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Topic: For all of you lovelies who have helped me with the infamous CB!
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moonstruck87
Knowflake Posts: 865
From: Indianapolis, IN
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 30, 2014 03:06 PM
  
First, thank you! For listening to me vent and over analyze and question him, for giving me your advice and using your abilities to help me understand him and thus, myselfI finally made a brave move that was crucial to my state of mind I asked him WTF was going on?!? He said he does like me, he says he thinks I'm very pretty and enjoys being with me. He said he hasn't been very physically affectionate because he doesn't want to lead me on or give me the wrong impression because he is not wanting to rush into a relationship Sooo overall, it is out there. I told him I understand and that I'm not trying to rush into anything either. I thanked him for being courteous of my feelings and I told him that he needs to kiss me more because I'm a big girl and it is important to me to see if we will be compatible down the line. I finished by telling him I don't want to put more energy into "us" if he can't eventually see us as a couple (even if that's much further down the line) So boundaries have been set! Things are clear and now I have more peace of mind I truly appreciate all of you and your beautiful insight Hugs to all IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 750
From: Conway, AR, USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 30, 2014 03:27 PM
AWESOME!!!  IP: Logged |
moonstruck87
Knowflake Posts: 865
From: Indianapolis, IN
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 30, 2014 03:29 PM
I was a little worried but meh! Whatever! If he can't handle a little bit of communication then I don't want him anyhow Plus new moon in Aries is conj my natal moon in Aries and I think there are a few other placements that made me braver It was time  IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 750
From: Conway, AR, USA
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 30, 2014 03:36 PM
Indeed, sister!! Bully for you. Bet you feel like an enormous weight has been lifted, huh?IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
Knowflake Posts: 790
From: NJ, USA
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 30, 2014 03:40 PM
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Leo ♌️ Sun, Venus (2nd House)
Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House)
Cancer ♋ Rising
Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
moonstruck87
Knowflake Posts: 865
From: Indianapolis, IN
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 30, 2014 03:45 PM
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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
Indeed, sister!! Bully for you. Bet you feel like an enormous weight has been lifted, huh?
Yes & now how he acts will show me what his intentions are since we have both said our piece IP: Logged |
Twirl
Knowflake Posts: 3421
From: Europe
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 30, 2014 05:41 PM
Hi Was this the guy I read for too? Good you had that conversation. Do not wait too long if he's not serving  A big yay for you for having this talk! IP: Logged |
poochycat
Knowflake Posts: 523
From:
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 30, 2014 07:11 PM
I AM SO PROUD OF YOU!! REMEMBER I HAD MENTIONED THAT YOU NEED TO TALK TO HIM AND CLEAR THE AIR? WELL LET ME KNOW HOW IT UNFOLDS. LOVE POOCHYIP: Logged |
Twitterbird05
Knowflake Posts: 507
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 30, 2014 09:06 PM
This is so great! I'm really glad you got things out in the open. You should be proud of yourself! IP: Logged |
moonstruck87
Knowflake Posts: 865
From: Indianapolis, IN
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 31, 2014 09:14 AM
thank you all. we will see... Whatever happens, happens and I will be okay IP: Logged |
moonstruck87
Knowflake Posts: 865
From: Indianapolis, IN
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 31, 2014 01:03 PM
I cut things off with him this morning. After carefully considering his reply I decided I deserve better. After dating someone for two months you should have an idea if you can see yourself with that person or not. Since he was still updating his tinder account (dating website) it seemed clear to me he wants to keep his options open I want to be with someone who wants to be with me only IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
Knowflake Posts: 78
From: Jakarta, Indonesia
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 31, 2014 11:25 PM
Haha, yeah better to cut him loose.. I read your new post about him, I think it's better if you direct your energy towards someone else. When a guy said "Ok if that's how you feel." he's absolving himself the responsibility without being the bad guy.We all deserve people who wants to fight for us not half-assing their affection. IP: Logged |
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