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posted March 20, 2014 01:15 PM            

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I have had such a hard time with my confidence and everything in general. I am constantly experiencing anxiety. But I need my confidence back because it can get me through anything. Can anyone do a reading for me and let me know if I will get out of these low and depressed moods when I move to NY in August. I am willing to exchange so please leave your questions.

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posted March 20, 2014 01:24 PM            

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Hi!

I will!

my question is about a guy named Joe. we were seeing each other for a month...two Wednesdays ago we met up and got a drink... I heard from him that night, afterwards, and I also heard from him the next morning. since then I have not heard from him. today he deleted me from his facebook account ( like who does that!)
we actually had a really good mental report some I'm kind of shocked by this any also told me I was beautiful so I thought he was attracted to me but maybe not
so my question is is what happened?

personally I think it's because I gain weight, it was only 10 pounds. also last night I changed my photo to a girl that had stomach rolls and on it, with a tattoo that said still beautiful......and he probably thought that was me..... there was also a post on my Facebook page talking about taking a 7month position in New York but I wasn't sure if I was going to do it so I'm sure he read that too but I would think he would contact me about it if he needed clarification.........anyways that's my theory on things.

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posted March 20, 2014 01:28 PM            

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while you are in New York I feel excitement coming from you. I don't see a lack of self confidence I see a little bit of nervous tension. it will all go away once you're in New York it will go away pretty quickly. will it go away until NY, honestly what I see the Restless, but I do not see depression at all

QUOTE]Originally posted by beenylove:
I have had such a hard time with my confidence and everything in general. I am constantly experiencing anxiety. But I need my confidence back because it can get me through anything. Can anyone do a reading for me and let me know if I will get out of these low and depressed moods when I move to NY in August. I am willing to exchange so please leave your questions.[/QUOTE]

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posted March 20, 2014 01:35 PM            

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Okay I know that this makes no sense whatsoever - but I got the card of betrayal or hurt from his end. I specifically feel like someone told him something that made him want to move away from you. This person seems to be a woman. I don't know if you have mutual friends, or if he met a mutual friend of the two of you unknown to you. Perhaps this is someone who you don't even really have a close connection with. Eitherways, there is some sort of interference from another woman. Whatever she said made him angry / emotional. When he deleted it was quick action, something he should have taken time to think about, but he did not. I do think that he is going to feel really bad about what he did, and contact will happen again. I don't think any of this has anything to do with weight or the way you look. I do get that he thinks you are very beautiful, so there is nothing to worry about.

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posted March 20, 2014 01:40 PM            

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I don't know anybody that he knows I don't really think there's anyone that kinda came out

but you know he technically could be seeing other people and you we did meet off of eharmony

or he could have been talking about it with one of his friends thats a girl and maybe she was kind of like, this girl doesn't seem your type Exedra Exedra.

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posted March 20, 2014 01:43 PM            

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Yeah it could definitely be one of those scenarios. He didn't have to delete you though! What the heck! lol.

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posted March 20, 2014 01:47 PM            

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Sorry to hear you aren't feeling well, beeny!

Unfortunately depression is one of those things that the harder you fight it the worse it seems to become. Try to accept it and you might be surprised how it slowly melts away.

You could also seek therapy help, if you can afford it.

Hope you feel better soon.

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posted March 20, 2014 01:48 PM            

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Hey beeny. I'm seeing pretty much the exact same thing as cherful: a restlessness and anxiousness that's dragging down your 'now', but it's not depression or lack of confidence in what you can do at all. Right now, it seems far more a matter of you not being able to DO IT RIGHT NOWWWW!!! that's driving you to distraction. August just seems so far off that you're having a hard time really getting excited about it yet, so it's manifesting as anxiety instead.

Try to look at it this way: New York is a BIG, HUGE FREAKING DEAL - you absolutely should be excited! But the five whole months that you're working so hard to move past will never be yours again - once they're gone, they're gone. You could manifest some amazing things in those five months you're waiting to start a whole new life (a life, by the way, that I see you LOVING ) which you can take with you forever...or you could just lose them forever. I hope this helps.

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posted March 20, 2014 01:52 PM            

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Thank you Cherful for the reading!! I really appreciate it! That is reliving to hear!

Thank you twitterbird!! I will try to go with the flow as you said. Let me know if you have any questions you would like answered!

LostTaurus, that would be great! Now I am excited!! Thanks! Please let me know if you have any questions!!

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posted March 20, 2014 01:55 PM            

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Glad it helped beenylove!

Ummm...should I go to Hot Springs for a few days over spring break, or Gulf Shores? It would appear I REALLY need the time away, so this seems a very timely question. Thank you!

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posted March 20, 2014 02:01 PM            

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Gulf shores!! Gulf shores will be more rejuvenating compared to Hot Springs. If you want to come back feeling amped up and ready to go, I definitely say Gulf Shores.

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posted March 20, 2014 02:02 PM            

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Originally posted by beenylove:
Gulf shores!! Gulf shores will be more rejuvenating compared to Hot Springs. If you want to come back feeling amped up and ready to go, I definitely say Gulf Shores.

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Excellent. Thank VERY MUCH beeny!

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posted March 20, 2014 03:56 PM            

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Thanks beeny! Today I'm throwing myself into fate's hands today so I won't be getting any readings.

Maybe sometime in the future?

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posted March 20, 2014 04:35 PM            

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Hey beenylove, I don't have a reading but have a somewhat silly advice.

I heard that according to Chinese face reading that confidence is linked to our eyebrows (weird I know) - so having fuller eyebrows will actually make you more confident whilst having thin pencil like eyebrows will make you less confident.

I've started growing my eyebrows after hearing that, I still pluck of course, to have a normal shape, but I keep them a lot fuller...

I know it's somewhat silly tip, but if you're lacking confidence don't overpluck your eyebrows and perhaps fill them in with pencil a bit...

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posted March 20, 2014 05:12 PM            

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No problem twitterbird!!

ST@R2013 - How funny you mention this!! I have been pulling on my eyebrows a bit too much these days!! Interesting! I am going to stop this and see!!

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