posted March 29, 2014 02:53 AM            

My Q: what was going on in his head/ heart about me when he heard me the other night " bathtub night"?

My q: will I be going to music festivals this year with friends or even a boyfriend? I am ready for fun.

List yours!!!!

posted March 29, 2014 03:41 AM            

(1) VII of Pentacles, reversed: depression, failure.
(2) IV of Swords, reversed: solitude, the separation between mind and spirit.
(3) X of Pentacles: creativity.

He felt sad and lonely- then he started thinking about work (does he have a creativity based job)? The thinking about work was more to do with suppressing his depression.

Q1.2- his heart

(1) The Hierophant, reversed: A misleading person.
(2) The High Priestess: Duality.
(3) X of Swords, reversed: At a crossroad.

All these cards show me dualities. A person who is deceptive- a two-face, if you will. Loving and cunning. That is what his heart felt at the time. Sorry :/

Q2.1- Will you?

(1) The Fool, reversed: A lack of control. You like being in control- but this card says you need to go with the flow.
(2) VII of Pentacles, reversed: Failure/depression.
(3) X of Pentacles: A tradition.

You aren't going to be with him, a person you normally go with. These cards came up again, so I think that is what the message is. It's advising you not to try to control everything.

Q2.2- Going with f/b?

(1) The High Priestess: Patience must be observed.
(2) Page of Cups, reversed: An emotional blockage.
(3) X of Cups, reversed: A blockage.

I think it will not be with either- just on your own. (2) Shows me 1 person. (3) is a group of people. Both reversed, and 'blocked' so to speak.

Let me know if this resonates.

My Questions ( no quotes ):

posted March 29, 2014 04:57 AM            

Mincey, here is your read.

1.My deck is advising that you know that there is a foundation of love in this person and you. You will have to detach a little though emotionally and think more from a logical standpoint. Allow them to seek the solitude that they may really need right now.

Ace of Cups
Queen of Swords
The Hermit

2.It looks like you have felt trapped in your job situation for a while. Page of Pents is a really great omen, relaying that this hard work is paying off. But, with the tower, you will undergo a complete and necessary transformation. Maybe you will decide you want more appreciation and move on or maybe it means you have transformed as a worker and this will bring positive change.

8 of Swords
Page of Pentacles
The Tower

3. Is it a mental ill? Like depression? I get a sense that something in the past has really made him so obsessed/ or tied to it that it caused him illness. King of pentacles is showing a very strong and abundant man. This is great sign. He comes out of this with that strength.the 7 of cups is alluding to a little spaciness, like him feeling a little too dreamy but to me that is sometimes positive when you've been in the dark, because sometimes that dreaminess is forgotten.

The Devil
King of Pentacles
7 of Cups

posted March 29, 2014 05:27 AM            

(1) Ace of Swords: Mental force. I.e. strong opinions.
(2) X of Swords: A refusal of the other.
(3) IV of Swords: Contemplation.

All swords... none reversed. Communication is good. Yes, he has thought of that but has pretty much refused the idea.

2) Not too sure if I can do this, but will try:

(1) The Hanged Man, reversed: You feel gutted now. Nothing. Nada.
(2) Ace of Wands, reversed:Lethargy, problems.
(3) III of Wands: Joyous will to create. I think you need to have your priorities sorted out right now and then manifest. Keep your eyes on the prize.
(4) IV of Pentacles: To have control.
(5) The Star: SUCCESS.

Ok, here is doesn't show me details of how your life will be. It's too turbulent to see. But it advises on knowing what you want and seeking it out as I eventually see you being happy in your position. It will take time, and you need patience.

I keep getting the control cards with you- care to explain and I'm confused..

Q3- 3 cards flew out.

(1) King of Pentacles, reversed: Stubborn.
(2) IX of Cups: Sensual.
(3) VII of Swords: Lone wolf.

I would say a pretty and independant woman who is stubborn.

My question:

1- What does [.] think of me? Where do you see it going in the next few weeks/months?

posted March 29, 2014 05:35 PM            

I pulled 10 of pentacles as where this will be going. I went straight for this card so I think it is very powerful also as I got this before for you. A great card.

posted March 30, 2014 02:04 AM            

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Originally posted by LittleWing:
Bumpyng for Miss Mincey!

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Fell asleep! Will do, just let me have my caffeine.

posted March 30, 2014 02:22 AM            

(1) X of Cups: There is a spiritual connection between the two of you.
(2) The Tower, reversed: He's in a bad situation right now/ egoism.
(3) The Star, reversed: self-doubt and rigidity of mind.

I think you need to let whatever eating him up bottom out before even trying to get close to him. When the tower comes out, it's usually a warning that there is something coming up which will emotionally break him. The coldness you felt what what he was going through, I'd imagine. He could see you as being insecure at this point in time. It changes with his mindset.

Progress:

(1) The World, reversed: Frustration.
(2) King of Pentacles: Well established man.
(3) Ace of Swords: Mental force- usually signifying communication.

He wants you to initiate a conversation. I would advise to stay away for the time being until his massively horrible situation bottoms out- would be better then as he'll be able to give more in return. I think it's to start out as a friendship. When you guys start talking more, you may ask me the romance question as it's all up in the air.

posted March 30, 2014 03:35 AM            

(1) The World, reversed: Frustration.
(2) The Hermit, reversed: Bad habits.
(3) Wheel of Fortune, reversed: A bad time to take risks.

All major cards, all reversed. Something drastic may be done with serious consequences. All cards depict one person- almost like a breakup. Time apart may help, but card (3) says that you may lose the relationship completely. The cards say that if you want to keep this relationship, you accept this part of him.

posted March 30, 2014 04:32 AM            

I pulled Strength, Knight Cups, 4 Cups, Star and TEN PENTACLES.

The last one has come up in your reads a few times so this relationship is very strong. Also looking at the other cards, this holds true to me. Did I pull 4 of cups for you before too? I think so but can't remember.I feel like this may be the major challenge in this otherwise super awesome read. I feel a lot of love in all ways with this partnership and it feels the bond is one that is very very tied together for a long time. Like even in 20 years you will still have special feelings for each other regardless if still in contact type love!!!

My q: I do feel like curly will be seeking me as an ear to listen in the future and I actually enjoy doing that for others. I feel like he is in my life for a reason, maybe a karmic link where we will each help each other, I dunno. After reading your read i felt very sad for curly. My question question is how will I help in in his life in the near future? / Will I be able to help him or at least make him feel free to express his vulnerabilities? (Thank you and no rushing needed I'm very patient! I appreciate all this Mincey!)

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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
Fell asleep! Will do, just let me have my caffeine.

Quick q- do you think the friendship with Swingers will last a long time, or is it a short one?

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posted March 30, 2014 04:46 AM            

How will you help in the future ( my readings have a log of 6 months)

(1) Ace of Wands, reversed: A microphone is depicted in the card
(2) Temperance, reversed: bi-polar responses.
(3) II of Wands- 2 drumsticks crossed with each other.

Do you guys talk about music? It's a good neutral point. Either way, if you reach out to him be prepared for two different people to come out at any given time. The issue he is going through is not easy and is engaging his very emotional side. He can be very emotional and open up with everything at one point in time, and he can be ice cold the next time you talk to him.

posted March 30, 2014 07:50 AM            

i QUOTE]Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
Ah okay- no worries. I actually think that the thing with CS will be a long one, but I think I'm second guessing myself way too often. Lol- yes, I'm looking at building my support system here, and the more I have in the same location, the better.

How will you help in the future ( my readings have a log of 6 months)

(1) Ace of Wands, reversed: A microphone is depicted in the card
(2) Temperance, reversed: bi-polar responses.
(3) II of Wands- 2 drumsticks crossed with each other.

Do you guys talk about music? It's a good neutral point. Either way, if you reach out to him be prepared for two different people to come out at any given time. The issue he is going through is not easy and is engaging his very emotional side. He can be very emotional and open up with everything at one point in time, and he can be ice cold the next time you talk to him.

I still think you should wait this situation out- maybe start talking when things have subsided on his end. You may get burned (card 1 and 2 show fire). [/QUOTE]

posted March 30, 2014 07:57 AM            

This is what it looks like:
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