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posted March 14, 2014 05:18 PM            

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What in my chart indicates that I have to cater to people's egos? I always feel that I have to tip toe around other people and boost their egos. What in my chart would indicate this? It isn't that I want them to like me...it is more I feel their personalities are overbearing and out of control so I have to cater to them.

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posted March 14, 2014 06:19 PM            

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Libra sun, mars, venus, and moon is responsible for this. Libras generally don't like to upset the peaceful balance of things and so, you tend to be very careful not to start a fight or and argument with anyone. Libras also demand the approval of everybody, which is why you feel like you need to feed everybody's egos just to be accepted.

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posted March 14, 2014 08:03 PM            

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Ok, on the other end of the spectrum, why would people want to treat me poorly behind closed doors but then act like they are the kindest people towards me when in front of other people. Is there anything in my chart that indicates why this is?

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posted March 14, 2014 08:20 PM            

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Your Mars and Venus makes you a passive-agressive kind of person. Venus is squaring your ascendant. This could mean that people see you as someone who is weak-willed and probably are (Mars in detriment). They can easily tell by the way you present to others that you would never do anything to upset them. To them, you seem like the submissive type. People may want to take advantage of your kindness because of this. You should stay away from people who only seem to want to use you for their personal gain.

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posted March 14, 2014 10:12 PM            

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Yes, I feel people take advantage of me. I am meek and don't stand up for myself. I think you are right, people can see this right away. Although I would rather be kind towards other rather than the other way around, it definitely bothers me that people treat me poorly when I don't treat them poorly.

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posted March 14, 2014 10:23 PM            

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It's okay to be kind to people. There's nothing wrong with that. But if they start to abuse you, you should really stand up for yourself. I would stand up for you if I ever see people treating you like that because I can't stand it when people are getting treated unjustly. You have a right to be treated like the way you treat them. No one deserves an unjust treatment. You are not weak. You are strong enough to handle other's poor treatment of you. This makes you stronger than anybody else for you don't fall apart when they try to take you down because you've already humbled yourself. Take a stand for yourself, hun. Sometimes, it does pay to be a bit agressive.

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posted March 14, 2014 10:57 PM            

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I ever stand up for myself, the person goes and gets others to defend them. They are not strong enough to fight their own battles so they go get a bunch of people behind them. I am not strong enough to fight an army. This is why I no longer stand up for myself.

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posted March 14, 2014 11:34 PM            

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If that was me, I'd laugh at them, because clearly they can't stand on their own and they need other people's help. Well, just remember to stand up for yourself once in a while. I mean, they will probably take you down and you will probably lose the battle, but at least you walk away knowing you tried to handle them all by yourself. Technically, if they had help from other people, it would still mean they lost since it's not a fair fight.

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posted March 15, 2014 12:29 AM            

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Thanks Solar Leo Queen :-)

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