talk about. I think if he talks about it, I'll expect more from him. If you're saying they're DONE DONE, I can see why he would hide that.
Ah, okay then. That's it then. It has to do about her and he's hiding it, but they're not in close contact anymore. I don't think this is related to why he's been short but sweet with you... That is more about his work and overworking than anything else. IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Knowflake Posts: 359 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 07, 2014 03:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by filleaspirant: Ah, okay then. That's it then. It has to do about her and he's hiding it, but they're not in close contact anymore. I don't think this is related to why he's been short but sweet with you... That is more about his work and overworking than anything else.
Ok, good. We had a talk about him and work and how we weren't going to be seeing each other for a while because of it. He lives kinda far. ... but ummmmm.... I wanna know the other stuff now. ------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun Scorpio ♏ Moon Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Knowflake Posts: 359 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 07, 2014 03:16 PM
Check your email, please.IP: Logged |