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Spritualjourney
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posted April 11, 2014 07:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Spritualjourney     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That M was seeing someone else the entire time we were together I'd like to know where is their relationshio headed?
Please leave ur Q.

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Britannia
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posted April 11, 2014 07:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Britannia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi spiritualjourney!
i tried to pull few cards for you and this is what i got:

the ring/ the whip/ the horse/ the heart/ the snake

he is in a more stable bond with the other woman, almost like they are engaged or in that zone already. he is a smooth talker and doesn't mean what he say all the time. he is going to show you love and kindness to try to get into your pants. i see arguments between you two, or difficulty to communicate on same level. i see love and romance in the relationship with other lady and probably engagement coming next as you see the ring there. you are advised here to be aware that he is a charmer and would try his way into your life suing his charm. question his intent!

let me know what you think/
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can you tell me about this overseas connection who will enter my life soon. in what capacity they will enter my life and what should i do about them?

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cherful24
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posted April 11, 2014 07:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Awe, IM sorry I totally know how you feel like going to the same thing. it really sucks and men are ******** . so this could be what my reading was about , that there would be misgivings, u know all the answers so don't get your hopes up so if the above reading is correct that he's going to try to get into your pants know that it's not going anywhere. don't get fooled, like I did...ugh!

go out for drinks and vent with your girlfriends!!!

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FairyDust75
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posted April 11, 2014 07:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Awww I'm so sorry to hear that. I wish there was something I could do to help you. Just know that it will take time but things will get better for you. Try to focus on the positive and what a fool he is and how wonderful you are. Hugs to you!

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Spritualjourney
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posted April 11, 2014 07:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Spritualjourney     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks guys but i cant stop crying i accidently met her tonight & she seems crazy, i honestlty dont see what he sees in her. Im so depresssed & confused right now. I can't stop crying.

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FairyDust75
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posted April 11, 2014 08:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm so sorry to hear that. Just let it all out. You just have to live through your pain right now. I know it doesn't seem like it now but it will get better. Just keep breathing and mourn this the way you want. Be strong and take it one day at a time.

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Britannia
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posted April 11, 2014 08:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Britannia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey spiritualjourney! you don't have to cry over something that was not your fault! it is his wrong doing. i find you to be the blessed one to have come to know about it and so can exercise your free will to get rid of toxic relationship in life. do yourself a favor girl. you invested in something and it didn't work out! fine! you have learned something that you won't repeat again and so will be consciously looking to interact with better people in life.
i see it as a sin to cry for your mistakes. you are much more powerful in my book than you were before. give yourself credit for it as you have earned it.

not a single person here can claim that they haven't gone through relationship issues. not even one!
your life is much more beautiful without such people than with them. go out with your good friends and have fun. enjoy your life, don't bother about those who are not worthy of your attention. your life is your own making. strive to create the best out of you, and it happens only when you experience life.

all of us here want you to smile, make happy moments and forget about mistakes. you have learned the lesson well. kudos!! your life is much more rich now than it was before.
live honey... LIFE wants you to live it....SHE is standing right in front of you asking you to pay attention and take as much as you can from it.

here from all of us out here

*********BEAR HUGSSSSSSS AND KISSES TO YOU*********

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cherful24
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posted April 11, 2014 09:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Read her blogs, she's great!

It helped me! http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/about/

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littlecloud
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posted April 11, 2014 10:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlecloud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You should tell the girl. Chances are that she didn't know either so she's getting played just the way you did.

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Twirl
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posted April 12, 2014 02:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm so sorry! How horrible & what a ***** !
Think there are some pretty good comments on this thread, hope they may help you. Did you speak to him about it? Confront him?

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Spritualjourney
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posted April 12, 2014 03:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Spritualjourney     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you everyone for responding and for your support.


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Twirl
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posted April 12, 2014 04:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi. I'm out most of today & tomorrow, so I am not up for free readings atm (still have some paid ones to get to). Sorry. I do hope someone else can give you more insight on this.
It's just really sucky
Wishing you a great day regardless to the situation!

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Ellynlvx
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posted April 12, 2014 05:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm so very sorry.

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Ellynlvx
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posted April 12, 2014 05:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I got Justice and that Reap what you Sow one and the Aries one True Vision.

Sounds like he's headed for Karma.

And this.

PISCES 13
A SWORD, USED IN MANY BATTLES, IN A MUSEUM

When reminded of the battles of the past, we are influenced towards peace, but also uplifted by the symbolic memory of valor. You may find yourself faced with the choice of fighting or reasoning which is confused by your lack of training or experience in the ways of battle. You may be faced with the choice of fighting for something or reasoning with the intellect. It's time to lay down one's 'sword', not in order to surrender, but to stop the 'warring'.

Willpower. Martial arts. Putting aside thoughts of vengeance and revenge. Hanging up or laying down one's sword.

The Caution: A lack of sensitivity. A pretense of one's abilities. Falling on one's sword from defeat.

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LittleWing
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posted April 12, 2014 06:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LittleWing     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Many kisses to you spiritual. What a dirty sewer rat.
Yee shall overcome.

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Spritualjourney
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posted April 12, 2014 06:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Spritualjourney     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Twirl: No worries Twirl. Thank you & hope you have a wonderful day too

@Ellynx: Thank you for your reading, very much appreciate it. I'm not sure I completely understand the last part though...is it a message for me to 'put down my sword', surrender to this situation?

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Ellynlvx
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posted April 12, 2014 07:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Don't shoot him.

It might get you in trouble.

We like you here.

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Spritualjourney
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posted April 12, 2014 07:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Spritualjourney     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the clarification Ellynx. I like you guys too

@Littlewing: Thanks for your comment dear

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FairyDust75
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posted April 12, 2014 10:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How are you feeling today?

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Spritualjourney
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posted April 12, 2014 10:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Spritualjourney     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Fairydust: Thanks for asking. Still feeling really ****** , confused, a whirlwind of emotions & numb at the same time. I'm trying to change my focus and think positively, see the silver lining, which is helping a bit.

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Jerseyshore
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posted April 12, 2014 10:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jerseyshore     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Spiritual,

Please allow yourself time to grieve. It's okay to be sad and experience an abundance of different emotions. This is his cross to bear - karma will take care of that. You just need to focus on healing, which WILL happen in time. We have to kiss a lot of frogs before we find our Prince, dear. Hang in there - it will get better, promise!! x

BIG HUG
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Spritualjourney
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posted April 12, 2014 10:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Spritualjourney     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Jersey You're absolutely right.

Thanks again everyone for all of your support and words of encouragement, it really means a lot. So happy to be part of LL with such loving people

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Britannia
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posted April 12, 2014 11:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Britannia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
no worries spiritualjourney! you don't have to try it again. please take good care of yourself!!

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Originally posted by Spritualjourney:
Thank you everyone for responding and for your support.

Britannia: I tried doing a reading for you but I'm getting nothing, I think I'm just not in a good place right now. I promise I will give you one. I'll try again later today.



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Spritualjourney
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posted April 12, 2014 11:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Spritualjourney     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks B Hoping I'll get over this soon.

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FairyDust75
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posted April 12, 2014 12:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with JerseyShore. You have to allow yourself time to grieve. Just take things one day at a time, one minute at a time if you have to. You will have your good days and bad but just breathe through the bad. That's all you can do. Just know you are far more worthy and deserve better than him. I know you don't feel that way now but you will live through this. One step at a time. One breath at a time.

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