posted March 31, 2014 04:20 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
I got something going on right now. I'll be back.

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posted March 31, 2014 07:28 PM            

Fool crossed by Queen of Swords.
Somebody got in the way. I feel like this is somebody not connected to him like a b!tchy cashier when you're trying to get your car fixed or an officer pulling you over or a co-worker who was supposed to relieve you and called out. I refuse to believe that woman is you.
The fool tells me he lost whatever battle this was because he didn't know how to fight it or didn't have the authority to.

Nine of coins in the environment says whatever problem this was has been solved.
Two of cups in the Crown says he has intentions on rehashing your plans. Ace of wands in the near future is determination to succeed. Final outcome is the Ace of cups which does not need explaining on this forum LOL.

posted March 31, 2014 09:35 PM            

Looks like LP gotcha covered (doesn't she rock?!)

posted March 31, 2014 09:56 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
DO. NOT. PANIC.

Fool crossed by Queen of Swords.
Somebody got in the way. I feel like this is somebody not connected to him like a b!tchy cashier when you're trying to get your car fixed or an officer pulling you over or a co-worker who was supposed to relieve you and called out. I refuse to believe that woman is you.
The fool tells me he lost whatever battle this was because he didn't know how to fight it or didn't have the authority to.

Nine of coins in the environment says whatever problem this was has been solved.
Two of cups in the Crown says he has intentions on rehashing your plans. Ace of wands in the near future is determination to succeed. Final outcome is the Ace of cups which does not need explaining on this forum LOL.

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Thanks Loadedpistil! This situation has me spinning. I don't want to be made a fool of but something in my gut tells me not to give up. Men!!

posted March 31, 2014 10:08 PM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
So sorry!! I haven't been on today til a few min ago & just saw this

Looks like LP gotcha covered (doesn't she rock?!)

Best wishes xo

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posted March 31, 2014 10:09 PM            

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Originally posted by Jerseyshore:
Thanks Loadedpistil! This situation has me spinning. I don't want to be made a fool of but something in my gut tells me not to give up. Men!!

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Regardless of the tarot, I don't make excuses for people when the mess up. Very few things give a pass to not taking 1 min to call. Be careful of the behavior you accept. Hold fast to your ideals.
I suspect something happened. Unless he was in jail, a hospital bed, a funeral, a hazmat situation... 1 min to call wouldn't kill him

posted March 31, 2014 10:11 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:

Regardless of the tarot, I don't make excuses for people when the mess up. Very few things give a pass to not taking 1 min to call. Be careful of the behavior you accept. Hold fast to your ideals.
I suspect something happened. Unless he was in jail, a hospital bed, a funeral, a hazmat situation... 1 min to call wouldn't kill him

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^^^ TOTALLY agree! I just went thru 2 months of making excuses for a "shy" guy who got cheated on by his past girlfriend

Bottom line is - if they want you or the relationship to work they will make it happen!!!

It's best to cut thru the BS so you can get to the guy who will make the effort and not make you wonder!!

posted March 31, 2014 10:11 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:

Regardless of the tarot, I don't make excuses for people when the mess up. Very few things give a pass to not taking 1 min to call. Be careful of the behavior you accept. Hold fast to your ideals.
I suspect something happened. Unless he was in jail, a hospital bed, a funeral, a hazmat situation... 1 min to call wouldn't kill him

You're 100% right. Thank you!

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posted March 31, 2014 10:21 PM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
^^^ TOTALLY agree! I just went thru 2 months of making excuses for a "shy" guy who got cheated on by his past girlfriend

Bottom line is - if they want you or the relationship to work they will make it happen!!!

It's best to cut thru the BS so you can get to the guy who will make the effort and not make you wonder!!

XO

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You're both absolutely right. If he wants this to work he needs to make more of an effort. I'm taking control back. Thanks guys!

posted March 31, 2014 10:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Jerseyshore:
You're both absolutely right. If he wants this to work he needs to make more of an effort. I'm taking control back. Thanks guys!

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...and this doesn't mean suddenly you're unavailable power struggle games.
You tell him you're reluctant to make time for him when he wasted the time you cleared for him.

His only reaction should be an apology. "I didn't say I was definitely... Or I don't have to ... Blah blah...."

He's not getting it and you don't have to teach him if that's not on your list of ideals.

posted March 31, 2014 10:29 PM            

And it's a great time for clearing the air too

I had so many repressed emotions/things to say to my guy that I finally just politely asked WTF and then this morning it dawned upon me that I'm over the BS and things being drug out between us

posted March 31, 2014 10:35 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
...and this doesn't mean suddenly you're unavailable power struggle games.
You tell him you're reluctant to make time for him when he wasted the time you cleared for him.

His only reaction should be an apology. "I didn't say I was definitely... Or I don't have to ... Blah blah...."

He's not getting it and you don't have to teach him if that's not on your list of ideals.

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No, I'm not into power games but he has to understand my time is valuable as well. Thanks for the advice. I've been a bit reluctant to speak my mind (due to the conflict he has going on), but I need to express myself better. Hopefully he gets it, if not it's time to move on.

posted March 31, 2014 10:37 PM            

Jersey this is a great time to be taking control back

And it's a great time for clearing the air too

I had so many repressed emotions/things to say to my guy that I finally just politely asked WTF and then this morning it dawned upon me that I'm over the BS and things being drug out between us

I want a man, not a boy![/

Good for you! I hope everything works out for the best.