posted March 22, 2014 05:10 PM            

mine is about my health. I know my soular return had like 5 different things in the 12th house maybe that's why I'm so tired, lathargic, so beat down but maybe it's because I had a really bad year last year, etc, either way I'm finding it so hard to go to the gym, finding it really hard to get up early and go to work and get really hard to you know motivate myself to get back to the Brenda that I once was.

yes I am over eating and eating bad foods yes there's still some lingering heartache and yes its just satisfaction with my finances and my job .....everything is fine it's just not as great as they were a year ago.

posted March 22, 2014 05:27 PM            

Thank you so much for being willing to exchange with me.

One thing I want is what I should do with "K" who was dating my best friend "L", but put her through hell. "L" broke up with "K" since he was being a cheater, and I found more things about him, and I am really angry he treated my best friend this way. This guy was a good friend of mine, and I would like to know if you see that I will be distancing myself from him in the future? Also can you tell me anything that you feel about this guy's character? Is he a liar and a cheater? Anything else you can tell me?

As for you, yeah I can see that you are in the best of spirits these days, and I do see that your self esteem has lowered compared to before. It seems like a vicious cycle - eating bad food and not working out causes you to feel worse about your body, and the worse you feel, the less energy you put into eating right and working out, and so it continues. One message I got was that you should get as much sunlight as possible and just spend your time in the nature. Another one I got was belief - believing in your beauty and your sex appeal. Meditation and hypnotism also came up as two ways to help you relax and also get rid of this lethargy. It also mentioned that this little funk will be there for a while, but that you will get out of it.

posted March 22, 2014 05:46 PM            

he's not out of the dog park completely he had his issues that he should have ratified in a much better way but chose to go about and saying f*** it I'm not doing this anymore and do what he did

..... okay I'll be back later with this and I'll correct any typos I used my auto on my phone!

Edited
how long was this relationship it doesn't seem long time  where he would want to work out those shortcomings. I don't think she kknows how to properly be in a relationship without sabbataging. I see she said things and did things....it's as if she's not too experienced in rel. And is she is not putting him first.

I don't think she was trying or even realizinv that she was pushing him away but that's what she was doing.

She needs more skills in the rel area, more exp
Mixed messages, some hurt, and confusion.....is how he feels towards this all.

I think he was interested in her but then she...her realself...came out and that's when it all got lost in translation......he began to protect himself...put up a walk, and then act out.....is it immaturity yes, but he felt like she switches in who she was...when in reality this is how the girl is in rel.....I don't even think she'll see it...it's almost as a defense mode for her, but I keep getting sabotage.

Again the rel doesn't seem like it was long or that serious, so that's why he didn't feel like he needed to take the time and figure out what happened and why things where turning around....he just felt like...almost like he was lies/deceived to, by her, by her changing.

posted March 22, 2014 07:44 PM            

I have another question. I have a medical condition that is not only affecting my health, but also causing unnecessary physical effects, causing me to have lower confidence about myself. A surgery was recommended to fix the issue. I plan on having the surgery over the summer, will it improve my overall happiness and well-being? Will I feel much better about my physical appearance?

posted March 22, 2014 08:11 PM            

well I see you happy so I don't know if it's because it decreased your ailments or you're just happy because the surgery was successful but it feels like you being happy I don't feel any troubles or complications or anything like that.

did you act as if this is like a set back or a roadblock in many ways in your life.... like you were using it as an excuse? I don't feel you'll take that stance anymore so again yes I have to say that this will probably be the answer to what you're looking for.

I'm kind of shocked to hear that it's affecting ur health and lowering your confidence....I have to say that whatever this is it doesn't seem that bad or like that big of a deal.... I mean like I never woulda picked up on it in a reading unless you just had told me

posted March 22, 2014 09:32 PM            

Wow. As always on the money. Many people tell me that they really think that the physical issues are not so bad - but to me they are so blatantly obvious! I don't go out, I avoid drawing attention to myself - it is just a big blow to my self-esteem. :/ But I am so glad that everything will work out - really looking forward to it. Sorry to hear about the vitiligo - I understand how you feel completely.! I saw recent research that have found a way to reverse vitiligo - hopefully treatment will be in the market soon!

Hmmm 2017 - 2018. I don't see BAD but what I do is a little bit of a concern for your health because of mars in the 6th house, but then venus comes in kind of saves you because venus in 6th house blesses you in the health department. Also feels like a great year for love and finances too. I really do not see anything bad about this solar return - you don't have anything to worry about.

posted March 22, 2014 10:03 PM            

okay so the first thing I got was shock like he didn't know but almost like as if you kept it a secret from him so he has to get over that. it's almost as if he's going to ask you why didn't u tell him and when did you know you were going to go to school there so he's a bit curious and a bit confused on why it seemed like a secret.

posted March 22, 2014 10:27 PM            

I also got that being a housewife may not be satisfactory to you, and in fact you have the potential to be in a good job and have a good career, but I feel like your gifts are not being used because you are not exactly in the right field as of now. Let me know if you have more questions about this!

posted March 22, 2014 11:04 PM            

I do work now with doctors but um yeah toward administrator paperwork

do you see when or if I would be able to go to school and get a counseling license or perhaps I'll be able to simply be an advisor, for like college we don't need a license for that

Do you see when this is going to happen when I'll be working in that type of sector? do u you see if I would go back to school or is it more of a career change where I would be something like an advisor?

I definitely feel you to be living with a friend and a friend for a while. it could evolve to where you'll be living with him, but its a couple years away....... I want to say for a good year you're going to be living with a friend

posted March 23, 2014 12:06 PM            

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Originally posted by cherful24:
Lol, I went to school to be a counselor but I did not obtain a license to practice because I have no financial aid,

I do work now with doctors but um yeah toward administrator paperwork

do you see when or if I would be able to go to school and get a counseling license or perhaps I'll be able to simply be an advisor, for like college we don't need a license for that

Do you see when this is going to happen when I'll be working in that type of sector? do u you see if I would go back to school or is it more of a career change where I would be something like an advisor?

I definitely feel you to be living with a friend and a friend for a while. it could evolve to where you'll be living with him, but its a couple years away....... I want to say for a good year you're going to be living with a friend

Of course over a year, lot can happen, a lot can change
so I don't want to say yes or no with him because that energy needs to come into play before any accuracy can really be given, but I do say it could be very strong possibility that that would happen

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I got a No to going back to school, but Yes to a career change as an advisor. For me, time frames are difficult, but I feel like it is something that you could start doing now. Is there a college you have worked for at a past? Have you done any kind of counseling at all?