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LostTaurus
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posted March 22, 2014 10:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LostTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
...and I get Magician, Page of Pents and Queen of Pents. How should I interpret this?!

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KayEvans
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posted March 22, 2014 11:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KayEvans     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm.. I may have an idea, but it depends on the exact question. I'm not sure if these cards represent the relationship between the querent and the person she asked about, or the person she asked about and the third party relationship..

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LostTaurus
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posted March 23, 2014 12:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LostTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well hey there Kayyy! How are you?? Querant and relationship, by the way.

Will you be about tomorrow? Care to do some exchanging?

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posted March 23, 2014 08:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KayEvans     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by LostTaurus:
Well hey there Kayyy! How are you?? Querant and relationship, by the way.

Will you be about tomorrow? Care to do some exchanging?


Hey LostTaurus! I'm doing well overall, but am confused about something going on with D. I'm sorry to keep bringing him up, but literally everything else in my life is going pretty well lol! If you can exchange with me later today, my question is why haven't I heard from D? I haven't talked to him since Wed and he never responded to me when I tried to contact him two days ago..we usually talk everyday, him initiating more often than me, so this is very unusual. I'm just a little worried.. I'm confident I didn't do anything wrong here, but who knows..

Anyway, as for this reading, I'm going to write a separate response in a minute. I hope you're having a good weekend

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posted March 23, 2014 08:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KayEvans     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
...and I get Magician, Page of Pents and Queen of Pents. How should I interpret this?!

Okay, my initial reaction when I saw these cards was that this relation is not in the past, but seems to be ongoing. Between these two people I would say there is good chemistry and sexual attraction. When I think of the Magician, I think of those two things, and also charm..good communication (this card reminds me of a Gemini). All three cards tell me that there is something that exists between them, with pentacles showing something solid, but a slow development as far as romance goes. I believe they know how the feel about each other, even if they haven't taken the steps yet to progress it to a new phase. I think it will go there though..

Let me know what you think!

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LostTaurus
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posted March 23, 2014 10:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LostTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by KayEvans:
Hey LostTaurus! I'm doing well overall, but am confused about something going on with D. I'm sorry to keep bringing him up, but literally everything else in my life is going pretty well lol! If you can exchange with me later today, my question is why haven't I heard from D? I'm confident I didn't do anything wrong here, but who knows..


As for being sorry - DON'T BE! Matters of the heart always keep us on our toes, and I'm more than glad to help. I, for one, am really glad to have friends like you to be able to exchange not just cards, but ideas and support with!

As to your concerns...

I knew that instinct instantly took me to professional distractions, and him turning inward to deal with what he perceives to be some real challenges. I went ahead and pulled cards this time, just to be sure, because I'm spread a little psychologically and psychically thin right now, and didn't want to misread the situation because of my own 'stuff'.

I pulled Ace/Clubs, 7/Diamonds, Queen/Diamonds - CONFIRMED! I think he's dealing with something that has impacted his business in a way that seems considerable to him right at the moment - heart-stoppingly so, from his perception! Ten/Spades confirms this for me.

However, I sense STRONGLY that he has the tools to 'turn around' whatever it is, and that all will be just fine. 6/Clubs and 3/Clubs confirm this - financial aid or success and a second chance in an economical sense.

So there's the issue. The issue led me to ask how you could best handle this as a friend and support to him (I know, after all, that that has to be your next question - it would be mine! ). I pulled 5/Spades, Ace/Clubs, Queen/Hearts. With these, I'm inclined to believe your best bet is to step back and let him deal - cheer from the sidelines and let him know you believe in him, but give him the space he needs to handle it on his own.

He's sparing you because he knows these issues have him in a less-than-stellar mood and state of mind, and at this point in your relationship, he just doesn't have the wherewithall to 'put on a happy face'. This shows me two things: 1) that he is consciously thinking of you, and 2) that, even though it's still early, your feelings matter enough to him for him to have put thought into this.

I hope this helps Kay

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posted March 23, 2014 10:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KayEvans     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you The reading does help and fits his personality and situation quite well. Not sure if I mentioned this before, but he's a super Capricorn (most of his planets fall in that sign) and I'm a Scorpio lol.. so I understand his need to retreat when things get hard because I've been known to do the same thing. It's just in my nature though to over analyze sometimes and that can lead me to taking things personally even when I shouldn't. I've learned to get better at controlling that since I've been with him though.. Anyway, all of the readings I've had in reference to us say that we'll overcome the obstacles we're facing now, and I believe it in my heart to be so. Just have to have patience.

I'm so grateful for all of the time you've taken to help give me insight and peace of mind! You have no idea how much you've helped with your readings. Is there a question I can answer for you?

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posted March 23, 2014 10:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LostTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, after the above cards I pulled for myself, I guess I have to ask...what in the world is going on with S? We haven't spoken in a while, but every time I try to 'let it go', I feel this instinctive pull. I don't know what I'm supposed to do with that. He's a Virgo, so I know it's in his nature, but still...where's his head with regard to me right now?

I'm really glad to be able to help, any time!

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posted March 23, 2014 11:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KayEvans     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay, I'm eating lunch now but will pull cards for your question as soon as I'm done!

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LostTaurus
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posted March 23, 2014 12:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LostTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Awesome. Thanks so much Kay!!

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KayEvans
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posted March 23, 2014 01:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KayEvans     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're very welcome!

Hmm.. I've pulled an interesting mixture of cards for your question, which makes me feel like he's still sorting things out mentally and emotionally.
I pulled 10 of Swords, Queen of Cups, and 2 of Swords.. But two cards fell out while I was shuffling for you: 7 of Wands and 5 of cups.
I can see that he has been hurt by whatever has gone on between you two, but believe he knows it is time to start the healing process. A bond does still exist between you two, but he is (or maybe even both of you?) turning a blind eye to the situation and is choosing to ignore the facts that have been placed in front of him. So I'd say that he does still have feelings, but is refusing the acknowledge them as much as he could.
For the two cards that fell out, I see regret and defensiveness.. Looking at everything overall, it really seems to me that S has his walls up and is not really showing the caring feelings that he still has for you. I hate to sound repetitive, but I think these cards are pretty straightforward, as they all seem to be saying similar things. I sense that things have been rocky between you two for a little while now, but that you can't completely stay apart either..
One more card for clarification on how to move forward: 3 of Swords. Old hurt needs to be healed.. honest communication between you two is needed, then you can have a chance at moving forward (with or without him..although I could see it being with him, based on the cards you pulled earlier).
I'm sorry this couldn't be more positive, but I hope this still helps some! Just have an honest talk with him about things and see where you can take it from there. Please give some feedback when you have a chance.

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LostTaurus
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posted March 23, 2014 01:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LostTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Do you have an email address you wouldn't mind sharing? I'd really like to talk about this privately. You can always delete it after I've read it if you prefer... I'd really appreciate it. Better yet, mine is

Can we talk?

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KayEvans
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posted March 23, 2014 01:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KayEvans     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, that's fine with me I'll email you in a few minutes so you can have mine too.

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posted March 23, 2014 02:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KayEvans     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I emailed you a few minutes ago, so just write back once you've received it

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LostTaurus
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posted March 23, 2014 02:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LostTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sent you an email. THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!!

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KayEvans
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posted March 24, 2014 04:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KayEvans     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Update: I heard from him today (finally!) and it was exactly what you said it was.. just thought you'd like to know Thanks again!

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LostTaurus
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posted March 24, 2014 04:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LostTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Glad to hear it Kay

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