posted March 16, 2014 06:45 AM            

I'm new to this forum and astrology in general. I'm trying to study and learn more about synastry and other things, but it takes time, as you know

I am really trying to figure out the potential of my current relationship, but I think I'm getting more confused than anything else. I know some of you are kind enough to read cards and charts to help out, so I was wondering if you could look at this or pull a few cards to give me any insights. Any, no matter how little would help. The composite chart below has the transits of the day we met.

From what I could make out, my tr jupiter was conjunct venus and transiting saturn was trine venus on the day we met, which apparently means I was "commitment friendly". That part makes sense. I see some aspects with midpoints too on his, but again it's still very confusing to me.

I would just like to know more about the potential and future of the relationship or even just him.

Thank you so much in advance!

posted March 16, 2014 05:12 PM            

Your Mars and Mercury at 14 Leo conjunct his Vertex at 15 Leo...fated encounter.

Your Venus at 16 Cancer conjunct his South Node at 21 Cancer in his 7th house of partnerships....past life connection.

Your Juno at 13 Libra conjuncts his Sun at 13 Libra...nice compatibility aspect.

His Sun at 13 Libra squares your Venus at 16 Cancer...even though it is a square there will still be coompatibility, though you might disagree on little things.

His Venus at 1 Virgo sextiles your Pluto at 2 Scorpio...This is a HOT aspect. Lots of attraction with this one!

Very interesting that you both have Sun/Moon conjunctions. Is this a tough aspect for you? Maybe this will help you understand each other?

You also have the Nodes conjunct your ASC/DSC could mean a very fated or predestined life. Divine intervention helps you along.

posted March 17, 2014 06:57 AM            

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Originally posted by KarmicMoon:
Hi! I am new to posting here too but I'll tell you what i see that is good. I don't read composites, only synastry.

Your Mars and Mercury at 14 Leo conjunct his Vertex at 15 Leo...fated encounter.

Your Venus at 16 Cancer conjunct his South Node at 21 Cancer in his 7th house of partnerships....past life connection.

Your Juno at 13 Libra conjuncts his Sun at 13 Libra...nice compatibility aspect.

His Sun at 13 Libra squares your Venus at 16 Cancer...even though it is a square there will still be coompatibility, though you might disagree on little things.

His Venus at 1 Virgo sextiles your Pluto at 2 Scorpio...This is a HOT aspect. Lots of attraction with this one!

Very interesting that you both have Sun/Moon conjunctions. Is this a tough aspect for you? Maybe this will help you understand each other?

You also have the Nodes conjunct your ASC/DSC could mean a very fated or predestined life. Divine intervention helps you along.

Hope this helps!

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Hi KarmicMoon,

Thank SO much for the info! Synastry isn't easy, I was would never be able to point those things out; at least not yet;-)

Yes, we do have sun and moon conjunct, but not sure how that's going to play out. We met very randomly, though! So what you said makes total sense. We always joke about how bizarre and unlikely it was for us to meet they way we did; plus, we were drawn to each other for apparent reason. To be honest, neither one of us has been able to make sense out of it...it just happened regardless of the very unusual circumstances.

posted March 17, 2014 08:22 AM            

Your Sun and Moon conjunct his Venus...this is a wide orb (8) and out of sign but I would still count it. This aspects creates compatibility. You feel comfortable with each other and have things in common.

Your Venus squares his Uranus (2 orb). This isn't a great aspect. It can create excitement but can also create sudden beginnings and endings. He can seem unpredictable to you.

North Node sextile Saturn...Not easy either. Saturn is the Lord of Karma so this is another aspect that points to past lives. Saturn can make the Node person feel restricted.

Saturn sextile Moon...creates harmony. Moon can depend on the Saturn person. Saturn helps stabilize the Moons emotions and Moon softens Saturn.

Saturn sextile Sun...similiar to Saturn/Moon. Sun loosens up Saturn while Saturn gives Sun stability.

I'd see Saturn sextile Sun/Moon and Venus sextile Pluto as karmic, too.

Will try to do more for you later. Where are your Black Moon Liliths?

posted March 17, 2014 01:11 PM            

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Originally posted by KarmicMoon:
Your welcome. I love to do synastry but it takes time. I will try to do more for you when I can if you like. It seems fairly likely that this is someone you knew from a past life and you could be balancing some karma. That explains why it is so confusing to you. These things tend to happen without our control sometimes. Here are a few more aspects.

Your Sun and Moon conjunct his Venus...this is a wide orb (8) and out of sign but I would still count it. This aspects creates compatibility. You feel comfortable with each other and have things in common.

Your Venus squares his Uranus (2 orb). This isn't a great aspect. It can create excitement but can also create sudden beginnings and endings. He can seem unpredictable to you.

North Node sextile Saturn...Not easy either. Saturn is the Lord of Karma so this is another aspect that points to past lives. Saturn can make the Node person feel restricted.

Saturn sextile Moon...creates harmony. Moon can depend on the Saturn person. Saturn helps stabilize the Moons emotions and Moon softens Saturn.

Saturn sextile Sun...similiar to Saturn/Moon. Sun loosens up Saturn while Saturn gives Sun stability.

I'd see Saturn sextile Sun/Moon and Venus sextile Pluto as karmic, too.

Will try to do more for you later. Where are your Black Moon Liliths?

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Wow! Thank you! Yes, feel free to tell me anything;-) it's interesting and can take notes for future reference too

Here's the chart with Lilith:

posted March 17, 2014 01:34 PM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
I just had a quick look at your composite. If the birth times are accurate I see some lovely things. First you have a composite sun conjunct moon. This is one of the best aspects you can have in a composite and is a true soulmate indicator. What's interesting is that whole stellium of planets in the 9th that aspect Pluto, Uranus, and neptune. The stellium is in the 9th house with beautiful trines to jupiter. This relationship will affect you both on a very deep spiritual level. With the squares to neptune don't be surprised if you have some telepathy between you two with the tight moon and mercury aspects. The venus trine neptune is beautiful. You will both put each other on a pedestal..very romantic. With the semi-sextiles to Pluto, you both will be deeply transformed and affected by this relationship. But with the semi-sextile I don't see too harsh of an aspect that obsession gets involved...it will be a relationship that will be difficult to let go of...especially with those hard Saturn aspects as Saturn is always the glue. The venus in 8th house Leo gives the sexuality between you two a combination of love and romance with the sensual/sexual passion, especially with mars and venus aspecting each other . The grand trine is lovely (with Chiron involved, there is quite a healing potential for you of you in this relationship.) With composite sun, moon and merc all conjunct south node, you both will feel incredibly familiar and comfortable with each other.. Most likely you had a relationship in a past life. Looks nice

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Hi Tgem,

Thank you for your taking the time! It's really kind of you.

It's funny, the weekend we met, we ended up spending the whole weekend together too, and we kept saying how weird it was because it felt like we had lived together for years lol And we've been together ever since. I guess the confusing part is the fact that we can't explain why and how things happened so fast.

I noticed the saturn aspects you mentioned and didn't know whether they were good or bad: meaning does this tie us together for good, or does it just make it hard to move on? I guess we will see Birth times are accurate as far as we know; he had to double check his, but we got it

Thank you again for your insights.

posted March 17, 2014 10:24 PM            

Venus trine Neptune...very nice aspect. Can create a lot of love and affection between you. Neptune is the higher octive of Venus.

BML square Sun and Moon...magnetic sexual attraction.

Your Venus, Mars and Mercury fall in his 7th house. This is very good. You are both attracted to each and want to please each other.

Your Sun and Moon fall in his 8th house. Strong sexual attraction. You could have a transformative effect on each other.

posted March 18, 2014 08:51 AM            

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Originally posted by KarmicMoon:
Here's a couple more....

Venus trine Neptune...very nice aspect. Can create a lot of love and affection between you. Neptune is the higher octive of Venus.

BML square Sun and Moon...magnetic sexual attraction.

Your Venus, Mars and Mercury fall in his 7th house. This is very good. You are both attracted to each and want to please each other.

Your Sun and Moon fall in his 8th house. Strong sexual attraction. You could have a transformative effect on each other.

Is this guy completely smitten with you? LOL!

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Lol I hope so! It's weird, he's very private. He's been telling me things and is very physical, but he's not the romantic type or very vocal about his feelings. I can tell he cares, but I'm not sure about what sees long term. I'm not very romantic or vocal either though, although, I am compared to him lol I guess it depends more on how ready he is for this relationship, he says he is, so it should work out

I noticed he brings stuff to my MC and 2nd house too, does it mean he'll have anything to do with my career or income? His jupiter is in my 2nd, but I already have Uranus and neptune there, so who knows?

We both bring our Chiron into our empty 5th houses, so I guess that's where we'll teach something to each other?

He fills my 11th house completely lol which is otherwise empty.

His saturn is in my 8th, not sure if that's bad or good. My saturn falls into his MC, so I guess I might bring sense of responsibility when it comes to his work somehow; although it doesn't make much sense now since we've only been together 3 months lol

You're so good at synastry!!! I can't wait to get to the point where I can spot things like that too thank you again for helping!

posted March 19, 2014 09:05 AM            

Jupiter conjunct Neptune in the 2nd house can create success and be lucky, so the 2nd house is a good placement. The 2nd also rules your self worth so maybe he would expand your self esteem.

Sun and Moon in the 11th house would create a sense of friendship and enjoy spending time together.

I' have to look into Chiron in the Houses more. I would think it would effect love affairs or children. His Chiron squares your Venus (1 orb) and your Chiron is conjunct his Saturn (7 orb). I think a 7 orb is probably pretty big so maybe you wouldn't feel it much. Chiron square Venus could cause you some problems. Chiron and all the asteroids are something I am still learning about.

Saturn on the MC could bring a sense of responsibility. You could lend him support in his career or bring restriction to that area. Saturn in the 8th can bring restrictions in intimacy and sharing. May be one of the reasons he doesn't say much.

With a Capricorn ASC and Virgo Venus I wouldn't expect him to open up to you right away with his feelings. And with those two placements and so much in Libra I would think he would be pretty picky about who he goes out with. He'd want someone beautiful, smart, charming, well groomed, someone he could be proud to be seen with. With Venus in Virgo and DSC in Cancer, someone nuturing, too. Partnerships would be important to him. I suspect he gets a lot of attention from women?

You have a lot of Leo and Venus in Cancer so i would think you'd like someone who was romantic and expressive. At least someone who makes you their top priority.

posted March 19, 2014 10:51 AM            

Yes, he's a rsing Capri with venus in virgo, but I am also a scorpio rising, so I'm not the most forthcoming person at first. It's weird he seems detached, but if something happens or I say something to him then he switches and really tells you everything. And I kinda go "I didn't even know you cared that much" lol other times, when we have normal conversations, I get the impression I get half answers, which is frustrating and I tell him I actually like his libra side, minus his flirty habits lol he's aware of it though now, so he's more carful about it when I'm around, I guess. He's actually pretty reserved at first unless he's among friends, in which case he's pretty social...don't know how much he attracts women, YET. He definitely likes attention though.

I also noticed my Amor is conjunct his moon, which is really good for him. But his abundance is conjunct my moon, sun and MC, and that's supposed to be really good.

I'm really just looking at his natal chart to see if there's anything majorly wrong lol that's why I'm researching Nessus.

posted March 23, 2014 08:37 AM            

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Originally posted by KarmicMoon:
I wouldn't worry about Nessus/saturn. Four degrees is too big of an orb. IMO, you need to keep orbs very tight on asteroids. I use max 2 degrees for asteroids and planets and 1 degree for asteroid to asteroid. Maybe stretch to 3 for Sun and Moon. You can also stretch for ones like Chiron, Juno, Vesta. I use these all the time. The other ones I consider icing on the cake. I wouldn't let any aspect influence me too much as we never know for sure how they will play out. For example, i had a long term relationship with someone whose Mars conjunct my Dejanira exact. I never experienced any effect of this. They can make you aware so you can watch for things. That's just my opinion.

With a Cap Asc, NN in Cap in the 1st house, Saturn in the 6th, stellium in the 9th and all those planets overhead I would think he'd be very work focused and be very successful. Thats just at first glance w/o looking at all the aspects. Don't look for reasons not to like him, lol!

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