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posted April 14, 2014 11:49 PM            

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posted April 15, 2014 12:46 AM            

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You sound just like me. Nothing is wrong with you. There are just some people that are not right for one another even though you might have an initial romantic attraction. It isn't YOU. The right person will match well with you and you will look back on all the previous relationships that didn't work out and you will say "thank goodness they didn't work out".

I'm the type that wants relationships to work out even though I know deep down inside that we are not a good match. I had to learn to trust that things are not working out for a reason...that someone who is better is coming along down the line.

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posted April 15, 2014 12:58 AM            

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I've never been in a good relationship or relationship period ...i can only think it is me who is the problem seeing everyone else celebrating their next steps in life is bittersweet sweet that all my friends are happy and in love but I'm sad that I'm nit there or even close feel I never will be ...if I at least can say I had relationship have been loved than I would be fone but when continually being treated like crap of made too feel worthless it takes it toll

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posted April 15, 2014 01:29 AM            

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Hi, this is not a psychic advice, I don't have much time atm but I just want to say, do not put your worth into relationship- you will fall into depression fast when you do.

It's hard I know, it's nice to feel wanted. But... relationship would not fix the insecurity and self esteem problem. It will exacerbates it when you break up.

You're probably about my age so I understand, but be strong. I really understand what you're going through.

Try to find something you feel like you're good at and focus on that.

I'm here if you want to talk, it's ok to be vulnerable.

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posted April 15, 2014 01:31 AM            

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Your posts make me really sad, I'm sorry you feel this way...

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I had my 20 min free session with her last week and it was great...
http://www.larueeppler.com/customized-sessions.html

You can listen here to how she works - http://www.evo-k.com/2009/10/anxiety-and-depression/

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posted April 15, 2014 01:39 AM            

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posted April 15, 2014 10:39 AM            

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You not unworthy. If you want a relationship, you have to try to help yourself by putting yourself out there. Try different avenues such as online dating (this can be a good start), meet up with a few people (always in public places!) to build your confidence up. Join activities that you like where you can meet similar minded people. Look for any events in your town or nearby cities that cater to singles (like single mingles, networking events). You have to put yourself out there. Trust me, I have been in your situation many times. The more you put yourself out there, the more likely you will find someone who is a good match.

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