posted March 17, 2014 06:57 PM            

I'm still here. All hell broke loose in school and I decided to take a break with tarot for a bit.My ex did end up showing up to classes and I'm still trying to balance. I'm in a much better place!!

You guys seriously both helped me when I was going through a really hard time, I don't know if I thanked you, but thank you!

posted March 17, 2014 07:00 PM            

Sorry to barge in on your convo! I remember pulling for you as well Cooling EMbers but I forgot what the cards said...wish I could remember it is always nice to get feedback or to find out what went on with a person's question and the answer given. I hope all is well

posted March 17, 2014 07:09 PM            

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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Hello!

Sorry to barge in on your convo! I remember pulling for you as well Cooling EMbers but I forgot what the cards said...wish I could remember it is always nice to get feedback or to find out what went on with a person's question and the answer given. I hope all is well

Twitterbird - I love your readings, they are always so great and accurate,would you be interested in trading a bit?

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You gave me two readings. One of which said he'd show up and want to fix things. The other saying he'd show up and just be brash and want to focus on his studies.

He showed up. He avoided me. I confronted him a few days after this routine, I bridged the gap. Were now "friends." We help each other, but nothing more.

posted March 17, 2014 08:52 PM            

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Originally posted by coolingembers:
Hey guys (:

I'm still here. All hell broke loose in school and I decided to take a break with tarot for a bit.My ex did end up showing up to classes and I'm still trying to balance. I'm in a much better place!!

You guys seriously both helped me when I was going through a really hard time, I don't know if I thanked you, but thank you!

How are you two?

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Seems like you handled the situation like a real woman would - GOOD FOR YOU, sister!! I'm good. Swallowed in final-term melee, but good. So glad you are. And that you happened to pop in to say "hi". (((HUGS)))

posted March 17, 2014 10:07 PM            

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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Hello!

Sorry to barge in on your convo! I remember pulling for you as well Cooling EMbers but I forgot what the cards said...wish I could remember it is always nice to get feedback or to find out what went on with a person's question and the answer given. I hope all is well

Twitterbird - I love your readings, they are always so great and accurate,would you be interested in trading a bit?

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Hi venuscorpio,

posted March 17, 2014 10:11 PM            

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Originally posted by coolingembers:
Hey guys (:

I'm still here. All hell broke loose in school and I decided to take a break with tarot for a bit.My ex did end up showing up to classes and I'm still trying to balance. I'm in a much better place!!

You guys seriously both helped me when I was going through a really hard time, I don't know if I thanked you, but thank you!

How are you two?

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Now in a new, confusing situation with a love interest that doesn't seem to be panning out yet. I started crushing on a bartender and we've been texting a bit but he is very scarce and doesn't reply for days. It sucks because we have opposite schedules. I did a pretty intense stint online dating too. I've been overall much happier though and the ex is totally out of the picture, so far. I'm really happy not to be seeing or talking to him at all. I guess the main problem now is that I might be overeager to move on with someone new.

posted March 17, 2014 10:23 PM            

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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Ok! Thanks twitterbird!

sounds good! )

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posted March 17, 2014 10:51 PM            

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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
Seems like you handled the situation like a real woman would - GOOD FOR YOU, sister!! I'm good. Swallowed in final-term melee, but good. So glad you are. And that you happened to pop in to say "hi". (((HUGS)))

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Oh i feel you, Im swamped with college. You seem like a smarty, you'll be fine (: . Good luck!!

posted March 17, 2014 10:53 PM            

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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
I feel like he has potential to give me what I want eventually. So yes, its a very different situation. We haven't hooked up in awhile I think because when he texts me or whatever for one reason or another I'm not available? Example I'll be asleep, my phones dead when I get his messages, just dumb things like that or its just not convenient time?

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Hmm that's perplexing. Have you been direct with him much?

posted March 17, 2014 10:54 PM            

I completely understand just wanting to move on. Once you hit the "done." stage, you just dont want to waste time. I get it. Although if the bartender dude is already flakey...run. Run run run run run! Hahaha. No more!

My ex and I are actually on okay terms. I did get some of the business finished. When it comes down to it, i was ready to commit and settle down, he was not. I dont hold bad feelings, he doesnt hold bad feelings. He saves my butt sometimes in class, I save his. We have an odd "understanding."

posted March 17, 2014 11:03 PM            

When I see him in person it's all clear and peachy but the rest is...confusing.

posted March 17, 2014 11:07 PM            

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No, not really...I don't express myself much about how I feel

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Hmm well if you do put it out there...it might save you a lot of time/energy. Either he'll respond the way you want or he won't, but I think it might help you move on to a new phase/stage, for yourself or together.

And by direct I mean by asking him what he wants from you or why you haven't hooked up in a while.

posted March 17, 2014 11:09 PM            

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Originally posted by Twitterbird05:
Agh I may be making excuses for him but he just seems to have such a busy lifestyle/might be a bad texter.

When I see him in person it's all clear and peachy but the rest is...confusing.

I'm digging my claws in and not wanting to give up...haven't felt this into someone in a while. Maybe it is time to throw in the towel...

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Ive had that. When you see them it feels amazing and everything makes sense, its great.

posted March 17, 2014 11:18 PM            

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Originally posted by coolingembers:
Ive had that. When you see them it feels amazing and everything makes sense, its great.

Then they are flakey when not PHYSICALLY there. It wears you down. Maybe he is really busy, i'd dig a little more , but if he keeps it up...

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Yeah exactly. I feel like it's already happened a few times now...

You know, I've been reading cards way too much on the whole subject. Everything seems like it should work out based on what I've seen but reality has yet to match up.

I really was hoping this guy was the key to the next step but I think I may have to accept another disappointment and move on.

posted March 17, 2014 11:35 PM            

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Yeah exactly. I feel like it's already happened a few times now...

You know, I've been reading cards way too much on the whole subject. Everything seems like it should work out based on what I've seen but reality has yet to match up.

I really was hoping this guy was the key to the next step but I think I may have to accept another disappointment and move on.

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Im so sorry. You deserve better than that. Honestly, while im still mildly bitter over my last situation... i seriously think when its right, its right, and you wont regret dropping the losers.

Also, that is the reason i haven't touched tarot in about a month. Im shadey on love readings. Trust your gut. Girls have the best intuition on the planet. You know something is off, thats why you're doing the readings.