posted March 20, 2014 11:43 PM            

I saw CB this evening. It was a nice time overall. He invited me to the park. He picked me up and we walked the trails there with his Doberman. Then we went back to his house for a bit and watched tv and he made fish and rice. Then he asked me to go grocery shopping with him lol... So we did that, too. He dropped me off back at home and we said bye but no kiss. He waited til I was inside to pull away. I'm disappointed he didn't kiss me. I don't know what goes on in that mans mind. I was glad to see him however.

I hope to hear from you soon!

posted March 21, 2014 12:06 AM            

Thanks for checking. Tonight was interesting...to say the least. He didn't reply to my text and as soon as I walked into the bar I felt something was off. He seemed kinda stiff and anxious. I introduced my friend and said hi briefly but we sat away from the bar. I could see him in my peripheral vision the whole time and he continued to look stressed out, looked at his phone a lot (so he does check his phone at work!) and seemed to be looking at some kind of test prep book. My friend also noted that he seemed stressed out.

Feeling like I needed to talk to him before we left, I went to the bar to get our check. I asked him how things were going and instead he asked me about being sick (which I had mentioned in the voicemail he never replied to) and when I didn't understand him at first he said "yeah, I heard you coughing." I only coughed a FEW times when I was there. He then told me that he had been fighting a cold too. So in a way he acknowledged the stuff I had said in the vmail and was paying attention to me when I was there.

I don't know what on earth is going on with him but whatever it is it has nothing to do with me. My friend suggested that maybe I should drop it for a while and then after a month or so just stop by the bar with friends. Mars RX maybe? I mean, it doesn't seem like he's entirely not interested but...what??

MEN.

posted March 21, 2014 12:16 AM            

Wanna pull a few cards to figure out what's going on with him?

posted March 21, 2014 05:31 AM            

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I'm actually less confused, I think. At least now I can feel more confident that the reason he doesn't reply isn't because of me. I'm going to pursue other options for a while. He has my number, he knows how to reach me. She thought he was cute and seemed really sweet. She was just encouraging and was like "you have a lot going for you right now, if he can't get with the program then don't worry about it."

Wanna pull a few cards to figure out what's going on with him?

What's CB's Mars sign again?

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posted March 21, 2014 10:41 AM            

Clarity! I'm pretty impressed that he finally was honest with me. Not sure how I should reply now though...

I feel like a small burden is lifted...

This from Cafe Astrology on Mars in Aqua:

"In personal relationships, their approach to intimacy is definitely on the detached side, which can be baffling and frustrating to more personal and affectionate personalities. "

posted March 21, 2014 10:52 AM            

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Ha! So we don't need to read cards on J. He texted me at 4am to say thanks for the offer to hang out and that he couldn't make it work but that doesn't mean he wasn't interested. He said straight up that he's got too much going on but he hopes to see me around.

Clarity! I'm pretty impressed that he finally was honest with me. Not sure how I should reply now though...

I feel like a small burden is lifted...

This from Cafe Astrology on Mars in Aqua:

"In personal relationships, their approach to intimacy is definitely on the detached side, which can be baffling and frustrating to more personal and affectionate personalities. "

I feel like any Mars sign that's in Aqua, Pisces, Libra, or Gemini might be hard to pin down. Those signs that are always moving or weighing the options.

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Yay! I'm so glad you heard from him!! Are you going to wait to respond?

Yeah that mars is frustrating. It can't mix well with his sun mercury and venus in Scorpio and cancer moon... I imagine internally he is really struggling

He's def an enigma to me... And I'm triple cancer (sun merc an venus) so it feels strange

I wonder why I feel that part of him so keenly and not the other aspects?

posted March 21, 2014 11:01 AM            

Hmm what's CB's rising? I have Mercury and Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Pisces and my moon is in Aqua. I also have a Sag sun and Gemini rising though, so I still feel pretty fire/air driven even though I have a lot of water in my chart. Also, just being a Sag makes me more direct than a Scorpio.

posted March 21, 2014 11:15 AM            

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What should I say back to him? I was just thinking I'd say thanks for being honest and that if things calm down for him to drop me a line...I feel kinda bad now for being a little pushy and telling him it was last call, but I didn't want to hang around longer if I wasn't wanted.

Hmm what's CB's rising? I have Mercury and Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Pisces and my moon is in Aqua. I also have a Sag sun and Gemini rising though, so I still feel pretty fire/air driven even though I have a lot of water in my chart. Also, just being a Sag makes me more direct than a Scorpio.

Moon/Saturn can be tough. Some people say having aspects in your natal chart helps but some disagree. You'd think with him being the saturn he'd be the structured one...hmm

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Idk his birth time

posted March 21, 2014 12:38 PM            

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Also: I love this! No one has ever made a thread to me. You're the first! Annnddd I did wear some bright lipstick yesterday after you suggested it.

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Haha!! I am glad!