posted March 23, 2014 10:21 AM            

Hello
Can anybody here tell me a little about the relationship aspects in my Natal Chart.
I've had difficulty in this department for the past few years and I am starting to think it is down to my Aquarius Saturn in 7th why I constantly push people away or attract toxic people that come to nothing.

posted March 23, 2014 10:44 PM            

Four outer planets in Retrograde suggests a lot of personal development that you will experience as well, but can apply even more psychological pressure which is why the sexual and emotional release seems required but if you could sit longer with this underlying unease and tension, you may gain insight into what is actually the root cause of these issues.

It's also interesting that three planets, Mars, Jupiter and Pluto all have aspects to Mercury and Uranus which are perfectly opposite each other. Pluto and Mars are also sextile each other and touch Mercury and Uranus in soft aspects. This is most likely where you feel the strongest sexual aspects related to a very private side of yourself which you find hard to share with others for while your understanding of power, vulnerability, intimacy and control are well attuned, you won't be able to control the attraction and repulsion of these energies until you balance the opposition between Mercury and Uranus - the intellect vs the higher mind.

So, no - Saturn in the 7th won't be the reason for the push pull - Saturn in the 7th and Venus trine Saturn imply that your understanding of relationships is very serious, down to earth and old-fashioned. With more maturity, they almost guarantee that you can create and will have an enduring relationship in the future.

[edit] I just realized Neptune conjunct Uranus so all previous aspects apply as well. Talk about loaded. You will also need to find a spiritual path that speaks to you - for most likely your spirituality seems lacking to yourself in some way - like a bridge covered in fog that can't truly see the beauty around it.