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manques
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posted March 09, 2014 09:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for manques     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
E had finally asked me out to date. It wasn't a romantic date, but just a causal 1 to 1 meetup, and Im already satisfied enough. Of cos Im hoping for more now.

However I texted him twice yesterday. There wasnt any respond from him at all... Is something wrong? what went wrong? what is on his mind? My mind just keep wondering and wondering...

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FairyDust75
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posted March 09, 2014 10:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I feel you Manques. I have a topic with pretty much the same heading as you. I just don't get it either. I wish I could help you b/c I think we are feeling the same way.

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manques
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posted March 09, 2014 10:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for manques     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for your reply fairy! I hope u will feel better soon!

yeah and regarding this guy I had spend so much readings on bw... sigh

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FairyDust75
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posted March 09, 2014 12:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I did too and continue to do so. I don't know why as they all say the same thing, it's just not going to work out the way I want. I guess i have to mourn this for what it was and move on. not easy though

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MineAgain
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posted March 09, 2014 01:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I hope he is going to respond!

I have the same problem at the moment, so I understand how frustrating it can be when a man goes MIA for no apparent reason.

I think you should detach yourself from him, live your life, and he'll probably come around

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cherful24
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posted March 09, 2014 02:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
okay that makes 4 of us because I am too and I'm waiting for someone...WTH?!

so I really had to take my time with this one because the answer is yes and no. yes he will contact you yes I actually think it's going to be another meet up but no interest from his part, unfortunately. I don't know how you guys originally met but he basically had high hopes and basically created the image of how you were and how it was going to go in his head..... and it fell short of that.

so when you guys do connect again like actual meeting he's going to try to see if that can live up to what was in his head, but it won't. I feel that you guys have really have a good mental report with each other and that's what got him really excited, almost taking him out and creating a fantasy of how the states and how you were going to be. so really I think the fact that you guys talked so much.... hurt the actual process of things it was like there's almost no more mystery thought he knew you thought he could accurately depict you and your energy together.... so it's almost like a false start and he's feeling disappointed that it didn't measure up to what he created in his head in with you believe he's going to feel.

I do want to stress that is not you you didn't fall short he had too high an unrealistic expectation and so he created that falling short aspect sback himself..... was this an online thing or did you guys actually always talk in person like you met in person and not online originally?

so again please do not think its you do not think you were not nteresting or attractive, Exedra, enough for him. it is one of the misfortunes of someone psyching themselves up..... he's probably has a pattern of doing that is why he's single!!!!


can anyone do a reading for me and my situation? his name is Joe and we went out on Wednesday. after the date I heard from him in the next day I heard from him, but I haven't sent and no I did not text him. that for like a month used to text me everyday........ so what's going on?? is he not interested anymore did I fall short of his expectations from Wednesday ( did he not like our conversation, did he not like the way I looked, etc), is he scared, is he thinking about things Exedra

TY!

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FairyDust75
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posted March 09, 2014 04:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Cheerful, was that meant for me or Manques? If it was meant for Manques then wow, our situations are almost exact!

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cherful24
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posted March 09, 2014 04:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No it was for man.

but I read your thread and immediately I got a very scary sense of this guy. it's a good thing he's not contacting you its like he's damage or he hurts girls emotionally.... like if you were sleeping you wouldn't care about calling. I don't think he's looking for anything serious he just wants to play the field around hook up.

He's a loser, really he is. you might be frustrated might hurt now but there's a reason there was divine intervention playing into this. The Universe did not want you to have to deal with this person's energy


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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Hi Cheerful, was that meant for me or Manques? If it was meant for Manques then wow, our situations are almost exact!

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FairyDust75
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posted March 09, 2014 05:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Cheerful! You hit the nail on the head. If I may ask do you think he would try to contact me again?

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cherful24
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posted March 09, 2014 05:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
well I'm not getting a strong know that he wouldn't contact you again but there's a big but...

I have to say this maybe in 2 to 3 weeks and it would almost sounds as if he just wants to hook up


QUOTE]Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Thanks Cheerful! You hit the nail on the head. If I may ask do you think he would try to contact me again?[/QUOTE]

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FairyDust75
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posted March 09, 2014 05:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yep that would sound like him. Thank you again.

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manques
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posted March 10, 2014 08:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for manques     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
cherful24, thank you so much for reading for me! anyway i initiated contact today again, and yes he did reply. we know each other in real life, not thru online. there's a v major obstacle between us. oh well, shall see how it goes...

and to MineAgain, thanks! but its so hard to detach you know i hope i can control my heart sometimes!

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Randall
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posted March 11, 2014 07:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Feel better.

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