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yungang_grotto
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posted April 10, 2014 02:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yungang_grotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi and thank you kindly for reading. i have been struggling mostly alone with this question-and my rudimentary astrological understanding, which allows mostly for worry and not true insight! - and would really appreciate your insight. apologies in advance for misspellings due to Smrt phone use and the fact that I can't seem to figure out how to share pics of our charts

I recently got together with a friend (in January) who has now moved in with my daughter and I. We met years ago and spent one intense night getting our hands in the river mud, talking until dawn, not kissing but.. getting along very well, in short.

Things were really magical and beautiful at the beginning of our romance early this year (kindly see Neptune in the 1st in our composite chart and other lovely Neptune things ), but I'm beginning to really doubt the whole thing and I'm writing to ask for some big picture interpretation of our synastry and composite charts... As well as the transits to composite charts this upcoming month.

Do you feel like our saturn square venus for instance is balanced out by kindly #Jup and #Nep stuff? Sorry for my layman's understanding! I am so humbled and impressed by everybody's knowledge-mine is really in beginning stages though my non astrological obsessed friends think I know what I'm talking about!

It looks like a break up could be imminent given upcoming transits to our composite chart involving #Ura and #Moo. and yet it doesn't feel like that's the whole story yet... and he had no idea I'm thinking this-or maybe he's just hanging in there anyway. He has a history of doing that (quadruple cancer).#Can#Can#Can#Leo#Can

I have a history of not letting go easily but I am feeling strong now and more like i really need to follow the right path for me... find a house in the woods (my NN in Pisces in the 4th) and do chi gong... which he is into as well... But I don't feel extra extra comfortable in his presence or as inspired as I was... and yet I feel like we could really support each other in lots of ways and have a vibrant creative life. Also the challenges and fighting we have encountered are good teachers. The doubts I'm feeling might be rooted in my own tendency to look for problems etc
He's a musician and we are exploring tai chi and energy work together. That's very much in line with what I really want to do with my life and he's been practicing ten years.

i have a considerable inheritance from my father who passed away two years ago and I'm a little worried about his tendency to try to live for free in the past and the way that the financial dependency he currently has on me might play out. He says it is not a major factor in wanting to be together but i do wonder anyway. There was really a lot of love and excitement in the beginning so i don't doubt the verity of his truly wanting the whole package...

He feels very committed (quadruple cancer-sun moon Mercury and North node), and excited to be a father and things have moved so quickly-he and my daughter have formed a bond. I have a bit of paranoia around potential abuse because my mom experienced some terrible things with her step dad and I tend to construct worst case scenarios which do not ever manifest.

I'm worried about my composite chart with him which features a Venus square Saturn in quite close orb, as well as my daughter's composite chart with his having a Venus square or opposition Uranus (can't quite recall).

I hope it's alright if I just copy in our birthdays as I'm not sure if I'll succeed in posting our charts

Me
November 13 1988
Winnipeg mb Canada
5 56 am

my daughter
March 29 2011
winnipeg mb
4:02 am

and his birthday is
July 19 1982
Winnipeg mb
10:30 pm

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