posted March 14, 2014 02:56 PM            

can we doing other exchange, please?

posted March 14, 2014 03:04 PM            

.it's about an ex. he's been married for a little over a year and he just had a baby. we were always on and off for a couple of years but what I didn't know is that he was in a relationship with her I guess she just lived somewhere else but he knew her since they were children. anyways long story short he chose to keep me in his life even know he was going to marry her, we were off for a bit when they got engaged.... which was a very short engagement, but he continue to contact me... then two months later he married, I found out call them and yell at him Exedra but for whatever reason we bury the hatchet and stayed friends but for the 6 month after that he musta been going through a hard time with her because he kept contacting me kept wanting to see me and totally crossed the line....hed always be like I'm thinking of you blah blah blah blah well then I guess about that time is when she got pregnant and he didn't tell me that but he totally stopped all communication... his friend told me that she was pregnant and his friend also told me that the things he was saying we're just lies just to keep me there, such as him having a break down and him buying his way out of a DUI all these things I was so worried over about and I would talk to himhim and send emails like how is he doing, Exedra. I was really mad and really ****** off really hurt and I ended up sending an email to his wife about my time with him when I came into his life all the things he would say, what he was doing now for the past 6 months while they were married. I actually did not know she was pregnant at this time, I found out after I had sent the letters. but anyways that was a year ago and like I said since he then I never heard from him they now moved down south to be by his family.so I just am curious why he did all this to me. it seems like he got a really good deal he marry this girl got a big house now has a kid with her seems to be happy and yet he put me through all of this, and like I have no answers, it just seems so easy for him to walk away. I'm hurt and mad but I'm also humiliated, I believe him I really thought he needed help and I made myself available to be there whenever he contacted me.

posted March 14, 2014 03:40 PM            

What I'm seeing from the chart is that he married her because he felt emotionally and financially secure with her. He feels attached to her and he also feels that she can be a good mother to his children. He knows that she has a stable job and that she would be able to raise a good family with her. He also married her out of love.

why did he try to keep me in his life?

He tried to keep you in his life because he knows that he can count on your for emotional and material support. In a way, he sees you the same way as he sees her, but his feelings for you don't go beyond platonic. He just really want to be friends with you.

why did he even originally bring me into his life? he's the one that contacted me he's the one that found me on Facebook, he the one that made all the initiative.

I would say it's because he was intrigued by you. You seemed like a very interesting person to him. I'm guessing he's the kind of person who attracts unconventional people as friends. I'm seeing he just really wanted to know you because you seemed very mysterious to him. He wanted to be friends with you even then.

is he going to stay married to her?

I'm sensing a yes. The chart tells me he's gonna be married to her for a long time. The cadent houses are all found in fixed signs. That's a sign of loyalty and stability. Although, the 7th house is in Aquarius. There might be times when they suddenly live separately for whatever reason, but they're gonna stay married.

will I ever hear from him or see him again?

You will hear/see from him soon. Applying aspects between your significators are almost exact. Though, you might feel some kind of tension between you two once you start contacting each other again.

what did he feel or think of me and what does he now?

posted March 14, 2014 03:41 PM            

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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
Solar, would you like an exchange?

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posted March 14, 2014 03:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Sure. Question, time and place please.

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What do you see with regards to career- will it start looking up soon? Do you see with who (it's in law)? Any clarity on it would be appreciated as it's been nothing short of a **** storm the past few years.
7:42 pm
London, UK

posted March 14, 2014 03:55 PM            

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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
What do you see with regards to career- will it start looking up soon? Do you see with who (it's in law)? Any clarity on it would be appreciated as it's been nothing short of a **** storm the past few years.
7:42 pm
London, UK

Post your q and I'll get on it. I need first names for the best connection.

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I see upcoming problems on the career front for you, Mincey. Yes, things will start looking up, but only if you overcome the obstacles you will face in the workplace. Your friends and colleagues can help you overcome them. Their support will be very beneficial to you. Employers might give you a hard time in the upcoming months. But you will push through whatever obstacle your work brings as long as you have the staying power to do so. Here, I think patience is really the key.

Best of luck to you

Question:
How mad is my friend at me for uploading a song without crediting her?

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posted March 14, 2014 04:00 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
I can say he definitely liked you and I can say you put a smile on his face. I don't think he was ever able to be allowed to develop feelings for, like perhaps you had.

he seem like a good person and someone that's a good friend so if he's still in your life keep him as a friend. it really boils down to a missed connection it just wasn't the right time.... somehow I see him in your future nothing romantic but I see it as he missing is you so I don't know if he's not you life it comes back as a friend or at sometime, it hits him and he misses the warmth that you gave him

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That's actually nice to hear. Me and him have only talked on Facebook once and we were pretty friendly. I think you hit it on the nail right there. I was pretty young (10 years old) and delusional, so I guess it just really wasn't meant to be.

posted March 14, 2014 04:04 PM            

why all the lying if he just wanted to be friends why did he take me out on dates tell me he loved me why was he intimate with me? I think the better question is why did he choose to cheat on her then?

why didn't he tell me he was getting married and if he just wanted to be friends why didn't he just tell me that after he got married instead of making all this crap up, about him having a breakdown and crap?

I am definitely not contacting him if he contacts me do you know why what it is that he wants?

posted March 14, 2014 04:07 PM            

(1) VI of Pentacles, reversed- corporeal narcissism.
(2) Queen of Cups, reversed- she feels exploited.
(3) Knight of Pentacles, reversed- stubbornness and materialism.

All reversed- not good. Symbolism of confusion.

From the cards- she feels exploited and will hold the grudge for a fair amount of time.

I pulled out another card for the future outcome:

(4) VII of Pentacles- Harmony.

posted March 14, 2014 04:09 PM            

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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
Uh, I don't have a job as yet. I'm still studying and finding a job. It's been really tough.

Got the names.

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posted March 14, 2014 04:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
I see. If you don't have a job, then you will find one, but it will be a tough ride. Like I said, your friends and colleagues might be able to help you find a job. If you do end up getting a job soon, expect that your employers won't be so easy on you. They might test you.

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posted March 14, 2014 04:15 PM            

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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
How mad is she?

(1) VI of Pentacles, reversed- corporeal narcissism.
(2) Queen of Cups, reversed- she feels exploited.
(3) Knight of Pentacles, reversed- stubbornness and materialism.

All reversed- not good. Symbolism of confusion.

From the cards- she feels exploited and will hold the grudge for a fair amount of time.

I pulled out another card for the future outcome:

(4) VII of Pentacles- Harmony.

It's going to be a process. The number 6 is important- the both of you will be back to what you used to be in 6 weeks/ 6 months?

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posted March 14, 2014 04:15 PM            

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olar_Leo_Queen:
@cherful24 what time you asked the question?

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posted March 14, 2014 04:41 PM            

I think the better question is why did he choose to cheat on her then?

He didn't feel emotionally secure with her back then. He felt like the only way he could find the security he was looking for was to get in touch with you. You seemed to be more sensitive to his needs. He was emotionally lost and confused.

why didn't he tell me he was getting married and if he just wanted to be friends why didn't he just tell me that after he got married instead of making all this crap up, about him having a breakdown and crap?

He didn't tell you he was getting married because he knew it would hurt you. And also because he didn't know if he made the right decision proposing to her back then. Like I said, he was confused between what he wants and what he needs. He might have actually had a breakdown his friends didn't know of.

I am definitely not contacting him if he contacts me do you know why what it is that he wants?

He wants to know if you're alright and how you felt about everything he's done. He probably wants to apologize for everything, but I'm seeing in here that you might not be as willing to talk it out as he is.

I get what you said about him marrying for financial stability and she wanted a family, he told me it was out of conveniene, he has a son from his first wife. good to know there was some love equation as to why he married her........so my question is did he ever think that he was going to marry me and did he not think that I had anything to offer?

I'd say yes, he might have thought of marrying you since he saw that you're capable just like her. But then again, he probably didn't love you as he thought he did. He probably thought you guys were better off as friends.

posted March 14, 2014 05:03 PM            

And I really don't think he cares whether or not he hurt me, he thought he was done using me so mia he went.

posted March 14, 2014 05:06 PM            

I get a 3.
Im thinking on and off of being mad at u for 3 months then something breaks.

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Cher, I have a question.. how long will my friend J (she's a girl) stay mad at me?

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