posted March 19, 2014 12:12 PM            

Hope you remember me.And I hope you are fine and your health is good.I wanted to talk to you and ask you about something.I know you're high in demand and must be very busy yet I have a burning question that I wanted to ask.It may sound repetitive but it's about that guy SD.

Past two weeks we had been interacting really well and things were getting tough for me as I was feeling anxious about not telling him how I feel.I just wanted to tell him how I feel about him and accept whatever decision he made.But last friday after I told him that I liked him,he did not say anything.I could not explain or say much more as I was nervous and anticipating his decision and he just told me to sit next him.That's it.It was inside office so other people started coming and ultimately he did not tell me anything.Like ,what was that?

Then,fortunately or unfortunately me,him along with 5 other people went on a weekend trip.There,sometimes I found him joking and laughing with me ....sometimes I found him paying attention to another girl named SB in our group.And I admit it made me jealous.It sort of ruined my trip. And,it's Wednesday,he still has not told me anything but he loves to joke with me,fool around with me...tease me...I am confused... Please dear be kind enough and tell me what to do?

I will put in my chart..if you require.My initial is P , his initial is S.MY Date of birth is june 18,1990.His is nov.16,1985.

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posted March 19, 2014 12:48 PM            

Hope you don't mind me chiming in. Is this the guy I read for you on in the past? I think it's very brave & clever to tell him your feelings, but I don't think this will be a relationship
Will there be an opportunity to talk to him again? Say: listen dude, pulled my heart out here, would you mind giving me a straight answer?

posted March 19, 2014 12:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Twirl:
Hi Miranda,

Hope you don't mind me chiming in. Is this the guy I read for you on in the past? I think it's very brave & clever to tell him your feelings, but I don't think this will be a relationship
Will there be an opportunity to talk to him again? Say: listen dude, pulled my heart out here, would you mind giving me a straight answer?

Feel free to discard of course & wishing you good things

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Yes,Twirl..it's the same guy you have read for.And it's fine that you say there won't be a relationship.I mean,it would hurt me but well,ok.Nothing much is happening anyway.I just want to protect myself from all the hurt and pain.I do not deserve this.Yes,he is from my office..so I see him everyday.Next time,I'll ask him.

posted March 19, 2014 02:59 PM            

Sure I remember you, sweetie. Once I get your energy, I've got you No need to post chart at all.

Just quickly, because I'm getting quite tired out (been going non-stop all morning).

Remember when we talked last time, I told you that he's not 'your one'? That out of the guys you asked me about that he was your best 'type', but ultimately... etc. Remember?

I'm sorry you said anything to him, coz if you would have asked me, and I don't like to giving advice, but when asked I will. I'd say no to doing that because of how I feel him/his personality to be. No wonder he reacted the way he did. You shocked him speachless! He was totally not expecting it! Even though he's not an avid pursuer type, he, I feel, does like to be the initiator. That's what I feel happened. No tragedy.

What I feel would be the best thing to do at this point is nothing. Continue on, as you have been... as if nothing happened. You work with him. He's funny and kidding around, so things are normal work mode. Continue in that vein, as if that conversation didn't take place. He knows what you said. He knows now how you feel. He's very flattered by it and likes you. If he was offended by it he wouldn't be still kidding around with you. His personality is such that he would be cordial, but not funny with you if there was a problem. Is he flirtatious w/you yet? He will be. But again, and I don't know everything, I'm just a little intuitive, but I don't feel that he's 'your guy'. Remember, sweetie.. you have a few more to go before 'the one' crosses your path.

Hope that helped.

posted March 19, 2014 03:33 PM            

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Originally posted by CrimsonRed:
Hi Miranda,

Sure I remember you, sweetie. Once I get your energy, I've got you No need to post chart at all.

Just quickly, because I'm getting quite tired out (been going non-stop all morning).

Remember when we talked last time, I told you that he's not 'your one'? That out of the guys you asked me about that he was your best 'type', but ultimately... etc. Remember?

I'm sorry you said anything to him, coz if you would have asked me, and I don't like to giving advice, but when asked I will. I'd say no to doing that because of how I feel him/his personality to be. No wonder he reacted the way he did. You shocked him speachless! He was totally not expecting it! Even though he's not an avid pursuer type, he, I feel, does like to be the initiator. That's what I feel happened. No tragedy.

What I feel would be the best thing to do at this point is nothing. Continue on, as you have been... as if nothing happened. You work with him. He's funny and kidding around, so things are normal work mode. Continue in that vein, as if that conversation didn't take place. He knows what you said. He knows now how you feel. He's very flattered by it and likes you. If he was offended by it he wouldn't be still kidding around with you. His personality is such that he would be cordial, but not funny with you if there was a problem. Is he flirtatious w/you yet? He will be. But again, and I don't know everything, I'm just a little intuitive, but I don't feel that he's 'your guy'. Remember, sweetie.. you have a few more to go before 'the one' crosses your path.

Hope that helped.

Love and Light!

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CrimsonRed.... *hugs*

I told him because I thought I wanted a decision..a yes or a no.Things were getting tiring..and I wanted a way out.He is being flirtatious with me..and I understand that he is not the right one...then why do I keep falling for guys who are not right for me?

But thanks for replying me back so quick. I really appreciate it.A few more before I meet 'the one'..does that mean a few more heartbreaks like this where even though there is no relationship I still feel all the hurt and pain.. Also,I wanted to ask you that when do you see me meeting 'the one'..is it maybe a couple of years from now?

posted March 20, 2014 02:40 PM            

Hi there,

Hope you're doing well today

I don't know time sweetie, sorry, so I can't tell you when anything is going to happen. Not with your guy now or when you will meet 'the one'. Again, sorry.

And I'm sure he's going to continue being flirtatious with you, because he likes you and is attracted to you.

posted March 20, 2014 03:05 PM            

I thought you replied me something as I can see my post move up a bit.Is that so?

posted March 20, 2014 03:09 PM            

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Originally posted by CrimsonRed:
@Miranda01

Hi there,

Hope you're doing well today

I don't know time sweetie, sorry, so I can't tell you when anything is going to happen. Not with your guy now or when you will meet 'the one'. Again, sorry.

And I'm sure he's going to continue being flirtatious with you, because he likes you and is attracted to you.

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It's Ok Crimson.I'm glad you replied.I was a bit weird yesterday.Today I am fine.More positive.Did not go to office.Worked from home.

posted March 20, 2014 03:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Miranda01:
It's Ok Crimson.I'm glad you replied.I was a bit weird yesterday.Today I am fine.More positive.Did not go to office.Worked from home.

Sending you all the love and blessings.

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