posted March 10, 2014 03:31 PM            

If so, dont give him a hard time. Let him do what he thinks he should.

I wouldnt say anything as he does have the right to date others. Also, I dont sense anything strong with this new girl.

Also don’t forget this is not going to be a long term thing. So take it for what it is….spending time together, but don’t get wrapped up in emotions. However, with that said if this whole thing/he is making you feel, not so good…then perhaps you should say goodbye and not look back. If you don’t want to do that, then yes I see he will spend time with you.

I still “time” with you two being spent, so he’s not going to be done with you.

Can I ask your take on Joe. We went out Wed. I heard from him afterwards and also on Thurs, but I have not heard from him so far. He used to text me like every day for a month! So, I’m wondering what is going on in his mind, etc

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Originally posted by Spritualjourney:
Hi Cherful,

So I just found out that M is going on a date with someone else To be honest I'm a bit of a mess right now. Our relationship is new and we haven't established anything yet. I need some insight please. Why is he doing this? Is he not interesting in me or is he trying to prove a point? Would it be in my best interest to message him and ask him about his date & why he's going on it. Talk to him about it? Or not do anything.

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posted March 10, 2014 04:19 PM            

I just sense "fun times" but do feel its more towards romantic. but do yourself a favor and let ur gaurd down He does feel your "hard"

he is a bit confused but I dont see this new girl being anything

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Originally posted by Spritualjourney:
Thanks Cherful. You're right,he does have the right to date other people, thanks for reminding me. I don't give him a hard time, but I think he has a hard time figuring me out. I tend to put a front on of being emotional closed off...I think I"m scared. This is my first relationship in a while. The time you see us spending, is it in the romantic sense or just as friends?

Regarding Joe, I'm getting that he's preoccupied with something right now. He's not entirely sure how he feels about you in a romantic sense and is giving himself some time to figure it out.

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