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peacefulclouds
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From: Jakarta, Indonesia
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 17, 2014 06:20 AM
  
Anyone up for it?  I'll pull 1-3 cards for your query.My question: After a long while, had a coffee with a friend and he was pretty cold and very inattentive (pretty disrespectful), what is his problem? let me know if any interested IP: Logged |
Twirl
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posted April 17, 2014 06:31 AM
I will. I have a pet question.
How effective will the change in diet be for B.? Will it make him feel better or should I look at other options? Thanks. I'll hope to do yours within the hour IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
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posted April 17, 2014 06:32 AM
Tell me your q Twirl Also can you add insight to my reading (still the same friend) if it's best to put my friendship with him to rest? this year has been pretty interesting in terms of friendships and relationships for me. (I always feel guilty cutting out friends out of my life so I would love an insight if maybe it's the right or wrong choice at times) IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
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posted April 17, 2014 06:37 AM
I pulled one card for you- but as with all question relating to health, it's better to consult a professional.
Death
Despite the scary card, I don't think this means a literal death. Strictly yes/no speaking, this means no, it doesn't eliminate the problem your pet is having but it might help to see that it is not the sole problem (clarity). It is better to look for other options as well, perhaps a vet visit if you haven't already.
Do you need any specificities? IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
Knowflake Posts: 524
From: Ingerland
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posted April 17, 2014 06:39 AM
hey peaceful, would you like to exchange?IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
Knowflake Posts: 197
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posted April 17, 2014 06:43 AM
Sure Mincey, how was your friday? tell me your q. I have a question regarding friendships again- Is leaving social circle (x) a good decision or is it just me being emotional? IP: Logged |
Twirl
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posted April 17, 2014 06:49 AM
Thanks. Death to me is a transformative card. But I don't think one card shows it all. It doesn't look too bad I think. This change in diet is in cooperation with the vet by the way. The pills he was on can have huge long term side effects, even though it's a highly effective treatment. IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
Knowflake Posts: 197
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Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 17, 2014 06:54 AM
Sorry for pulling just one card, health readings are a bit tricky for me still because its nature often are less fluid than emotional states, so i try to be concise about it as well. I agree it doesn't look too bad. It's not a negative card. it might be a no as in eliminating the core problem but could shed a light to other options (clarity). IP: Logged |
Twirl
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posted April 17, 2014 06:56 AM
For your friend. I cAn imagine. Asked what I should know. Firstly it seems he is very busy with his own life & trying to attend to all of his own life areas. Which made him absent and/or gave you an absent feel. I do think you are both going different paths, even if pretty sudden. You are not on the same level anymore. And he has great plans to do everything differently. So I think he felt the same way about this coffee - bit bored & the realisation the connection was unsatisfactory. I would prepare for him to leave your life. IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
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posted April 17, 2014 06:57 AM
Thanks! that's actually a good news, he was a good friend but maybe it's time we part ways. IP: Logged |
Twirl
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posted April 17, 2014 06:59 AM
quote:
Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
Sorry for pulling just one card, health readings are a bit tricky for me still because its nature often are less fluid than emotional states, so i try to be concise about it as well. I agree it doesn't look too bad. It's not a negative card. it might be a no as in eliminating the core problem but could shed a light to other options (clarity).
That's okay. If you are not comfortable with this, I understand. I don't do health readings for others. But I do look into possible improvements etc. in applying a healthier lifestyle. He is just suffering from old age & we are trying out different foods, supplements, & meds to see if he will feel a bit more lively.
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peacefulclouds
Knowflake Posts: 197
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Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 17, 2014 07:01 AM
I apologize, feel free to ask another question if you ever need to. IP: Logged |
Twirl
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posted April 17, 2014 07:03 AM
quote:
Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
Thanks! that's actually a good news, he was a good friend but maybe it's time we part ways.
You are welcome. Does it ring true for you too? Has it not been the same for you for a while? IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
Knowflake Posts: 197
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posted April 17, 2014 07:09 AM
I think what resonates is that he's trying to do things very differently. things has been on the upswing for him (career wise), so he might be thinking to shed old ways.I can't fault him, we're just on different paths (I am doing pretty well career wise as well just on wildly different path than him.) Another that resonates is your statement about 'the connection' is no longer there, I think that is true too. Hard to talk to him on that coffee meet. Maybe it's ok to move on IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
Knowflake Posts: 524
From: Ingerland
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 17, 2014 07:11 AM
Peaceful- sorry, I nipped out to do something. I'm back. Just give me a few mins. It's Thursday here 2 questions:
1- What do you see happening between VF (a law firm) and I? They want to interview me, but I don't know if it will be a long term or short term position.
2- I just completed an application to A- will they call me in for an interview based on the application with no more amendments? IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
Knowflake Posts: 524
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Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 17, 2014 07:16 AM
Leaving the group good or bad?I'm getting some very good cards, so leaving them in the past is a good thing. (1) Ace of Wands: courage to move on. Being listened to.
(2) The World: accomplishment, completion of a personal cycle.
(3) King of Cups: Wise, calm. Yes, a good decision. Am I wrong to feel like they were holding you back or constantly bring up the past? You seem to be more.. happier without them around and have more freedom to do what you need to do in life. Anymore questions? IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
Knowflake Posts: 197
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Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 17, 2014 07:53 AM
1st question: (law firm)
I pulled Ace of Wands, fresh beginning! Seems like it started as short term but if you put your mind to it (aka bringing your own thoughts into things, putting new ideas etc) it could lead to long term? I always associate ace of wands as something like a burst of fervor timing-wise.
2nd question: (amendments or not)
I pulled The Empress. Normally this is a very positive card, but the key word for the empress is 'gestating', so it suggest more patience needed. It could also mean that they might ask you to make more amendments ('gestating' period.) .... to make more solid footwork.
I will pull a clarifier card for this one..
The Seven of Cups, ouch. Might need more amendments to get it accepted fully, it signifies lack of focus (and I often I associate 7 of cups as future frustrations as well). Sorry if the 2nd reading is not clear.  IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
Knowflake Posts: 197
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Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 17, 2014 07:55 AM
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Yes, a good decision. Am I wrong to feel like they were holding you back or constantly bring up the past? You seem to be more.. happier without them around and have more freedom to do what you need to do in life.
Not really but they're related to SH (you know who) so it doesn't bring the past, just directly connected. Not their fault, I think i'm the one who has to go IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
Knowflake Posts: 524
From: Ingerland
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 17, 2014 08:04 AM
fair enough peaceful. I sent the A application in because I didn't know how else I could better it. What you were picking up was my hesitance to work for a bunch of c@cks, if you know what I mean. I was being pushed by 2 virtually unrelated ppl to apply to them. As for VF- it's very small but they do amazing work. I believe it will be for an interning thing- but I don't know if they are accepting trainees at this point.. could you look further into that? Hmm, king of cups could hv meant him them. All in all- I think it was a good thing to distance yourself from them. You can move on more easily. It's never easy though :/ IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
Knowflake Posts: 197
From: Jakarta, Indonesia
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 17, 2014 08:10 AM
Oh man, for VF I pulled The Ace of Cups... that's a very positive card no matter how you slice it, so maybe they will!
Another question, I will have to attend a double-bday party of a mutual friend. I can't avoid because the said friend is leaving the country, so SH will be there with his girlfriend (since it will be his bday also). I had bought a gift for him before we decided to stop talking, and I thought since I'll be coming anyway, I should just give the gift anyway, so no more things left behind that reminds me of him. There will absolutely no problem with the girlfriend (I am sure of this)
Could you pull a card or so, to see how it will go? Will I be fine and how will he react? IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
Knowflake Posts: 524
From: Ingerland
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 17, 2014 08:18 AM
(1) VI of Wands, rx:
(2) Queen of Wands, rx:
(3) The Emperor, rx:(2) and (3) show them being together, I would be a bit worried about how you will handle it to be honest as (1) says you'll feel like as if you've lost someone close and dear to you. I believe it will go off without a hitch, but keep your emotions in check, okay? Brace yourself- it's not easy but you're there for your other friend. IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
Knowflake Posts: 197
From: Jakarta, Indonesia
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 17, 2014 08:21 AM
Good to know, thanks IP: Logged |
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