Author
|
Topic: @moonstruck87
|
Twitterbird05 Knowflake Posts: 505 From: USA Registered: Feb 2013
|
posted March 28, 2014 11:31 AM
How are you dear?Any fun weekend plans? IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 851 From: Indianapolis, IN Registered: Mar 2011
|
posted March 28, 2014 11:35 AM
Hey! No plans at all and I like it that way! My last two weekends were packed. I'm okay overall. I'm not sad to see this week end lol How about you?
IP: Logged |
Twitterbird05 Knowflake Posts: 505 From: USA Registered: Feb 2013
|
posted March 28, 2014 11:43 AM
Pretty much the same! With all of the work drama I'm so over this week.I'm dog sitting this weekend and I'm going to just lay low I think. Going out of town next weekend I think... I've been trying to stay distracted from J by talking to guys from online...so far it's working! Still tempted to go to the bar though... IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 851 From: Indianapolis, IN Registered: Mar 2011
|
posted March 28, 2014 01:17 PM
I'm glad talking to other guys is helping! I know how frustrating it can be but he will come around I'm sureChin up lady I'm pulling away a bit from CB - I had a reading done by LP on here and she said he's gotten comfortable and I'm not comfortable with where things are so gotta make him work a little harder I don't see how he can be so content with himself lol but I def sensed the accuracy of that reading He's complacent That's annoying so I can make him guess a little IP: Logged |
Twitterbird05 Knowflake Posts: 505 From: USA Registered: Feb 2013
|
posted March 28, 2014 03:26 PM
Thanks! I hope so.Yeah, complacent is not good. It's so icky when they're hanging around but not really working for it. It's good you're trying to take some control back. IP: Logged |
Twitterbird05 Knowflake Posts: 505 From: USA Registered: Feb 2013
|
posted March 29, 2014 12:40 PM
So a friend of mine was interested in getting drinks tonight and she was asking me if I was going to J's bar. As you know I hadn't planned on it but I'm wondering now if I really need to stay away or whether it really matters if I go or not.What do you think? Should we go there tonight? IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 851 From: Indianapolis, IN Registered: Mar 2011
|
posted March 29, 2014 02:38 PM
I'm not home but my first thought was no I can pull cards for you after while if you prefer IP: Logged |
Twitterbird05 Knowflake Posts: 505 From: USA Registered: Feb 2013
|
posted March 29, 2014 02:49 PM
no as in it doesn't really matter or no as in don't go?IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 851 From: Indianapolis, IN Registered: Mar 2011
|
posted March 29, 2014 02:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by Twitterbird05: no as in it doesn't really matter or no as in don't go?
Oh sorry, I'd say not to not go to that bar IP: Logged |
Twitterbird05 Knowflake Posts: 505 From: USA Registered: Feb 2013
|
posted March 29, 2014 02:58 PM
edited* nevermind.IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 851 From: Indianapolis, IN Registered: Mar 2011
|
posted March 30, 2014 09:05 AM
Hey lady! Been thinking of you. Did you & your friend have a nice time? Did you see J?I stayed in last night. I have been running around all over all week so I was glad to just do some readings and be a bum! Hope to hear from you soon dear. Xo! IP: Logged |
Twitterbird05 Knowflake Posts: 505 From: USA Registered: Feb 2013
|
posted March 30, 2014 09:17 PM
hey! Sorry it took me so long to respond - today ended up being pretty busy.I did have a good time last night, we went to a wine bar instead of J's bar. I'm hoping it'll be for the best that I didn't go. Hopefully he won't forget me. Glad you had a restful weekend and that you figured some things out with CB. I think I have a second date tomorrow night with a guy from a while ago, but I really think it isn't going anywhere because he travels too much for work. Still flirting with this guy AR from tinder and I think we're going to meet up in a few weeks. He's younger, a musician and veryyy attractive, don't think it would be a dating thing but I think it could be a fun time...going to test the water and see, as I've never done something like that before. IP: Logged |
Twitterbird05 Knowflake Posts: 505 From: USA Registered: Feb 2013
|
posted March 31, 2014 10:33 AM
*bump*IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 851 From: Indianapolis, IN Registered: Mar 2011
|
posted March 31, 2014 01:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by Twitterbird05: hey! Sorry it took me so long to respond - today ended up being pretty busy.I did have a good time last night, we went to a wine bar instead of J's bar. I'm hoping it'll be for the best that I didn't go. Hopefully he won't forget me. Glad you had a restful weekend and that you figured some things out with CB. I think I have a second date tomorrow night with a guy from a while ago, but I really think it isn't going anywhere because he travels too much for work. Still flirting with this guy AR from tinder and I think we're going to meet up in a few weeks. He's younger, a musician and veryyy attractive, don't think it would be a dating thing but I think it could be a fun time...going to test the water and see, as I've never done something like that before.
Ooo keeping your options open! Yay! Me too lady! I have a drink date with a feisty Sag guy coming up haha He is very persistent I have no experience with Sags but my Aries moon is intrigued I won't know much til I meet him in person - that's when you can feel if there's chemistry or not CB texted me this morning and asked me how I was, I told him I don't think I should see him anymore bc I thought about what he said and he seems unsure about me and I don't want to get attached if my feelings won't be reciprocated. He just said "okay if that's how you feel" Meh Whatever! I cried but I have to get all the time wasters out of my way so I can find THE guy! I made a lot of excuses for CB - he's quiet/shy, he's been hurt bla bla... Bottom line - he isn't ready to commit and I want someone who is I don't think he's a bad guy but I don't want to feel like I have to make someone see that I'm "worth" it So I have a drink date with the Sag guy like I said - sag sun moon and mercury with cap venus and the aqua mars (like CB, ugh) As to your musician guy - oh man! I always melt for those!! Make sure you're keeping your standards high! Like me, you deserve a guy that is 100% pursuing you and wooing you Hope to hear from you soon twitter XO IP: Logged |
Twitterbird05 Knowflake Posts: 505 From: USA Registered: Feb 2013
|
posted March 31, 2014 01:21 PM
You are so strong for recognizing that and telling him! I'm really impressed...it's so hard to let go. It's a shame he didn't want to fight to keep you...again, kinda complacent. Definitely don't waste your time.I don't have experience with Sag guys either...I'm a Sag tho...do you know what part of the sign he was born in? That is a lot of Sag in his chart! and re: musician guy...I'm not sure I'm looking for a relationship from him. He lives about an hour away and he seems young in his life/lifestyle/mindset. I think I'm just at a point where I want to have fun and am open to a lot of different types of relationships. I've basically been single my whole life and not intimate with anyone until my ex last year. I kinda want to just explore things right now. J is the type I'd want for a boyfriend, but AR is the kind I'd be attracted to but wouldn't be right long term. J is 32, AR is 25. I'm still optimistic that J will come around, and if he does, the other guys will be out of the picture in my mind. IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 851 From: Indianapolis, IN Registered: Mar 2011
|
posted March 31, 2014 02:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by Twitterbird05: You are so strong for recognizing that and telling him! I'm really impressed...it's so hard to let go. It's a shame he didn't want to fight to keep you...again, kinda complacent. Definitely don't waste your time.I don't have experience with Sag guys either...I'm a Sag tho...do you know what part of the sign he was born in? That is a lot of Sag in his chart! and re: musician guy...I'm not sure I'm looking for a relationship from him. He lives about an hour away and he seems young in his life/lifestyle/mindset. I think I'm just at a point where I want to have fun and am open to a lot of different types of relationships. I've basically been single my whole life and not intimate with anyone until my ex last year. I kinda want to just explore things right now. J is the type I'd want for a boyfriend, but AR is the kind I'd be attracted to but wouldn't be right long term. J is 32, AR is 25. I'm still optimistic that J will come around, and if he does, the other guys will be out of the picture in my mind.
Def explore and have fun!! Isn't it funny how we label guys like oh that could be my boyfriend but that guy is just a fun person LOL I do that too and I'm sure guys do it to us also I just think it's funny Anyways, yes I actually cried! I get attached so easily so it's best to break things off now before I became more attached I just know I need a man who ARDENTLY pursues me and makes me feel like the only woman he has eyes for bc that's how I treat my man! This guy (J also, haha!) was born 11/23/83 IP: Logged |