posted March 18, 2014 09:40 PM            

Shall I kick his ass and send him to the moon or give him a last chance ? Help please. Here is our synastry chart..

posted March 19, 2014 06:26 PM            

i see you both have chiron conjunct chiron, suggesting a past life connection.

venus-saturn double whammy, suggesting you both take relationships seriously and you both have the potential to sustain a long term connection.

posted March 19, 2014 07:57 PM            

here is the composite chart;

posted March 20, 2014 06:25 PM            

Ther are a lot of binding items in this synastry which is no wonder why you can't seem to get away

your venus opposite his saturn
nnode conjunct nnode
saturn conj saturn

To me venus opposite saturn is a particular type of nasty in synastry because it tends to lends itself to the venus person being excited and lovey dovey and the saturn person being a wet blanket.

Now granted you have it natally so you're used to it somewhat, but he's not.

Your venus opposite ssaturn has to do with romance being pitted against marriage.

posted March 20, 2014 07:56 PM            

My Venus opposite his Saturn; romance versus friendship.. Is it like I want romance he wants friendship ???

His Venus trines my Saturn.. when it's a double whammy what does it stand for ?

( we are highschool class mates; after graduation we lost contact but he found me nearly 17 years later via his ex-girl friend who mentioned about me during a conversation. He got my number from her, he called me, I invited him to a house party and we hit it off quite immediately and after a couple of dates we started having sex regularly and then... It's a long and a complicated story.. )

After his 3rd call, I accepted to have a coffee in his house today ( we live walking distance to each other )... I told him that I am not going to have sex with him but well... He touched the right buttons and I decided to enjoy the moment

We are close in a way, we can talk openly, yeap we are friends. But there is this sexual chemistry in between us that does not go anywhere.. And we always end up having sex even when he is seeing someone else...

Today, he said they don't mean a thing, they come and go... "You're the one permanent, what we have is different" Phew while I was typing this it felt cheasy ! but while he was saying it, I took it as a compliment.. Am I being stupid here ???

Aghhh playing on repeat ! :S