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Topic: Personal Power in Natal Chart & Other Question
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fauxcoat Knowflake Posts: 305 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 18, 2014 03:04 PM
Is there anything in my chart that would indicate I have personal power? Someone said I did based on my chart but did not elaborate. Also, I have a LOT of people in my life who dislike me in the past few years. It just seems to multiply. Is there anything in my chart to indicate why this is? Transit? Aspect? Placement? IP: Logged |
Springtimeflower Knowflake Posts: 121 From: USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 18, 2014 08:28 PM
Hi Fauxcoat,I noticed that your unconscious house (12th)ruler is squared by your persona (1st) house ruler, which may not help you see what others see. You may also impose rules on others that you yourself do not want given to you and they may see that as hypocritical even though you don't realize that you are doing this. You may not appreciate it when someone else disagrees with your opinions and may not realize this either. You may not have staying power where projects are concerned and if you don't finish them or follow through, people may get annoyed. This aspect does make you inventive, though. You may also come across to others as stubborn, obstinate and egotistical. You need to evolve yourself and be able to laugh at yourself, become more aware like what you just did in asking about your chart, otherwise you will have problems, as you are already seeing all the way around. Transiting Pluto is also squaring your natal mars and making you more ambitious and possibly the above is showing up more in your personality and behavior, so if you can try to work with this energy in a more positive way, you can save yourself the bad feelings from others. Your chart ruler is elevated, which is what others see and you may also have your natal Venus conjunct Mars, which others are seeing as your ambitions. They may feel threatened by you as well. My third house (communications) is elevated and people oftentimes will enjoy the info I've learned and are willing to share with them. Hope this helps, Spring IP: Logged |
fauxcoat Knowflake Posts: 305 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 18, 2014 08:40 PM
Thanks, Spring. I still don't understand. I am not a motivated person. I have NOTHING going for me in life. I'm not threatening. I am probably the most passive person I can imagine. People walk over me all the time and while I am getting sick of it and standing up for myself more, it comes out awkwardly then I give up trying. Look how much Libra I have in my chart and this might explain it a little bit better than I can. Your chart ruler is elevated - what does this mean? your natal Venus conjunct Mars, which others are seeing as your ambitions - why would venus conjunct mars make me seem ambitious? I thought this conjunction made one seem very loving. IP: Logged |
Springtimeflower Knowflake Posts: 121 From: USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 18, 2014 10:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by fauxcoat: Thanks, Spring. I still don't understand. I am not a motivated person. I have NOTHING going for me in life. I'm probably a year away from living in a card board box. I'm not threatening. I am probably the most passive person I can imagine. People walk over me all the time and while I am getting sick of it and standing up for myself more, it comes out awkwardly then I give up trying. Look how much Libra I have in my chart and this might explain it a little bit better than I can. Your chart ruler is elevated - what does this mean? your natal Venus conjunct Mars, which others are seeing as your ambitions - why would venus conjunct mars make me seem ambitious? I thought this conjunction made one seem very loving.
The Saturn part of the aspect (Natal Saturn square Uranus) can signify the doormat feeling and you have it in the 7th house, which can make you feel like you are inferior to others, but those energies that I mentioned above are what you give off whether outwardly or they just pick that up (vibes) and you get the reaction you are getting. Try getting some help with how you feel about yourself instead of fighting back--turn it inward and you'll be amazed how differently people treat you when you feel better about yourself. Your chart ruler is at the top of your chart or elevated, which normally allows others to see you. Yours is sitting in Scorpio, which may be uncomfortable for you and hence your awkwardness. The mars part of the (Venus conjunct mars natal aspect) is under stress or being squared by Pluto and will undergo change slowly during the coming year or two. This is most likely what is helping you to fight back at these people. Everyone reacts differently to each of these natal aspects--I gave you the more typical reaction. Sorry if this doesn't fit. Hope this helps, Spring
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fauxcoat Knowflake Posts: 305 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 18, 2014 10:23 PM
So, I give off an aggressive vibe (even though I don't think I am aggressive) yet I feel inferior in relationships (which I do)? What a terrible recipe for a life. People think I am aggressive so they fight me and I can't fight back because I feel inferior. IP: Logged |
Springtimeflower Knowflake Posts: 121 From: USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 19, 2014 02:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by fauxcoat: So, I give off an aggressive vibe (even though I don't think I am aggressive) yet I feel inferior in relationships (which I do)? What a terrible recipe for a life. People think I am aggressive so they fight me and I can't fight back because I feel inferior.
Hi Faux, Try to find someone who can help you release that and then you will yourself--transiting Pluto is helping there, but you have to take the initiative. Take care, Spring IP: Logged |