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Topic: Fast wedding proposal
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Lilith Rising
Newflake Posts: 12
From: Orion
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted March 18, 2014 12:33 PM
  
He was her teacher for 2 semesters. They started to go out when he was her teacher in university but he dumped her and got back with his ex.They recently started to date again. He proposed after 2 weeks. What do you guys think of this synastry? Will it be a long term relationship this time or the passion will go away again? He is the outside wheel with unknown birth time. Her birth time is correct. Synastry
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LoadedPistil
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From: NJ, USA
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 18, 2014 12:37 PM
Post the aspect chart for both, please.
I see a Saturn/Jupiter conjunction exact! Congratulations!!
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littlecloud
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posted March 18, 2014 12:49 PM
If that mars square Uranus is accurate in the composite then I'm not sure I see this lasting. That composite is really difficult. IP: Logged |
KingofCups
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posted March 18, 2014 12:53 PM
At a glance, I'd say, can't live with each other, can't live without each other… it'll last almost definitely, but with Moon Square Moon, I don't know if it'll be… good(?).Congrats to them though. Hopefully, they can resolve their emotional differences  IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
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Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 18, 2014 01:00 PM
We don't know the birth time, so moon sq moon could disappear, but mars/Venus in both charts is significant for love. If his ascendant is really in Aries, Mars contacts will be important for him. ------------------
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Lilith Rising
Newflake Posts: 12
From: Orion
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted March 18, 2014 01:09 PM
I was worried about Pluto - Mars dw in bad aspects.They have similar chart formats: Her Chart:
 His chart:
 He is very impulsive and she is the opposite. S
he was in love when they first started to date but when he got back with his ex she was very upset. That is why she said no to the wedding proposal, she still thinks he can change his mind at any second. She asked for my feedback regarding their synastry - composite but honestly, I don't know what to tell her. I mean, I know a synastry should have a balance between good and bad aspects but their charts are so similar. What do you guys think?
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littlecloud
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posted March 19, 2014 12:46 AM
I'm not liking the synastry or the composite. I don't care much for Sun/moon aspects, they're nice but I don't believe they're absolutely necessary. However, I have found i my personal experience that when there is affliction between the luminaries (even a conjunction a couple of times) it feels like something is missing from the connection. Like you can't truly support the other person because the two don't fully understand each other. I have an exact Sun square Sun with a friend (moon too I think) and one of the reasons our friendship works is because we don't try to change the other person. We accept our differences and try to understand each other as best we can but I still feel this lack of support from her. There are times that I've tried to bring it up but she brushes it off saying everything is ok and not to worry. Which of course doesn't really help. I tend to feel under appreciated quite often.I know birth time is incorrect but if they do have moon square moon I guarantee that the same feelings will crop up. Also there seems to be a lack of connections (aspects) in the synastry and without a correct birth time we can't really account for angles. The same with the composite. You only get half the story because of the aspects and can't say much for the houses. They have a grand cross which is a lot of energy and very difficult. If however this is the type of relationship they both gravitate towards and want then it could work. He is very prone to self sabotage with that mars conjunct saturn in his natal. Which when you look at the sun/uranus opposition is sabotage via impulses. So he may fly off again to another girl, or do something else rash like gamble and lose his money. He's highly idealistic and when things don't add up to this view of idealism it cracks him so to speak. Any of this ring true? IP: Logged |
beenylove
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posted March 19, 2014 08:34 AM
Composite - Sun and Venus opposing Uranus. It will surely end. :/IP: Logged |
Lilith Rising
Newflake Posts: 12
From: Orion
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted March 19, 2014 06:13 PM
Littlecloud - She is very happy to be with him again and it is hard to tell what “his deal” is. I was with them and he said he knew he was getting married to her. He knew I was not a big fan of him for what he did to her in the past. I completely changed my mind after I met him - he is so polite, charming and tried very hard to show me he really wanted to be with her. What can I say? Sometimes ppl just know they found their other half. He looks stable, at least he has a very stable life. He works, teaches. My friend is 100% in love but she is not letting him know that so he is doing his best to “win her heart again”. My only concern, to be honest, more than if it will last is how this Pluto – Mars – Moon can perform. She wants to know if she should trust him or not. I guess when you get hurt once you never forget. (especially a cancer sun – venus like her)
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