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fauxcoat
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posted March 24, 2014 12:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fauxcoat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can anyone tell me based on my chart why I have such a terrible reputation? I feel so misunderstood. I feel like people don't see the real me - I equate myself with being the kid on the playground who sits in the corner and the other kids throw stones at to see the response. If one person has an issue with me, 20 of their friends do too even if I don't know the 20 other people. I think I am a good person and try to do the right thing, but I don't think people see this. I wish I could explain it better. If you have any questions I will try to explain further.

I know Neptune in the 10th causes reputation problems, but will it always be this way? It wasn't this way when I was younger. I was well liked when I was younger. I haven't changed as a person but now my reputation is horrible!

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LoadedPistil
Knowflake

Posts: 554
From: NJ, USA
Registered: Feb 2014

posted March 24, 2014 01:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have the same problem. I think reputation is the wrong word for me, but no matter.
I also have Virgo in Mercury in 3rd house and an empty 11th house. 3rd house is communication and my 3rd house ruler Sun is in my 2nd house.
Mercury Semisextiles Sun.
My 11th house ruler Mars in Scorpio squares Venus- the only aspect. That's not good.

Your 3rd house ruler is in Libra. Venus also rules Libra, so I don't know. Mars conjunction is good for Venus.Your 11th is also empty.
Your 11th house ruler Jupiter is in the 4th of home, parents and self-image opposition your MC which causes you to retreat and cling to people you knew as a child-parents or childhood friends or you simply go home.

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Leo ♌️ Sun
Scorpio ♏ Moon
Cancer ♋ Rising
Svātī Nakshatra

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Leorpio
Knowflake

Posts: 62
From: Cypress
Registered: Mar 2014

posted March 24, 2014 01:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leorpio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LoadedPistil is right but another huge thing, and I think the most important, is Saturn in opposition in 7th house to the Ascendant. This would mean its extremely hard for you to relate to others in a relationship kind of way so you would have much trouble forming relationships in general.

Saturn is in Leo. Saturn is what we cannot have. Leo represents recognition and attention. Saturn is in detriment in Leo so its not the best place to have it. This would mean you basically view yourself as inferior and thus give off the vibe that others should as well.

And since Saturn, the planet of restriction, is going against your outside personality and how others see you (Ascendant), its a double whammy of you not being able to relate to others and them not being able to relate to you. If you do not value yourself, others will not value you. Not to mention Aquarius rising can give others a weird impression of you in general, it all culminates with that. It also means your own view of how others see you is stunted and this would in effect, become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Also since you're so heavily libra, you will hesitate to defend yourself in any situation involving conflict, and since you want harmony so bad, you'll just let people step all over you. If I were you I would try to get very angry with myself and learn that where I am in life is not where I have to be. Get angry at the injustice they are pervading towards yourself and try to learn social cues.

I used to have a horrible reputation as well at my school and Libra mars was the culprit. I would just never stand up for myself. Like ever. Eventually you have to, otherwise you'll live in depression forever. Start to love yourself and view yourself in a positive light and things will change Saturn in Leo is urging you to regain confidence in yourself and listen to that inner voice that is trying to tell you you're the sh*t!

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Leo Sun
Scorpio Moon
Capricorn Rising
Leo Mercury
Leo Venus
Sagittarius Jupiter
Pisces Saturn
Capricorn Uranus
Capricorn Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
Virgo Chiron

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