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Topic: Should I or should I not rebound with this Libran?
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Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 10, 2014 03:02 PM
  
I know, right. Me and Libras  Especially THIS one, with whom I have a history - and a bad one too. But like I said, it's just a rebound after my broken engagement. I don't want to date him, I don't want love, I don't even want sex. Just a boost of my precious wounded ego. He stood me up when I tried to give him a chance 1.5 years ago, so don't feel so sorry for him, he deserves being used. However though! I took another look at the charts and.. is it just me or are they kinda good??? I've been treating him like cr*p after the incident and for the past year or so ignored him completely. He continued to write me, texts or offlines. I never responded, until tonight. He does have some good parts to himself, but he's def cookoo. He's also manly attractive (ugh cursed be that Libra charm  ) I suspect the Venus-Saturn dw is why this went on despite everything. Also wanted to add we never actually met in person, because, oh.. he changed his mind. I did say he's a Libra. Anyways, opinions? Advice? Criticism?  *poofed* ------------------
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Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
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posted March 10, 2014 03:13 PM
Oh hold on, he lied about his bday.  Real charts coming up. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 10, 2014 03:26 PM
 
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Dancing Maenad
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posted March 10, 2014 03:29 PM
I took his info from a website but I guess he lied there. The other synastry WAS better, I had him as a late Leo Moon conj Jup which trined my Moon-Neptune and Mars. But nope, he is Aries Moon. It does fit him now that I think about it, physically I mean. I think he probably is Scorpio rising still. He looks the part. And yeah, he most definitely is Libra Mercury (I am cursed! same degree as my ex :/) and ofc it opposes my Mars exact - we used to argue a lot.
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Julz87
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From: On the Rings of Saturn
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 10, 2014 10:12 PM
as a fellow Libra *le sigh* um err umm guiltyonmostofthestuffhe'sdonetoyou...XD :P I swear Its a effin Libra thing :/ I don't do it on purpose guess we just like the adrenaline of the chase and the you know the butterflies you get when you are barely getting to know someone and then the excitement dies down and bleh we become very VERYYY unreliable *sigh* we mature as we get older tho XD no worries..btw whats your sign? and my opinion I guess is if you'd like go ahead. Its really up to you in the end, and not to toot my own horn but you might end up falling for the guy  never mind you're an Aries and a concidense all the stuff I did was to an Aries as well, he was so sweet he ended up being my friend but its awkward so we barely even talk anymore. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 11, 2014 12:05 AM
Hi, Julz!  I have a pretty strong history with Libras, so I kinda know what I am getting myself into - which is why I don't want anything from him, except to be adored and stuff. He used to be good at that. I swore I wouldn't date another Libra ever and I don't intend to. I am tiny concerned though that I might fall for him too, if I decide to hang out with him more. I *am* emotionally vulnerable right now. Sandie camara said dark haired man will return to give me an ego boost, but not to get caught up with him, as he's unreliable. My Libra to a T. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
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posted March 12, 2014 07:36 AM
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Julz87
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From: On the Rings of Saturn
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posted March 12, 2014 08:03 AM
Hehehe I say go for it but if Sandie said that then I suggest just keep your guard up. Just in case. How old is this Libran dude? If you don't mind me asking.
I had a reading with Sandie as well but we got cut off in mid chat :/ have been trying to reconnect since. Looking forward to finishing it. I'm kinda scared about getting to the bad parts because we were just about to talk about it XD So what did you think of Sandie, did the stuff she say resonate with you?
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Ceridwen
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posted March 12, 2014 08:13 AM
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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
I am tiny concerned though that I might fall for him too, if I decide to hang out with him more. I *am* emotionally vulnerable right now.
I think that is the core. Can you REALLY stay detached to just enjoy the possible attention? Or will you end up getting hurt? I mean I understand you need (and deserve) an Ego-boost, but you already have a history, and it went awry.
Maybe I am too pessimistic, but I can`t really think how it would be different the second time around, and I just fear - as you said yourself- that you will get hurt. I mean if you really can keep any romantic hopes and expectations out of it, I`d say, go for it. Enjoy what he has to give you. But don`t fall for him just yet. Let him prove himself "worthy", with that I mean let him prove that he really cares for you, beyond the thrill of the chase. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 15, 2014 09:23 AM
Yeah, I think you're both right. I shall not rebound! Better get busy with my wound licking then! ------------------
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SandyShore
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posted April 09, 2014 09:06 AM
Hi Dancing Maenad,How did Sandie work out for you? Talking from experience, second time with an ex didn't work out. A 'NO NO'. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 09, 2014 11:09 AM
Hey Sandy! I think it's too soon to tell but I thought her reading was good. She probably was talking about this guy, though at the time I thought it was a Scorpio I fancied. He continued to text me a lot, but I finally told him to look elsewhere. I have other stuff to do with my life, right now I am not particularly interested in men. ------------------
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SandyShore
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posted April 09, 2014 11:57 AM
Good for you !!Thanks for the heads up re. Sandie. As you can guess, it is for me to get a sense if things have a % chance of panning out for me! I am to stick to one reader. GS did not work out much - she was all over the place and nowhere at the same time. I am being tempted by MamaRoberts. Need to talk myself out of the binge reading! You seem to be in great spirit. Keep it up! IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted February 13, 2016 04:28 AM
I don't know why I never gave this guy a proper chance. He's still chasing me. IP: Logged |
Elysia
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From: Gotham
Registered: Aug 2015
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posted February 13, 2016 04:51 AM
As another fellow Libra, I'd say - if you're looking for a feel-good factor, yeah we can & do adore the hell out of a partner!
So, in that sense, go for it.Just watch your  , if you're not ready for a relationship yet. Edit: Your composite looks v. nice, esp. the lovely grand trine-esque structure. Also, the composite moon seems to be on his Eros-Psyche midpoint. (Not good at reading charts and can't see the degrees on all, just trying to see it geometrically). Will be back with more if I get a chance to study these charts. IP: Logged |
ikja
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posted February 13, 2016 05:10 AM
From what I've experienced, I would never deal with a LIBRAN when I'm in a vulnerable state. No. Not ever again.IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted February 13, 2016 05:44 AM
Thank you, Elysia! I dated Libras before, I know what to expect. A lot of back and forth! lol Usually it's off putting. Right now I was just wondering why this never worked out. We never wanted it at the same time lol. And now we're both lonely for V day. Disaster waiting to happen!Ikja, I wouldn't say I am vulnerable right now, it's been 2 years since my OP. Sorry, I should have mentioned that. IP: Logged |
Elysia
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From: Gotham
Registered: Aug 2015
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posted February 13, 2016 07:18 AM
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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Thank you, Elysia! I dated Libras before, I know what to expect. A lot of back and forth! lol Usually it's off putting. Right now I was just wondering why this never worked out. We never wanted it at the same time lol. And now we're both lonely for V day. Disaster waiting to happen!
Never wanted it at the same time - hmm...that's the problem with most of our relationships these days. LOL. But there's still time for V-day, you never know. IP: Logged |
ikja
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posted February 13, 2016 09:28 AM
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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Ikja, I wouldn't say I am vulnerable right now, it's been 2 years since my OP. Sorry, I should have mentioned that.
My bad! That was me skim reading *oops* lol
I saw Ceri's comment on something you said about you being emotionally vulnerable. If you're in a better place and you're a seasoned LIBRAN handler, go for it. I say hold off on being intimate though, make sure he is being consistent before you go there; but you probably already know that. Good luck xxx IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
Moderator Posts: 4086
From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 12, 2016 06:28 PM
Lol, my old threads are so lame! You'd think my love life is full of passion and drama, but it couldn't be more opposite!In any case, I am thinking of giving it an honest try, for once! We've been friends for 3-4 years now, hanged out a few times, shared deep stuff with one another, been there for each other when our relationships failed. We find each other attractive but there hasn't been a "real" spark yet. I think he's been the most constant male presence in my life since ~2012 when we first chatted, but I never took him seriously, or he didn't take me seriously/ran away. The hell with this. I am making a move tomorrow evening. IP: Logged |
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