posted April 01, 2014 12:04 PM            

I feel like this guys use me. It’s like right before they get married (and yes even my ex who still did after he got married) they think of me. Perhaps like Im their last “excitement” before they are no longer single? I don’t know!

Can some one please do a reading for me on why guys (my 2 exs) have done this to me? Im I doing something wrong? I feel like im a joke to them!!

posted April 01, 2014 12:44 PM            

If you feel like you're getting the short end of the stick and are giving parts of yourself JUST to lure him, you will always feel used when things don't fall in your favor.

Date men and give them what you're comfortable with giving without getting anything back. If it will hurt you to give some thing to him at the end if the relationship, don't give it to him. Keep a list of those things and hold off on them until you get what you want, which is clearly a ring.

You can still be lied to and deceived. You're not exempt from that, but you CAN manage what you give in a relationship that does not serve you in the way you need.

There are plenty of things I would love to do with the guy in involved with now, but he's not earned those things. AND HE KNOWS THIS.

Would you cook this candle light dinner if he was already in shakey ground with you and dumped you right today? No? Then put the All-Clad down and order some Chinese food.

posted April 01, 2014 01:05 PM            

six of wands - he talks to you messages you because ur like a conquest for him victory thing he enjoys it he knows he wad with someone else not gonna leave you were like a challenge a thrill for him.

page of pents - he feels you are somewhat immature reluctant to change so again he knows your always gonna have place in your heart for him

seven of swlrds- in regards to his marriage he is content with it feels like he can get away from the single life and his past with her.

let me know if that resonated! I have some questions about AM how he feels about me & will I hear from him again soon?? How does he feel about AH? Are they going to get back together? How does she feel about him?