posted March 25, 2014 09:37 PM            

When guys do that they're confused, don't know what they want and *often*...They're just playing games. They go off, do their thing and date ppl, and when it doesn't work out/they get bored/need an ego boost/curious about you they come back.

But somebody that jerks you around like that isn't worth you time. I experienced the MIA behaviour in the past and it's crap. It makes you feel so unsettled and insecure, you deserve a guy who would never let you feel that way.

posted March 25, 2014 09:45 PM            

What's been going on with him?

It seems he needs to work on his issues either way and you should probably move on towards people who are healthy and ready. It'll be best for you.

posted March 25, 2014 09:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Jerseyshore:
He's baaaack. He wants to meet up next week. Can anyone kindly tell me what he wants or how the meet up will go? Is there a future or is this a waste of time? Thanks so much!!

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posted March 25, 2014 09:53 PM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
I will pull some cards - brb

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posted March 25, 2014 09:57 PM            

Empress is showing this is a good time/influence for a meeting between you two to occur. He likely finds you quite attractive.

Priestess is very strong sign, this time around he may come on really strong to you or he will want to so keep that in mind and ask yourself if that's truly what you want?? She is also about following your intuition so don't ignore the little gut feelings you get

Knight of pentacles - this may literally represent this guy. This card represents struggle and conflict so maybe he has been struggling with your relationship..but this knight is dependable and he is a helpful person by nature. He may be very methodical in his approach but he cuts no corners and won't want to make any mistakes.

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posted March 25, 2014 10:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Jerseyshore:
Moonstruck,

This makes total sense. I know his attraction to me is quite strong (and vice versa). The knight of pentacles fits him to a T. I'm almost positive he will come on strong and be the aggressor in initiating contact and/or affection. This is his nature and truthfully I find it appealing. His mind is filled with struggle and conflict at the moment, hence the disappearing/reappearing occurrences. I am on the fence as to whether or not we should meet up. I don't want this to become the 'norm' for our relationship. Thank you! This resonates quite strongly with me. Do you see anything solid moving forward once the hurdles are cleared?

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posted March 25, 2014 10:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Jerseyshore:
Fabulous! Thank you so much. This put a huge smile on my face. x

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posted March 25, 2014 10:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
I can't seem to find my cards anywhere sigh. How long did he disappear for?

When guys do that they're confused, don't know what they want and *often*...They're just playing games. They go off, do their thing and date ppl, and when it doesn't work out/they get bored/need an ego boost/curious about you they come back.

But somebody that jerks you around like that isn't worth you time. I experienced the MIA behaviour in the past and it's crap. It makes you feel so unsettled and insecure, you deserve a guy who would never let you feel that way.

There are guys who will be consistent. You shouldn't settle for anything less. Don't make anyone a priority in your life, when based on their actions, they quite obviously see you as more an option in theirs.

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posted March 25, 2014 10:24 PM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
You're quite welcome. Please keep me updated xo

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