posted March 20, 2014 12:08 PM            

Synastry
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posted March 20, 2014 02:49 PM            

Let's start with that because I believe its the most important.

Natal
Your Mars/Venus midpoint squares his
-Sun orb 3
-Mercury orb 2
-Venus orb 3
-MC EXACT

His Mars/Venus Midpoint conjuncts your...
-Chiron EXACT
-Asc EXACT

Me and M have my mars and venus in hard aspect to is Mars/Venus Midpoint and it's like I'm the gravy to his biscuits. I'm sure the bedroom action is like Cirque de Soliel.

I know there are abuses in your relationship. I know it's toxic. I know it's non-committal, but it's supposed to happen.

Your Natal

Leo Sun/Leo Asc/Sag Moon Nothing but Fire makes you a very sexual person
5th House ruled by Sag... Sex
Lilith in the 8th house in Aries (More Fire)... Demand for Sexual Freedom, Pursuit of the Forbidden

You need to control yourself. Point blank period.

Synastry
SATURN CONJUNCT URANUS 0 14"

It is a two-faced relationship. Fundamentally it reconciles two distant life styles. Nevertheless, and here the two faces appear, it can be a destructive, disaggregated relationship, if two persons do not try to find points of common ground; on the other side can turn out to be stimulating and productive, if you manage to find an agreement.

SATURN CONJUNCT NEPTUNE 0 28"

It is a productive relationship for both. Even if of different generations, you manage to reconcile the points that are fundamentally different in life, appreciating the differences. If this relationship is between two persons who work together, this working association it is very productive and effective

Jupiter Square Midheaven 0 25"

This is not a good combination for cooperation in profession or family relationships. You are both unrealistic in their expectations and lack discipline to carry out their career ambitions. The first person may regard the second person as as materialistic or selfish. The second person may consider the first person as self-indulgent. There needs to be a way you can both achieve what you both want together without stepping on each others feet.

Composite

Mars is very poorly aspected.

Mars opposite Moon
A lot of damage can be done in the heat of the moment, with impulsive words and actions. There are plenty of heated moments in your relationship! You affect each other immediately--indifference is rarely present between you. While you are quick to anger or irritate one another, you might be just as quick to let it go. You react quickly and directly to one another, and you tend to make impulsive emotional decisions when together. Towards others, you may be protective and defensive of your relationship. On one hand, all of this directness means you won't easily sweep difficult matters under the carpet. On the other, you might spend too much time arguing over petty matters, and this can grow tiresome! Try to avoid competing with one another, unless it's done in a friendly way that gently challenges each of you.

Mars opposite Saturn
Chris Brown and Rihanna

Mars square AC
Ike and Tina fighting in public

Mars conjunct MC
50 Shades of Gray

You need to get out of this relationship and write a book about it.

posted May 30, 2014 10:47 AM            

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Originally posted by rubynoir:
I have been in and out of an extremely sexual and volatile relationship with a heavily influenced Scorpio for the past five years.
No matter how far I run, he comes back.
We can have no contact for a number of months and when we are in the same room together we need to sleep together.
I am so sick of being hurt and humiliated by him but it's an obsession I can't distance myself from. I hate him so much but love him at the same time, he tell me I'm not the one and he doesn't love me but he always comes back to me.
We have also been violent to one another but still keep going back.
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Synastry
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(I've used 12pm for his time as I do not know his actual birth time.)

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BUMP

CUZ I HATE REPEATING MYSELF!!

posted May 30, 2014 11:11 AM            

That was a very good summary.....are you an expert on synastry?

Ruby,

I remembered your other thread a while back with the restraining order.....let me see if I can add something....but when I first read your theard, I said, "Girl....." smh.

From a non astrological perspective, you say you "need" to sleep with him, and it's violent...the relationship reflects some aspect of YOURSELF, this relationship is a mirror for all the issues/thoughts/passions you are experiencing....a need for chaos in this situation is serving you, basically, you must in someone way be having a emotional/sexual payoff for this.

I suspect you truly do not want to distance yourself from this person--you want to own him, complete him, and MAKE him change. But listen, at some point, you are going to have to take the loss and figure out if these carnal needs are really supporting your highest good!

I'll take a look at natal charts, but I really think this is some heightened epic romance for you....until you recognize that this is harming your spirit, you will not be able to break free. Until then, you'll continue to feed off of it. You like the push and pull, the agony of all this, it feels good and natural to you...that's "love" to you....

posted May 31, 2014 09:30 AM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Expert?!?! No, no, no!!!

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I just ask b/c you have a great way of summing things up....